I think every FemDom, MomDom, Mistress and Dominant Wife should establish a regular regiment of good old-fashioned bare bottom spanking. I know through experience that it can accomplish many things if done correctly.....if done with enough frequency and severity. One of the beneficial aspects is it can be cathartic for both parties.
For him: A sort of cleansing of guilt, stress and anxiety which is released through endorphins that are stimulated or "awakened' during punishment. Not unlike how a good massage, a rougher type one sort of like Rolfing, has the effect of releasing endorphins and other mind/body chemicals, and similar to how a very intense workout via weights, martial arts, running etc, spanking can accomplish this same effect.
For her: It is one way (not unlike above) to release pent-up stress....of both the mental and physical varieties. Many people (myself included) enjoy a punching bag, boxing, kickboxing and/or martial arts. I view it as the same. In this case (with proper knowledge and care) going all out on a health males bare bottom with a hairbrush, cane, straps etc is a safe way to get "that" out of your system. (Obviously common sense needs to be used and care to not hit any area not well padded with muscle and tissue.)
It helps to establish....or reestablish her authority and dominance. It's hard for a fully grown male to feel that he is.....The Man in Charge" with his pants down around his ankles laying face down over her lap while her hand or hairbrush rains down on his exposed bottom.
I've written about this many times, but I spank and punish the upper backs of his thighs with a variety of implements and his inner thighs (with hand spanking/slapping only) as well. I love to grab/pinch the lower part of his bottom, pull it towards his head and spank repeatedly with a brush right where bottom connects to thighs.
For both: Obviously certain activities can create sexual arousal.....discipline and punishment being one. Having a bare bottom exposed, feeling that vulnerability and even humiliation can spark an erection in him. The millions of nerve endings in that area, which are so close to his genitals, the rubbing and friction of his penis across her bare lap, or her stockings, skirt or what have you often causes an erection. The exertion of spanking and slapping and hitting by her, coupled with the "power trip" (at least it has that effect on me) and seeing the nudity and the flesh bouncing from your efforts is exciting. Not to mention should he have an erection between your thighs. :)
Saturday, July 30, 2016
Friday, July 29, 2016
BDSM-Inspired Jewelry Now in Silver.
Bijoux Indiscrets’s BDSM-inspired fashion accessories in the Magnifique and Désir Métallique collections now are available in silver-tone in addition to the company’s traditional gold-tone and metallic black. Both collections “invite lovers to take part in exciting games. All of the pieces are nickel-free, with adjustable chains that adapt to the female silhouette and outline the shape in stunningly sexy ways. "Waist and shoulder body chains, necklace-whips and bracelet-handcuffs — all Bijoux Indiscrets accessories combine the latest fashion trends with the erotic and go perfectly with elegant looks, sexy lingerie and bare skin". BijouxIndiscrets.com.
New Book Says Violent Porn Disrupts Healthy Sex.
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Smothering Bench.
While some people with an interest in smothering prefer a box, I wanted to build something higher off the floor and with more "body to face" direct contact. So I made one of these a couple months ago and have really enjoyed using it. Anything I make for sale has to be "product tested" by me first to meet my standards...and this does....here it is.
I'm just using the same "sanitized" photos that I used for my Etsy shop, where graphic content isn't allowed. Hence the blotched out face on him, and the lovely mannequin. :)
I'm just using the same "sanitized" photos that I used for my Etsy shop, where graphic content isn't allowed. Hence the blotched out face on him, and the lovely mannequin. :)
Thursday, July 28, 2016
Sissy, cuckold, chastity, maid, spanking apron
Sissy, cuckold, chastity, spanking apron. Swishy panel in front allows for access to the cock and balls for whatever reasons or purposes. I don't have any "male" mannequins. :)
https://www.etsy.com/shop/VanessaChalandStudio?ele=shop_open
https://www.etsy.com/shop/VanessaChalandStudio?ele=shop_open
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