The most stunning thing about this?
I'm actually wearing pants. :)
Friday, March 10, 2017
Oh Good: Another (Misrepresented) Porn Study.
Why do they bother wasting money on these "studies"? Here's the deal....people like seeing other people naked...always have and always will. There's your "study". :)
Wednesday, March 8, 2017
Women living their Fetish.
Isn't it fantastic! Its International Women's Day and 50 Shades of Grey is the biggest movie of the year. I've see a massive uptick of women buying a variety of the kinky fetish products I make and sell. Shopping online means avoiding the "dark alley" smut shops with guys in raincoats...and all that goes with that stereotype. We can shop with ease, safety, no fear, and we are. It dispels all the old myths that we've fought for years about our own desire, about autonomy, about our own bodies and what happens when we're free to live as we please. Its just the transformation in my own lifetime is staggering when I think about myself as a teen...versus the world we live in today. :)
Downsizing and Becoming a Minimalist.
A few years back I decided to sort of simplify my life and try to be a bit more serene and peaceful. It went well, I felt better, happier, and now I'm going to do "Phase 2" and take it even further.
Life just gets so complicated and busy, and one day you wonder what you're doing, you question what you're trying to achieve....and why? You question of yourself if your current agenda is really bringing happiness, or are you just staying busy and going through the motions. People often act or think that if they're not in constant motion they're missing out on something...or that they have "no life". But a slow and relaxed life does not equate "no life". People often confuse the expenditure of "busy" energy with no real productivity, or actual accomplishment, and whether or not it contributes to their quality of life.
And then sometimes things go wrong. It can be...whatever. An illness, a divorce, a death of a relative, that stuns you and sets you back. So? You rest, readjust, move forward and press on. That's what will eventually happen...to anyone that has to tackle a serious and unplanned challenging circumstance in life. There's nothing wrong with that. Things happen to us in life and we just have to keep going right.
But with recent events (last election, wars, migrants, Trump family, Brexit and so on) I just loathe how disgustingly greedy our society has become. There is a dearth of compassion, benevolence, altruism...its like the rat race or the hamster wheel with people just going through the motions, trying to best each other, have one dollar more than their neighbor, its something I've always abhorred, and more so with the current lot in our nations capital.
So, I'm downsizing, donating, simplifying, and am looking forward to it. I want to go the "other way" from how so much of our society world is trending. The more the advertisers scream about how I "must" have some new item, the more Trump brags about being born rich, the more I see the disgusting way those fleeing from war ravaged areas, immigrants just looking for safety and dignity, just searing for shelter, food, water for their kids.....and they are mocked, denied, harassed...I just want to be "opposite" all of that.
No point to this post....just blathering. :)
Life just gets so complicated and busy, and one day you wonder what you're doing, you question what you're trying to achieve....and why? You question of yourself if your current agenda is really bringing happiness, or are you just staying busy and going through the motions. People often act or think that if they're not in constant motion they're missing out on something...or that they have "no life". But a slow and relaxed life does not equate "no life". People often confuse the expenditure of "busy" energy with no real productivity, or actual accomplishment, and whether or not it contributes to their quality of life.
And then sometimes things go wrong. It can be...whatever. An illness, a divorce, a death of a relative, that stuns you and sets you back. So? You rest, readjust, move forward and press on. That's what will eventually happen...to anyone that has to tackle a serious and unplanned challenging circumstance in life. There's nothing wrong with that. Things happen to us in life and we just have to keep going right.
But with recent events (last election, wars, migrants, Trump family, Brexit and so on) I just loathe how disgustingly greedy our society has become. There is a dearth of compassion, benevolence, altruism...its like the rat race or the hamster wheel with people just going through the motions, trying to best each other, have one dollar more than their neighbor, its something I've always abhorred, and more so with the current lot in our nations capital.
So, I'm downsizing, donating, simplifying, and am looking forward to it. I want to go the "other way" from how so much of our society world is trending. The more the advertisers scream about how I "must" have some new item, the more Trump brags about being born rich, the more I see the disgusting way those fleeing from war ravaged areas, immigrants just looking for safety and dignity, just searing for shelter, food, water for their kids.....and they are mocked, denied, harassed...I just want to be "opposite" all of that.
No point to this post....just blathering. :)
Sunday, March 5, 2017
Saturday, March 4, 2017
About last night: An arousing fantasy cannot always be acted out.
(I just found this interesting so I'm passing it on in case others do as well.)
Q: I'm increasingly having cuckold fantasies about my wife with other men. In the early days of our marriage we had a few swinger threesomes, which Helen really enjoyed. Now, some years later, I don't know how to go about sharing my cuckold fantasy and asking her how she would feel about trying it again. I respect and love her dearly and wouldn't want this to upset her, or us. Help!
http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/family-relationships-and-sex/m04aboutlastnight-20170216-guelmy.html
Q: I'm increasingly having cuckold fantasies about my wife with other men. In the early days of our marriage we had a few swinger threesomes, which Helen really enjoyed. Now, some years later, I don't know how to go about sharing my cuckold fantasy and asking her how she would feel about trying it again. I respect and love her dearly and wouldn't want this to upset her, or us. Help!
http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/family-relationships-and-sex/m04aboutlastnight-20170216-guelmy.html
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