Friday, February 24, 2023

Brought to You By The Letters A.S.S. :)


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As mentioned in my previous post on the topic of home movies...I don't find doing photos or movies to be all that much fun. After a time, it's all the same, they all look the same (witness the 4 below, same damn thing essentially, boring and repetitive) it's just visual images of my naked nudity, which to me is not all that thrilling, all I see is...what I've seen my whole life. I hate editing, hate posing, hate the process, I never know what I've posted before, can't keep track, don't want to keep track, have no desire to keep track, most photos are extracts from video, I hate selfies, hate editing...much prefer writing.  :) 




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The "booty shot" photo below is my "favorite", lol. 
My normal around town, around the house attire.  :) 

Thursday, February 23, 2023

People are *Still* Pissing me Off. :)

  Okay, just for the sake of clarification, I am not "actually" pissed off, not in this post nor the previous one. I'm in a great mood. The blog titles I select are...just to amuse me.  :) 

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So, here's the thing...identity wise, how you identify, how that affects your life, that journey, those challenges, all the baggage, guilt, soul searching and hassles that can go with it for some people, it's of massive importance to the person that is undergoing it. However, it's of massive importance...to you, but not necessarily to me, or anyone else.

 In this post-Oprah, expose your soul, tell your story, Instagram, share your...everything, every detail of your life era, I get it, but don't always agree with it. Yes, I have a blog and books, some BDSM products that I've created, so some people could view my above statement as a conflict, or even hypocrisy...but I would point out a major difference. I am promoting ideas, thoughts, experiences, knowledge and opinions, not promoting myself. What I mean is, I'm not seeking fame nor popularity. There are almost no photos of my face "out there" and the few that are, are mostly with me wearing a mask (or wigs, shades, etc). I can walk down any street, and no one knows who I am. And I am going to keep it that way. 

So, people that are doing an "identity realignment"...more power to you. It's a revelation and transformative event...for you. However, I'm just wanting to buy some gasoline, get my groceries bagged, or whatever. I don't want nor need to know whether you are gay, trans, Muslim, male, female, Episcopalian, on vacation, on drugs, losing or gaining weight...I'm just trying to pay my fucking electric bill. I want to be able to read the news, go out for coffee and not be inundated with the latest tell all, exposé, graphic detailed, photos included of...whatever is going on in your life. I'm happy for you, but I have my own life. People that want to read stuff I write about in my books or on this blog....seek it out, they are not having it forced upon them everywhere they go. If I want to read about it, I will seek it out myself...I don't want it forced on me in the oil change center or the gym. Big difference.

 And the same applies to privacy. My husband was making a doctors appointment the other day, so we were having a sort of Zoom type interview with their staff and the lady (nice lady, just doing her job) started asking my husband if he was gay or straight, how he "identified" gender wise and...I interjected and told her point blank that was none of her or the doctors office business. I mean it simply is not. At all. I know in this era where every website, business, store, shop, and social media site wants to gather and store information about you, for marketing or statistics or demographics or whatever...fuck you, I'm not doing that. My private business is just that, it's my business...and no one elses. Period. 
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An example of "self identifying" run amok. The story below reminds me of Rachel Dolezal. To refresh your memory, good old "Rach" decided one day she was "black", starting darkening her skin, recreated her entire childhood and upbringing and ended up running an NAACP chapter, until her family outed her as being some white chick. 


Apparently the lady profiled below did the same thing. I don't get it. I don't get the mental disorder that makes someone decide they want to "identify" as another race. There are limits to the whole "self identifying" thing. We can't just have people self identifying as a frog, a dog, a clog, or Detroit. I mean seriously, what happens when someone wants to self identify as a city, a coffee table, a jet ski or a solar constellation? Fucking nutcases.  :) 


 
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Booty Calls are Down!!!! 


What I gleaned from the above "article" is...more and more men that write these sorts of articles are simps. And I don't trust nor like simps.

'Simp' is slang for a person (typically a man) who is desperate for the attention and affection of someone else (typically a woman). 

 The guy below, stating that "men don't have more to give". According to who or based on what criteria? Give what? Maybe they have more to give, but are keeping it in reserve. Maybe they don't find the women they see in the dating pool as being worthy of offering up that "giving gift". All the recent hoopla about "Incels", has it occurred to anyone (besides me obviously) that maybe these guys have such high standards, sane or not, rational or not, that most women can't meet them? Sure, perhaps his "standard" is based on some porn chick, melded with a Super Heroine Marvel Comic Book Movie character, and a sexy Anime woman (or whatever) thrown in. This compilation being the ideal women of his fantasy, unrealistic as it is...how is that different from 50 Shades of Gray guy mixed with Prince Charming and some romance novel and Rom-Com studly dude that women are lusting over and hoping to meet and marry? I mean, why are they picking on men and ignoring the fact that women do the same thing? Maybe in his mind, his attitude is..."basic bitches" don't need to apply. Granted, he's in love/lust with a fictional "woman"...but so are far too many women waiting and wanting to be swept off their feet by some fictional "man". 

Women are tiring of their stereotypical role as full-time therapist for emotionally distant men. They want a partner who is emotionally open and empathetic, the opposite of the age-old masculine ideal.  “Today in America, women expect more from men,” Levant said, “and unfortunately, so many men don’t have more to give.”

As of 2022, Pew Research Center found, 30 percent of U.S. adults are neither married, living with a partner nor engaged in a committed relationship. Nearly half of all young adults are single: 34 percent of women, and a whopping 63 percent of men.  Not surprisingly, the decline in relationships marches astride with a decline in sex. The share of sexually active Americans stands at a 30-year low. Around 30 percent of young men reported in 2019 that they had no sex in the past year, compared to about 20 percent of young women.  Only half of single men are actively seeking relationships or even casual dates, according to Pew. That figure is declining. “You have to think that the pandemic had an impact on some of those numbers,” said Fred Rabinowitz, a psychologist and professor at the University of Redlands who studies masculinity. Young men “are watching a lot of social media, they’re watching a lot of porn, and I think they’re getting a lot of their needs met without having to go out. And I think that’s starting to be a habit.

Maybe the world has just changed and the norms of conventional dating, marriage, kids and all that are a thing of the past. Maybe it will never be the same. Who knows...but I know that it seems like every article I see on this topic are people slamming men, about how they're not needed, and then the next article is women bemoaning how they can't find any decent guys to date. Which one is it? If you're convincing men they're scum, not desired nor needed, but then whining about a lack of "datable" men, after just stomping all over them...does anyone else see the stupidity in this?  
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Moving right along (lol) this article sort of goes with the two above. Another article where the author...just seems confused. Slamming men for being "cock toxic" in the title, but praising them for being loving, while mocking how the media portrays men and women, but then attributing everything negative to...So much of how we think about interactions between men and women are rooted in white supremacy, patriarchal religious dogma, and western capitalism....men, meaning white men, race, and capitalism, (Capitalism? How the fuck does that factor into this?) and written by someone who renamed herself  "Feminista Jones" (real name Michelle Taylor)...what in the actual fuck? 

Side note, I am beyond tired of the term "POC", meaning "People Of Color". News flash *all* human beings have "color". We all have melanin...just different amounts. I believe most Albinos have melanin, be it very small amounts. Human beings are not invisible. We all have color. 


I don't get it. Black people were called "colored people" for decades or a century, took offense to it, now want to be called "people of color". Colored people...people of color...what's the fucking difference beyond the arrangement of the words? And BIPOC? Black, Indigenous, and People of Color. What the hell is that? Do black people in Africa, born in Africa, indigenous black people of Africa call themselves "Black, Indigenous, and People of Color" or do they just call themselves...you know...Africans?

And the SWERFs?
 An acronym standing for Sex Worker-Exclusionary Radical Feminist.
And the TERFs?
 An acronym for trans-exclusionary radical feminist.

 People...this PC nonsense...it's just so stupid and childish. I am now going to "self identify" as the following...a Pissed Off Intelligent Human Being Opposed to Political Correctness. Or in other words, acronym wise a POIHBOTPC, lol. Alright, fuck me...I'm done.  :) 
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Said it before, saying it again. One of the reasons I hate filming video for public consumption is...I want to enjoy myself and not have to worry about camera angles, lighting, editing, etc. So, this is obvious from my little home movie below, compliments of my lovely...$25 webcam.   :) 

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Oops, nearly forgot...for those who complained about my last post not having a "sans pants" ass shot...here you go, lol.  :)


Saturday, February 18, 2023

People are Just Pissing me Off. :)

  You can tell...because here I am at my "rostrum", typing, bloviating, babbling, pontificating, rambling, bitching, ranting, complaining, and just generally being...pissed off, lol.  :) 

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Anti-Gay, Anti-Trans Idiots are Pissing me Off.  :) 

Sex, gender, trans, sexual orientation, binary...are not the same thing. Gender is a social construct based off of masculine or feminine characteristics and cultural "norms" primarily. That has nothing to do with genitals. People that are "fluid" or nonbinary, are saying they don't wish to be identified as male or female, but that's not based on having a penis or vagina. Gender fluidity and/or trans people are not new. For example:


 Among the sexual depictions in Neolithic and Bronze Age drawings and figurines (c. 7,000 BCE – c. 1700 BCE) from the Mediterranean are, as one author describes it, a "third sex" human figure having female breasts and male genitals or without distinguishing sex characteristics. In Neolithic Italy, female images are found in a domestic context, while images that combine sexual characteristics appear in burials or religious settings.

In Mesopotamian mythology, among the earliest written records of humanity, there are references to types of people who are neither male nor female. Sumerian and Akkadian tablets from the 2nd millennium BCE and 1700 BCE describe how the gods created these people, their roles in society, and words for different kinds of them. These included eunuchs, women who couldn't or weren't allowed to have children, men who live as women, intersex people, gay people, and others. 

From the attire standpoint, it's just clothes people. Cloth, cut into different shapes, patterns, styles, looks and fit. It means nothing. For example:


By todays standards, our "Founding Fathers" were not "manly" attire wise. 



And Jesus wore a "dress" or a skirt or robe or whatever you might want to call it.



People can wear whatever they want, and look masculine or feminine, dominant or submissive, gay, straight, pansexual, asexual, whatever. Again, it's just clothes...it means nothing. 


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Vagsplaining Bitches Attacking Mansplaining Men are Pissing me Off.  :)

I came across this stupid "whatever" it is, (chart, graph) and just sort of laughed. I'm tired of the "mansplaining" whining. Look, some people are condescending, male or female, it's just a personality trait of theirs, male or female, they're jackasses, male or female, get over it, slap 'em, tell them to shut the fuck up, ignore them, whatever, but stop acting like it's only males that do it. 

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Anti-Free Speech People & Cancel Culture Cunts are Pissing me Off.  :) 


Back in the "good old days" PC culture and cancel culture did not exist. Free speech was not only allowed, but encouraged. Free speech was appreciated by those that knew that most other people around the world, do not have that option or right. People knew that others fought and died for the right to have free speech, the right to express an opinion, even an unpopular one. Even "early days" versions of social media, discourse was encouraged. Sure, there was some power tripping group moderators that might ban people from groups, but that was a rarity, where it is now the norm. 

Now? No matter which social media one frequents, mainstream media, corporate America, the group moderators, the employees, bosses, managers, are collectively the largest group of cowardly snowflakes on the planet, suspending, silencing, firing and banning people for anything that they personally object to. It's about their precious little feelings more than facts or truth...which is one of the reasons that the quality of social media, regular media, and corporate culture is...dying. Free speech, truth, facts, reality...that's what matters. You do not have the right to go through life being "unoffended" by other people, or their opinions. That presumption is just childish. You can only be offended by what you allow yourself to be offended by. Don't like someones taste in clothes, tattoos, music, bumper stickers, hairstyle...I don't give a fuck...look the other way, go about your business, mind your own business and get over it. I mean, for example, a portion of the world walks around nude, in public and in front of their kids. The human body is not offensive, unless someone lets themself be offended by it. So when I see people freaking out over a naked breast while some lady is breastfeeding her child...I just want to slap them and point out...that's what breasts were designed for. Grow up. 
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The Religious Right in America is Pissing me Off.  :)



Talk about missing the point...meaning whomever wrote this. Churches in the USA (and elsewhere) are losing members due to...they mostly preach hate. Hate for women. Hate for gays. Hate for transpeople. Hate for other races. Hate of education. Hate of knowledge. Hate for those that "question".

Evangelicals preach hate. Bush type religious people preach hate. Trump is not a Christian, but his religious followers preach hate. You want to know a good example of someone that preaches the message of the person known as Jesus Christ? Jimmy Carter. People like Carter are "good" Christians. The guy is pushing a 100...no scandals...ever. He walks the walk, lives by example, does the acts, tries to adhere to the scriptures and their intent. Benevolence, altruism, forgivness, no judging, patience, compassion, charity...you know, like Jesus preached via "Sermon on the Mount".  

Most "GOP Christians" are just fucking evil. And far too many "liberal" Christians are apathetic and spineless...standing for nothing, or just surface noise, afraid to advocate for much in public. Sure, they might crank out a hashtag, but most of them are too self absorbed to really do or say much that would require any actual effort. Most of what is "taught" in Christian churches theses days is paranoia and aversion to all things sexual...minus fucking for procreation. They are obsessed with other peoples sex lives, I mean obsessed...and ignorant about most of the texts they claim to revere. 

The "Song of Songs"...a book of the bible that is erotic and sexual, but has no moralistic aspect to it. No mention of marriage or vows, no discussion of procreation, just pleasure. Most people have little understanding of the bible they profess to love and follow. Most people's religiosity is relegated to Pascals Wager...and not much beyond. Few have any indepth understanding of it's origin, the way it's been revised, rewritten, hacked up, translated, adopted, adapted, changed, edited, portions deleted, they fail to apply the anagogical and allegorical elements to "read it well" and few view it through the use of hermeneutics...so they're missing most of the point, which is unfortunate.
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BDSM Munch and Play Party Promoters are Pissng me Off.  :) 


I'm so tired of seeing these wankers rant about their version of BDSM, their rules, their "red flags" and most everything else they whine about. Lets just be honest, "red flag" is a worn out, overused, tired old "warning" that no one pays attention to anymore. Totally pedestrian and subjective. Munches...people looking for fresh meat. Usually run by, or the participants being, those wanting to sell someone services, whips, a "ProDom" a "FinDom", phone sex, sex chats, OnlyFans etc... 

Munches and play parties...people that conflate education, inculcation with "indoctrination" where they're looking for fresh blood to add to their "stable" or their friends list where they can exploit said people under the guise of "twueism" and use them for their own selfish salacious needs and desires. In many places these sorts of events are dying, for the reasons I outlined and a myriad of others. People have figured out what a scam it often is, how they're filled with "expert" predators...and those that are looking to profit off of neophytes. Who pushes and promotes munches and parties heartily? Those that have something to gain from them, financially or sexually. 

I hate being inundated with offers and ads, spam and invitations to BDSM events just because I have a blog and a few related websites. I don't spam people. I hate that. I view messages like that the same as fliers on the windshield of my car, my gate or a salesmans phone call. I didn't ask said person to bother me, I am under no obligation to be polite. I have no reason to respond or be courteous, they invaded my property, touched my possessions, without permission, they invaded the sanctity of my home through the phone, or my e-mail accounts, or through my shops or websites. Stop bugging me...fuck off and leave me alone...bitches. :)
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Feminists are Pissing me Off.  :) 


Femimism is mostly dead. It served a purpose in the 60's and 70's, but more and more women currently reject the label due to the extremisn and the duplicity of that agenda. As to the "agenda", they want the best part of what they think males have, reject the rest, take the easy road, have tunnel vision on a couple of issues, pull the ladder up behind them screwing other women that follow over, and mostly just whine and bitch about men, while refusing to pick up a check, or to take out the trash, or to take hard jobs, and have demands that benefit them only, while ignoring FGM around the world, the plight of women around the world, while ignoring the imbalance in male homelessness, in committing suicide, prison sentences, divorce settlements, labor, and on and on and on...sort of like this sentence, lol. 

Are women offering to pick up checks during dates? Nope. Are feminists fighting to get equal pay for guys that work at Hooters? As runway models? Regular models? Porn stars? No? Why not? I thought "equality" was the goal. Are feminists trying to take manual labor jobs and get paid the same amount for the same amount of work? No? Why not? Because women are not physically able to do the same amount of work...but whine about wanting the same pay anyway. And as soon as some get hired, BOOM, pregnant, and want maternity leave, and they want the job held for them if they decide to come back to work months or years later. Equality? No...they want preferential treatment, which is why it's failing...equality is not on the agenda. All over social media, adult forums, Reddit, Twitter, Fetlife women are begging for money, just because they have a pussy. They have a sense of entitlement, and feel men should pay their bills, because of that. I could go on forever with examples where women are not fighting for equlity, but simply desire preferred status, ergo, that aspect of feminisim is not about equality. Get off your tired talking points, look at reality and the world the way it really is and not what a small segment of lying SJW online bitch about.

 It's just gross and pathetic. We fought for decades to have autonomy, equality, balance, equal rights and personal agency, not to have a sugar daddy pay our bills. How is that progress, or equality? Equality? Men can take their shirts off in public, we can not. So, they have more rights than we do. That makes us second class citizens. Less rights, second class. There are 164.38 million males and 167.51 million females living in the United States. So, there are more women than men in the USA, by about 3.2 million. Women outnumber men. There are more woman than men.We are the majority population wise. So, if you want equality, true equality...why are we still second class citizens? We could outvote men, in every election and change laws and have *true* equality. 

We never hear about this because it's not part of the (failing) feminist agenda. Why are no "feminist" leaders talking about this?  Why are they so quiet about this? Stop bitching about how men are oppressing us...in so many ways, we are oppressing ourselves. 
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People Wanting to be "Popular" are Pissing me Off.  :) 


In order to be popular you need to agree with people, with everyone, no matter what, just agree. This would apply less to those in the center, moderates, both politically and emotionally, but does apply to everyone on the far left or the far right. 

To appeal to the extremists in the trans community, I have to pretend men can give birth. 
Nope, that's not true.

(Jeffreestar on "they/them" which I concur with.) 

To appeal to far right extremist Republicans...I have to agree the election was stolen.
Nope, that's not true. 

To appeal to the anti-body shamers, I have to pretend obese people are "healthy"
Nope, that's not true. 

To appeal to the extremist flat earth crowd, I have to pretend the earth is flat. 
Nope, that's not true. 

To appeal to the extremist credulous Christians, I have to pretend parthenogenesis is real.
Nope, that's not true.

To appeal to the extremist far left, I have to pretend political correctness is a good thing.
Nope, that's not true.

To appeal to everyone, I have to deny science, facts, history, common sense, logic, reality, education, knowledge, and truth. Nope, I can't do that, won't do that, will not ever do that, no fucks given about how it might affect my level of popularity, online or in person. I'd rather be right, be real, be authentic and in touch with reality...and if that means I remain pissed off at extremists...good, fuck 'em. I want a return to where sensible intelligent rational people are heard, elected, admired, and emulated...and not the lunatics that dominate the airwaves and media today. According to some reports, 1%, (yes, one percent) of people get the vast majority of notice, hits, traffic, likes, mentions, thumbs up, loves and all that nonsense on social media. Meaning, the extremists on the left and the extremists on the right get most of the "headlines" and the silent majority in the middle largely go....unnoticed and unheard. That is not, how democracy is supposed to work. 

People are entitled to their opinions. Opinions are not fact. When someone makes a categorical declarative statement that calls on facts, when that is introduced into the conversation, opinion goes out the window. Science, facts and reality does not give a fuck about feelings or opinion, it simply does not. Nor should it. Normal sensible people from the middle, moderates from either major political party...get off your asses and take control back from the extremist cranks...please. 

Okay, I probably pissed every single reader off now so...I'm done, lol.  :)

Sunday, February 5, 2023

Second Hand Lingerie - Womens Clothes Trans - Gender Fluid - Vintage.

I always like to help other people out, and as I came across this cute little shop (via some health related videos, long boring story) thought I would mention it. I don't know her, she doesn't know me, we've never talked, chatted, met, she has no idea who I am. However, because many people are struggling with inflation, the cost of everything is crazy nuts, and some people, women, trans people, etc...often have a hard time finding unique items that they might enjoy, that fit, affordable, vintage, unique sizes and so on...if it might help someone out, and her, well here you go. It's a site hosted and run through Etsy, (same as mine) so it should be legit and reputable as far as credit cards, privacy etc... Mad Envy


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Different topic. I came across the following meme online. I thought it was funny, but most of the people that commented on it were losing their fucking minds. 
Does Anyone Remember Laughter? 
(See what I did there?)  :) 


What the hell is wrong with people? Everyone is SO damned...AUGGGH!! at a moments notice. Edgy. Raging. Freaking the fuck out. Ranting about toxic this, and implication that, and cancel culture, trying to get people suspended, banned, blocked, fired, evicted, arrested, persecuted, cancelled, whatever. 

People...humor is supposed to be edgy and offensive. Without comedians mocking someone, making fun of a demographic, laughing at human nature, what would they talk about? Planets? Fish? There is no quality humor related to planets or fish alone. (Okay, Uranus is the exception...but that still relates to human beings, lol.) 

The whole point of comedy is to laugh at the irony of our being, our existence, our idiosyncrasies, our odd behaviors and neurotic habits, stereotypes, the stupid things that we, as human beings, do, say, how we act, dress, walk, talk, fuck, eat, what we eat, our politicians, our politics, our culture and other cultures, religion, sex, pretty much...you name it. That's the point of comedy, to enable us, to laugh at ourselves. I laugh at the dumbass things I do, laugh at myself, every single damn day. 

There are so many serious, ugly, nasty, scary and tragic things that happen on our planet, every second. A meme? Not one of them. No one, no sane rational person could view the above meme and seriously think it's advocating rape. The only people that think that way are moronic keyboard warriors who consider themselves to be Social Justice Warriors, from the comfort of their couch, in their well heated and appointed homes, with snacks and a refreshing beverage, while bitching about their 1st World Problems...the fucking lameass idiots. 

This is not news as I've written about it before, but I dumped all social media many months or years ago. I have no social media. Nothing. No Twitter, no Reddit, no Instagram, no SnapChat, no TikTok, no Facebook, nothing...at all. I have this blog, that's it. And I have never been happier, and never been more pleased with that choice. The decision to delete all social media...to avoid the sort of drama queen pillocks and simpletons that would get upset over a meme like the one above, or raunchy comedians, or risque jokes, or irreverent comedic observations, don't need it, don't want it. From my perspective, the more raunchy, the more offensive, the wittier and more objectionable, for the most part, the better it is. I don't enjoy sit-coms with the "one liners" and a laugh track. That, to me, is just boring. My point is...we're here on this planet for a short time, live, enjoy, laugh, have fun as much as possible, enjoy life, take a stand on the serious issues, but people should use better perspective and judgment while deciding which issues are worth getting fired up over, and which ones are not. 
Fine. 
Now then, who wants to take me to dinner, and buy me some flowers and chocolate?  :) 
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