Respecting Submissives & Stuff. :)

 

Sub Abuse - Abuse of Subs. 

While most people I've come across that are involved in, or living some sort of BDSM alternative life, there are some clueless, evil and nasty people out there...that take advantage of subs (male, female, gender fluid) and sometimes subs are under the incorrect notion they have to tolerate this in order to be a "good" submissive. No, nope, hell no, fuck no. 

You are offering yourself, your body, mind, soul, your spirit, to someone to cherish, use, take, appreciate and protect. If someone abuses that, if they can't value what you are, your worth, and your offerings...dump them and find some who will. Being a sub, being down under, beneath, between and behind, below, does *not* mean you should not be treated with dignity, have your limits respected, and be afforded any and all other rights and considerations that all human beings deserve. Sure, these are complex, bizarre to "vanilla" people, strange and unique relationships, not easily understood, hard to arrange and even harder to understand, but egalitarianism must exist, in all cases. 

 A sub does *not* have to do anything and everything, just to be considered a good sub, loyal and devoted. At the same time, I am not a fan of "do-me" subs. Its not the obligation of a Domme to cater to a subs every wish and fantasy. I think a few people stay in a BDSM relationship out of fear of not finding someone else, due to the scarcity of people that have this interest. The fear of being alone, or having to seek out someone else, keeps them in a less than desirable and often unhealthy dynamic. Trying to find someone new indeed is daunting. Running ads, attending munches and play parties, apps, getting hopes up, things don't always work out, it can be exhausting. It helps to approach this with cautious pragmatism. Not being overtly negative, not being blindingly optimistic, just...being realistic as a self protection mechanism. If things don't go well, you won't be disappointed. But when they do, you'll be pleasantly surprised.  :)

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Long Slide Looms for World Population, With Sweeping Ramifications. 

Apparently, not enough people are fucking.  :) 

Probably from a gay website...

 

He really "owned" the libs this time.  :)

 

Imagine the effort it takes to believe all these things at the same time.

Land of the Free, Home of...Go Fuck Yourself.

 

The African Renaissance Monument in Senegal - the tallest statue in Africa.