Saturday, January 21, 2023

Blathering Bloviating Babbling Babble. :)

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I like words. I like books. I like reading, learning, writing, expression, jotting down thoughts, ideas, concepts and finding out interesting things about our world and other people. I love libraries, book stores, and really miss the old second hand book stores, those hole in the wall used book stores, finding treasures and unknown authors, old tomes, books with dusty tops and cracked spines. 


Knowledge, history, science, law, astronomy, old religions, old customs, biographies, geography, about humans, our ancestors, cultures, sex, pretty much anything and everything. So...you know I'm not going to like the following, lol. 




I would like to ask these morons a question. Have they ever head of....the Internet? I mean, banning books, blocking and censoring what young people might be able to read at a school or public library...makes no fucking sense when all that same information is...on their phones or PC. It's just stupid. Beyond the fact that knowledge never harmed anyone, information, facts and education being a good thing, not a bad thing...ever...the futility of trying to thwart people from learning when they have all the information and knowledge compiled together by humankind at the tips of their fingers via the Internet...what a bunch of jackasses.  :) 
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 On to other Topics...that Involve...Words.  :) 

I came across this cuckolding question on some site and just thought how unfortunate it is. What struck me was how the guy described his plans based on his life's hopes of a relationship with a dominant woman. His education in all this being porn. Reposted below as I found it, typos and all: 

{"I don't know what to do. If someone can understand my situation and know how to guide, please do! 
Alright, I am single male. I am very shy and introvert by nature. I never been with anyone before romantically and/ or sexually. Approaching someone on such matter is next to impossible thing for me because of my nature.But after all I am human being and have physical/ mental needs to fulfill. So my only escape route to fulfill my needs is through the online world of porn and sex stories sites. What I used to think for fantacy and just to release my sexual tension in lonliness, now I strongly feel that I want it in real. My favourite topic in porn surfing and sex stories in about wife sharing and cuckoldary. Day and night, I cant think of anythign else but dream about being a cuckold hubby myself. I have my fantacy world carved out of many hours of porn and sex stories I had done. When I think and dream about it, I feel so happy and can help myself release tension. On the other hand, I also strongly feel like being a normal person and having and enjoying normal romantic and sexual relations like many others in society. I am suppose to be getting married now, but still I dream of such things. Such feelings and thoughts are affecting my day today life. I cant sleep well, I cant focus well on job, my health and mental state is always disturbed. Because of this push-pull of opposite feelings and desires, I always go through great internal struggles. What to do?"}

Beyond what appears to be a need for a shrink visit and maybe some OCD medications, his hopes are not based on reality but porn sites and sex stories. 

Look, while my marriage and life is far from anything even remotely normal, I am a fan and advocate of marriage. Sure, mine is not monogamous (on my side anyway, lol) and far from conventional. Still, it is something that can be mutually rewarding and beneficial for so many couples around the world. What's missing in the above post is anything and everything to do with what happens the majority of the day and night when people are living their lives and not having sex. One could say that my marriage is certainly a Female Led Household type. But that encompasses so much more than sexual domination. 

We own a couple of mainstream businesses. So, we have employees and all the details related to that, plus of owning homes, land and so on. There are thousands of things that have to be done, and I run all of them. My husband is very good at what he does, but he's not a leader. I am. So whether its taxes, landscaping, ordering or repairing office equipment, a new roof, car maintenance, scheduling doctor visits and making sure they are kept, grocery shopping, payroll taxes, getting the dogs and cats to the Vet for shots and checkups, all those millions of details that I'm in charge of...that reflect or are an aspect of my being bossy and dominant...you never see or read that in most FemDom porn or stories. 

I love cooking and baking and entertaining. I also am a health nut. I absorb recipes and write my own and drive all over town looking for the freshest and healthiest produce and meats and fish etc...to make sure that anyone that eats anything I make is healthful. I care about my husbands health and of the health of my friends and family. My insistence on all of this is (again, repeating myself) an aspect of my being bossy and dominant and are something you never see or read about in most FemDom porn or stories.  

I view my marriage as a team effort. Trying to get through life, living as long as possible, enjoying life, traveling, eating, drinking, fucking, doing all the things I enjoy...requires planning and effort to accomplish these goals and dreams. For me, that means I have to pretty much run the whole operation as I am demanding and bossy and exacting with high expectations. And those expectations will be met. This is (yes, once again) something that is a reflection or is an aspect of my being bossy and dominant...and yes again...you never see or read that in most FemDom porn or stories. 

I have no problem with porn or erotica and as some people may know, I've made some and written some myself. At the same time, real life female led relationships and domination include what happens the other 23 hours of the day when I'm not spanking, caning, ball slapping, facesitting and cuckolding my submissive husband. That's real life...and it can be a great life. I hope that others can find and achieve the same for themselves but that is simply not possible when people have unrealistic expectations and/or base their hopes of a life spent with a dominant woman...based on FemDom porn. 

Guys, you want to be with, to love and honor and worship and spend your life with a dominant woman? Great, truly...I mean who would support that more than I? Get out there in the real world and apply yourselves finding her. She's there somewhere...I can guarantee it. I can also guarantee that shes not going to be anything like what you may have seen or read in most FemDom porn or stories (well...unless they're mine of course, lol.)  :)
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Cuckold Jealousy? 

I have a question for all you cuckolds out there. Your lovely wife is out on a fuck/date with a sexually superior man. You are left waiting at home with that cuckold angst, the nerves, the excitement, the blue-balls, maybe caged, that sexual energy, teased and denied, anxiety, probably in her wardrobe, staring at her panties, and trying to stroke your cuckold cock. Are you mostly jealous of him...or of her? 

I mean he is kissing, stroking, caressing your wife. He might be tasting her and she might be tasting him. She may be sucking on his cock and/or licking his balls. Do you wish it was you? Do you wish she had invited you to tag along and maybe order you to take his flaccid penis in your hand and/or mouth and to stroke or suck it into a raging hard on with veins pronounced and balls filling up with that superior manly sperm?   

He's going to fuck your wife. He's going to ejaculate inside her. You remember what that feels like right? Pumping in and out of her pussy (probably a loose pussy if you have a little dick) until your little cuckold balls empty? I mean for some of you its probably been quite a long time since she allowed you access to her pussy with anything other than your tongue. And good call on her part. I barely even recall the last time I let my husband put his cuckold dick inside me.

But some of you get excited by fluffing a dick. Some of you love/hate the thought that she might make you take your "treat" directly from the source. You hate the thought of it...its what queers do. Yet your dick is hard and you question, wonder, maybe even salivate at the thought of those superior Bull balls emptying in your mouth and spewing that manly mess all over your tongue. 

So, are you jealous of him for being qualified to fuck your wife? Or are you jealous of her for spending time with a superior male? Maybe I'll go ask my cuckold husband this question, just to watch him stutter and stammer knowing he's getting blue balls and later sit on his face while I beat on those cuckold balls with my riding crop.  :) 
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A couple random photos I found and love.  


22 comments:

  1. Vanessa!
    Great post!
    Ok one thing at a time
    First: pants and a shirt?
    Where is your lovely bare bottom:)
    Second: I don’t think that we are going to have to worry about republicans much longer
    After 2 years of loony tune wingnuts investigating what ever their going to investigate they won’t be able to get elected dog catcher!
    RIP dumbasses:)
    Third you are exactly right about marriage
    Sex is the smallest part of it
    And finally:
    You seem to have a very well balanced productive happy life and marriage
    Congratulations!:)
    I feel the same about my life
    I do exactly what I like each day:
    I market cook clean the kitchen after all meals stretching and exercising for a couple of hours ride my bike and most satisfying
    Play 18 holes of golf every day!:)
    I’m a scratch golfer and nothing brings me more happiness:)
    I do yoga and think golf is zen like
    Course I somtimes do yoga naked with a butt plug firmly up my bottom!:)
    But it still counts a yoga
    Doesn’t it?
    Love you Vanessa:)
    WC

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  2. I will just state...ask really...have you been drinking?
    Lol...just joking, thanks for the post WC. :)

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  3. Haha!
    No drinking but a few edibles:)

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    1. Okay, now it all makes sense. I don't do that...I inhale. :)

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  4. Vanessa - Once again you demonstrate that you truly are the best blogger in the entire blogasphere. Intelligent, insightful and interesting your posts are always a true pleasure to read. Knowing that you compose them whilst also running your businesses, husband and menagerie makes me even more in awe. Quite how you find the time I have no idea but I am pleased you do.

    Can I answer your cuckold question even though I am not cuckolded? Were She to ever cuckolld me I would be even more in awe of Her domination of me for taking Her pleasure however and with however She pleased knowing i could not. i would also be a little jealous as well for getting to enjoy his cock. I would definitely hope She would save some sperm for naughty old me! By the way you really should ask your hubby these same questions. I would love to read what his answer was AND what you were doing to him when you asked him.

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    1. Your praise is far too effusive...but appreciated, though incorrect, I'm just a babbling bitch, lol. :)

      I take your point about "She" engaging in other forms of pleasure and domination, but as she appears to be sated as is, all is right in her world. I don't generally interrogate cocky too much, his mouth is usually busy in other ways. Instead of "waterboarding" him for answers...he gets "pussyboarded" for my own greedy selfish salacious satisfaction. :)

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  5. All points duly noted bdenied. That's the way it should be, every woman deciding what she prefers, what works for her, doing it for her own benefit and to satisfy her desires. :)

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  6. “ This gag reaction to M's sperm will pass, you will "grow into it", and learn to lick it from my pussy without gagging. You will get passed that, and see the bigger picture......pleasing your wife, and helping to soothe her pussy after a fucking by a real cock like M's.” Cuckold Letters Vanessa Chaland

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    1. Good Lord! What they hell is wrong with that woman!?
      Thank you Anon for both "plug" posts. :)

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  7. “ still want the rawness and newness of some one new. A new lover.” Cuckold Letters

    Only real alpha men with alpha cocks, bodies, and stamina to please Vanessa can get in the cue and perform with consistent elite level sexual competence.

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  8. Truly enjoyed this post from beginning to end. Wonderful to read your take on things….thanks for sharing.

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  9. Vanessa
    Thank god the republicans are so crazy
    It’s fun watching them self destruct:)!!!!!
    WC

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    1. They do not disappoint. Nuttier and more insane...daily. :)

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  10. Vanessa
    I think you do yoga
    Here’s my new yoga technique
    I do all my yoga centered around my golf club
    I grip it just like I do when I whip the ball
    So when I on my back I move the club gracefully in every twist and rotation
    Same while sitting or standing
    It’s done wonders for my golf game
    Course
    I do it naked with a prostate massager up my ass
    I tense and release my pelvic floor muscles as I wave the club to and fro
    Great way to anally masturbate while improving your golf game:)
    Seriously
    WC

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    1. Alrighty then. From what I understand, you play with your balls, while screaming "Fore!"...with a 9 iron stuck up your ass, after riding around in one of those little carts, while getting freaky with your caddie. Got it. :)

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  11. Haha!
    Funny but wrong:)
    I would never put my magic 9 iron up my ass
    It would be insulted!
    Besides that I don’t have a caddie:)
    But
    I do get freaky with trophy wife’s at the country club!:)
    WC

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    1. Fine then...a putter, or whatever. What the hell do I know about golf? :)

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  12. Horrors!!!!!!
    My putter!!!!!
    It loves me even more than my 9 iron
    It would revolt at treatment like that!:)
    Blasphemy:)
    WC

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    1. Okay, I give up. My golf knowledge has been exhausted... :)

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  13. Vanessa - i forgot to say, what a fine pair of bouncing beauties :)

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