Cuckolding and Dominant Women.

As many others do, I too seem to end up in debates quite often over the semantics of the word cuckoldry and to whom, and what acts it applies. I don't do this for the express purposes of being an anally retentive pedantic but rather for the following reasons.
 
I am not an anthropologist so am somewhat winging it here. However, to the best of my somewhat limited knowledge, we have had precious few cultures or society's that were matrilineal as far as titles and property. Meaning that women throughout history have had very little economic power as it pertains to ownership of land.
 
Obviously on the religious front the majority were designed with a patriarchal society in mind. So we have had very little power or equality in that area as well. Going back through the years there were many that had some version of a polygamous lifestyle with the males being the leaders and they alone having multiple wives. In portions of the Muslim world, males may have as many wives as they desire as long as they are in a financial position to maintain them.
 
So there is no shortage of examples of the male/female relationship dynamic currently and throughout history were women were treated as chattel. No options, no vote, no recourse, and used as slave labor or brood mares for reproducing the males genes and offspring.
 
Ok so back to cuckolding. The dispute seems to stem from the confusion over what is cuckolding, versus swinging, versus wife watching, versus cuckqueaning, versus a just straight up getting busy orgy. Some think the word cuckold should be broadly applicable to virtually anyone of those types of categories or parts of them or some of them. I happen to disagree.
 
The reason I feel strongly about this is that if you take the entirety of the history of human beings in nearly all cases and points in history we have been severely to moderately oppressed by males. And of course this applies to our bodies, our sexuality and in many cases 100% of the female sexual acts, reproductive choices, shaving or not, tanning or not, piercing body parts or not, getting tattoos (voluntarily or not) or not, masturbation, dildos, being ordered to pleasure other males and in some cases females for the amusement of her "husband/owner/Master?, the list never ends.

In the "classic" definition of cuckoldry it implies a sexually aware, sexually aggressive woman who is stepping out of the binds of the traditional marital vows to get properly fucked, with or without her husbands knowledge or approval. Its unique in that its the only "area" (for lack of a better word) where the female does this. This is what makes it rare, it makes it so much more intense and thrilling. In the majority of the above examples its some sort of sex acts, geared towards the males satisfaction, or arranged by him, or proposed by him, for his fantasy fulfillment. In cuckoldry (old version) its about her, its about the female, its about her satisfaction and fulfillment, its about me.
 
So when people want to have two "straight" males, one sub and on Dom where they engage in cocksucking and humiliation games, calling it 'Cuckold Training" and no female is present nor involved, it waters down what cuckolding means to me. When people want to have "Foot Cuckolding" and the endless obsession with BBC, and sex slaves dressed in an apron, or cross dressed, or doing Bull Foot Worship, or talk about "cucks" and run ads saying 'Cuckold seeks Mistress for Phone Sex" and whatever else, I feel robbed of the power that cuckolding has added to my life. Do I really care that others do, call, refer, play whatever "cuckold games" they want?

Not really, its a free country. But while engaging in conversation with me, I only intend to refer to it and to discuss it in the manner in which the definition matches the word. I simply view it as one aspect of equality at least and Female Domination at best. :)
 
Cuckold: cuck·old (kkld, kk-) KEY
NOUN:
A man married to an unfaithful wife.
TRANSITIVE VERB:
cuck·old·ed, cuck·old·ing, cuck·olds
To make a cuckold of.