Friday, November 4, 2022

Cuckoldry...Cuckolding the Cuckold. :)


Pornhub’s Year-in-Review reported that searches for ‘Cuckold’ increased by 168% in 2021.

Here you go. One of those "expert" articles that I don't really agree with. Mostly because...somehow, the overall tone seems to be...about men. About the cuckold and the bull. Not much about the female. You know, the integral person whom, without her involvement, the "deed" could not exist. I know this will surprise some people due to so many years of getting their education and "expert advice" from cuckold cartoon captions, lol...but cuckoldry is what a woman does to her husband and for herself, not what she does for him.  

cuck·old /ˈkəkəld,ˈkəkōld/:  a man whose wife is sexually unfaithful. 

Cuckoldry is all about whatever the woman says it is. Terminological exactitude means something to some of us. I get that language evolves and is flexible in many ways, but the definition still remains. People would be well served to remember that it does exist in the animal kingdom, of which we are part. I mean the word itself, cuckold, derives from a bird. Cuckoldry exists in numerous species where serial monogamy exists. Beyond the fetish aspect, there are biological reasons such as the "Sperm Wars" theory. And many men are cuckolded, and have been throughout history, without a clue this is/was happening to them. I emphasize (again) to them as its what a wife does to them, regardless if they know it or not. 

I think about a gabillion cuckold porn websites have been made, twice as many memes, even more captioned photos and cartoons, a forest worth of paper used for books and of course the digital equivalent of verbiage via forums and blogs expounding on the fantasy of some men, many men really, men seeking women to match their own fantasy, men running ads seeking a woman to act out their fetish, focusing on their preferences, opinions, desires and so on. However, there is one common theme throughout...without a woman eagerly desiring and willing to participate in this, which there obviously is a dearth of same because our fantasy may not match yours, or we laugh at the "mansplaining" on this, without this match, all the aforementioned means nothing because, no cuckolding occurs. So in that regard, cuckoldry is all about...whatever the woman says it is. This is my opinion, and I am unanimous in it.  :)




Hmm..now I'm going to be suspicious of people that mumble more than average while...wearing a mask.  :) 

13 comments:

  1. Ms. Chaland

    Haven't read much from the Woman's point of view on the subject matter.....let alone from one that is clearly accomplished at the act and writes to the point....in a refreshing manner....and a laugh out loud from the masking pic....nice way to start my day.....thanks...as always thought provoking as well.

    hs

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  2. “And many men are cuckolded, and have been throughout history, without a clue this is/was happening to them. I emphasize (again) to them as its what a wife does to them, regardless if they know it or not.”

    True because I now know it’s happened to me many times without her ever admitting. One exception is one girlfriend admitting she slept with X with no explanation why.

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    1. That can be no good, at all, or in some cases, okay, or in some cases, fantastic. Just depends on the people involved and the dynamic of the relationship.

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  3. I think cuckolding is fascinating
    It’s the logical next step in a femdom relationship
    The dynamic is red hot for the submissive male and his mistress
    The bull is really just a prop basically
    Kind of like a human vibrator:)
    At least that’s been my experience
    When I have been involved I tried to treat the husband with a lot of respect
    One because he deserves it and two I am not and asshole by nature:). I hope:)
    That said I think that it would be so hot to dominate a cuckold and his wife!
    Why no pantless pictures Vanessa????
    WC

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    1. All points noted. Regarding pantsless pictures...I presumed readers have seen enough of my fat ass. :)

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  4. Welll done and I could not agree more. Well maybe I could but I dont need to because you really nailed this one down. I think that is why I started my blog because I am sick and tired of the porn view of cuckolding. For me any man that says his wife cuckolds him but he has to be there to watch just does not get it. When a wife is unapologetic and says, "Honey Im going out tonight, dont wait up I may spend the night with him" that wife is doing it for her. When my wife says without hesitation No you cant watch this is just for me and him, then I know she is defining what it is for me to be a cuckold. Great post! Thanks for a ladies point of view!

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  5. We can NEVER see enough of Your beautiful bottom. I just wish I could see it through one of Your queening chairs.

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  6. May I see it through one of Your queening chairs? Any chance of that?

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    1. Maybe...I might try to do a few photos of that sometime.

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