I would say this notion is incorrect. A diminutive penis is often (but not always) attached to a like typed body. For some of the same biological reasons that men are attracted to women with "child bearing hips" and ample breasts, is the inborn instinct that she would be able to bear many offspring. This largely applies to most animals as well. So along the same lines, we are attracted (albeit on a sub-conscious level) to men with a healthy body of which a large penis is part.
Its all about one seeking a mate where they feel their progeny and lineage will be healthy and continue. That applies to both males and females. Males want a female that is healthy and can crank out babies, we want a guy with good genes and health to impregnate us.
The humiliation aspect enters in as, being mammals, (bipedal, perambulators) males were forever the dominant species and the females were largely viewed as chattel. So when a female copulates/breeds with a male other than her husband or the dominant male (herds, packs, prides etc.) its a threat to his blood line, and to his power. So its humiliating when some horny bitch does that. :)
If we were all good little subservient wives, un-empowered, without options or voice or the right of self determination, we would not have any "dominance" over our own lives as "females" which is pretty damn much what Female Domination or FemDom is.
Much of the BBC fetish is a bunch of latently homosexual men buying into an overblown myth about race and penis size. And yes, in my very humble opinion, there is a certain element of racism in it. Some of it is "defiance" of societal norms (though the ages) flouting societal conventions, pissing off Mom and Dad, trying to be edgy....a myriad of reasons why some people want to be "bad" and go slumming for sex, or get fucked on the wrong side of the tracks.
This is of course nonsense because all human beings are the same and parity and equality in all ways is our goal. There is no "bad boy-bad girl" credibility to having sex with a black person unless that person thinks they are somehow superior....and are in ordinary circumstances "above" the one they are sleeping with.
Bottom line....black people have been fucked over by white people for about 500 years, and this is not an improvement. Rather than being used to entertain white people in the evenings with singing or dancing (as was the case in the slave days) they are now "pimped out", entertaining a comparably speaking small percent of white people by being a sex toy. Interracial sex is fine, the way black men are depicted in most "cuckold porn" and stories is disgusting to me. And about 99% of it is written-filmed-fantasized about and masturbated over....by white males.
The Internet and porn are not real life....and yet they are. This goes to the age old question, does life imitate art or does art imitate life?
