Body Shaming.

Body shaming is an odd thing. Certainly in a historical context we have been subjected to it more than men. Part of that stems from ancient times when the "worth" of a female was based on her ability to make the man "look good" from an accomplishment standpoint, and to have child bearing hips for breeding and decent tits for breast feeding. Of course the two latter examples are not based on biology because a "hot chick" could have a barren womb or insufficient milk ducts, not to mention have poor mothering skills on top of that.



Most of my life I was disliked by other women for being one of those "skinny bitches" and with the ever expanding girth of the adipose laden gluteus maximus's of Americans, both female and male, its not any better. People in really decent shape are an anomly these days.



And then within the fetish world there are those that get off on verbal humilation over their..."inadequte appendange endowment" and for some, even other body parts. Some Pro-Dommes have made a fortune off of that alone, and surprisingly to some, there are quite a few women who enjoy the same verbal treatment.



The BBW fetish is huge these days. Thats helped non-porn women some with body acceptance based on size. Good for the ego, not so good for the arteries. Obviously from a longevity and health standpoint it would be better if everyone had a proper body mass index thats unique/right for them. But outside of the health issue...people should just be who they are, love themselves and ignore the critics. :)



Here's a photo of me with my little "poochy" belly sticking out. I get asked quite often when I'm expecting, lol. So what? I'm 5' 5" and about 125 and have been the same most of my adult life. So someone is always going to complain, question or "lend advice"....I just laugh and walk away. 

I only mention this as sometimes I feel inundated with articles, blog posts, social media harassment, diet ads, contouring, liposuction, Botex injections, doesn't anyone else get tired of it and one day just decide....fuck it... I am what and who I am and I'm not going to waste my life trying to live up to other peoples expectations.