I’m sure that the reason why I enjoy punishing a man’s balls more than any other part of his body is because of his extreme vulnerability. Sure, spanking his bottom and thighs is very intense and fun for me, but there is something special about causing pain to the most sensitive area he has. My little Cocky is very obedient, and tries very hard to hold still for punishment, but I don’t make it very easy for him.
There are several ways I go about punishing him this way. One is slapping, I slap his dick on the sides, and when I slap his balls, I slap from underneath. Standing is the best way to get momentum, since Cocky is quite taller than I. I also like to punch his balls, always from underneath, sitting in a chair, because when punching, you do not need so much momentum.
Another way to inflict pain on Cocky’s balls is flicking. Using my first and second finger, flicking his balls from all angles. Kicking is probably the most fun for me. Ballbusting can be done with or without shoes, and wearing shoes can definitely reinforce my authority, but I personally enjoy ballbusting barefoot the most. To me it is more of an intimate act with skin to skin contact. Also, I can better control pressure barefoot, building up from light, pleasant bumping to grimace inducing impacts. His upper body jerks forward, and the sounds that are forced from him make me smile.
All of these acts are performed with Cocky standing in front of me, however there is one exception. When I’m sitting on Cocky’s face, I sometimes use the riding crop on his balls to encourage him to do well. The slaps needn't be so hard in this instance, because he is already very nervous being in such a vulnerable position. Add to that his growing suspense knowing any second my pussy will gush my come all over his face, and any small smack of the crop is all that’s needed to get my point across.
Taking control of your man sexually is not nearly as difficult as many may initially think.
Fortunately, I live in a free society where I am free to choose who I have sex with, and many women forget they have this freedom. I am in charge of my pussy and who gets to access it and when. Just because I like how a man looks, or how perfect his body is, or how sexually talented he says he is doesn't mean he can please me, and it doesn't just get him a ticket to ride. My cuckold boyfriend is learning the hard way, as I have slowly introduced rules, rules that ensure he will give me what I need before he even thinks of his own pleasure.
I introduce the training with a promise that I will only fuck his dick after he licks me to my hearts content. In the beginning of his oral training, I allow him to pleasure himself while doing so. This quickly makes him associate licking my pussy with his own pleasure. Also, I don’t say very much, I just allow him to enjoy, sometimes just reminding him that I must come first if he is allowed access to my silky pussy. I even give him access easily during this part of the training, so he will know what he’s being denied later. After a few face-sitting sessions like this, he is eager to lick me, he wants to serve me with his mouth and make me come, he starts to request it before I bring it up.
Slowly but surely I turn things around, I make more demands of him, give more instruction, inflict more pain on his balls. Facesitting is presented as a reward for good behavior, telling him if he gives me a foot massage, cleans my kitchen, and does my laundry, maybe I will wet his tongue with my come. I encourage him by giving him a treat, I place my finger into my pussy, and then rub my finger across his lips and under his nose. This keeps my scent right there with him while he works, reminding him of his goal. He gets to the point where he knows his goal isn't to have an orgasm, it is to give me orgasms.
Face-sitting is most pleasurable for me, and I want it for hours at a time. To guarantee this will happen, sometimes a ruined orgasm is necessary. A ruined orgasm is an important tool, for it prolongs the amount of time he is aroused. If he didn't get to complete his orgasm, his balls still ache, his desire to please still intact, and he remains useful, ready to resume his oral training.
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Glad to see you blogging again. We are both fans of CBT. After a while, I begin to crave her delivering pain "down there", and I know she enjoys it as well. We will typically begin with her orgasm, and if she feels so inclined, she will stroke me and when I'm getting close to orgasm, will back off and slap my nuts really hard. Sometimes she will then move to pinching my nipples, then repeat as I will usually have lost my erection by that time. This can really put me into sub-space.
ReplyDeleteShe started a move that is also very intense: she will grasp my scrotum below the cock and then move downwards in a "milking" motion. It is an intense sensation as it approaches the feeling that she is trying to pull my balls out.
I also enjoy the feeling of being on my knees, balls hanging and her torturing me that way. It's intense because I can't tell what she's going to do.
She doesn't torture my cock that much, although I did like it when she would pull my erection downwards and then snap it back. Made me feel like I was her plaything.
She's never kicked me, there, but she will occassionally smack me in the nuts when I'm not ready for it. For me anyway, my pain tolerance drastically changes between unaroused (it hurts bad!) to fully aroused (I can take a surprising amount of abuse when horny).
It's all in good fun, but I particularly like it when she smack talks during these sessions, things like, "I'm not even hitting them that hard yet"; or "come on, take it like a man". Really adds to it.
Yes, we like CBT.
Thank you for the comments and the story. I'm glad you could write it out "like a man". :)
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