Saturday, February 18, 2023

People are Just Pissing me Off. :)

  You can tell...because here I am at my "rostrum", typing, bloviating, babbling, pontificating, rambling, bitching, ranting, complaining, and just generally being...pissed off, lol.  :) 

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Anti-Gay, Anti-Trans Idiots are Pissing me Off.  :) 

Sex, gender, trans, sexual orientation, binary...are not the same thing. Gender is a social construct based off of masculine or feminine characteristics and cultural "norms" primarily. That has nothing to do with genitals. People that are "fluid" or nonbinary, are saying they don't wish to be identified as male or female, but that's not based on having a penis or vagina. Gender fluidity and/or trans people are not new. For example:


 Among the sexual depictions in Neolithic and Bronze Age drawings and figurines (c. 7,000 BCE – c. 1700 BCE) from the Mediterranean are, as one author describes it, a "third sex" human figure having female breasts and male genitals or without distinguishing sex characteristics. In Neolithic Italy, female images are found in a domestic context, while images that combine sexual characteristics appear in burials or religious settings.

In Mesopotamian mythology, among the earliest written records of humanity, there are references to types of people who are neither male nor female. Sumerian and Akkadian tablets from the 2nd millennium BCE and 1700 BCE describe how the gods created these people, their roles in society, and words for different kinds of them. These included eunuchs, women who couldn't or weren't allowed to have children, men who live as women, intersex people, gay people, and others. 

From the attire standpoint, it's just clothes people. Cloth, cut into different shapes, patterns, styles, looks and fit. It means nothing. For example:


By todays standards, our "Founding Fathers" were not "manly" attire wise. 



And Jesus wore a "dress" or a skirt or robe or whatever you might want to call it.



People can wear whatever they want, and look masculine or feminine, dominant or submissive, gay, straight, pansexual, asexual, whatever. Again, it's just clothes...it means nothing. 


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Vagsplaining Bitches Attacking Mansplaining Men are Pissing me Off.  :)

I came across this stupid "whatever" it is, (chart, graph) and just sort of laughed. I'm tired of the "mansplaining" whining. Look, some people are condescending, male or female, it's just a personality trait of theirs, male or female, they're jackasses, male or female, get over it, slap 'em, tell them to shut the fuck up, ignore them, whatever, but stop acting like it's only males that do it. 

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Anti-Free Speech People & Cancel Culture Cunts are Pissing me Off.  :) 


Back in the "good old days" PC culture and cancel culture did not exist. Free speech was not only allowed, but encouraged. Free speech was appreciated by those that knew that most other people around the world, do not have that option or right. People knew that others fought and died for the right to have free speech, the right to express an opinion, even an unpopular one. Even "early days" versions of social media, discourse was encouraged. Sure, there was some power tripping group moderators that might ban people from groups, but that was a rarity, where it is now the norm. 

Now? No matter which social media one frequents, mainstream media, corporate America, the group moderators, the employees, bosses, managers, are collectively the largest group of cowardly snowflakes on the planet, suspending, silencing, firing and banning people for anything that they personally object to. It's about their precious little feelings more than facts or truth...which is one of the reasons that the quality of social media, regular media, and corporate culture is...dying. Free speech, truth, facts, reality...that's what matters. You do not have the right to go through life being "unoffended" by other people, or their opinions. That presumption is just childish. You can only be offended by what you allow yourself to be offended by. Don't like someones taste in clothes, tattoos, music, bumper stickers, hairstyle...I don't give a fuck...look the other way, go about your business, mind your own business and get over it. I mean, for example, a portion of the world walks around nude, in public and in front of their kids. The human body is not offensive, unless someone lets themself be offended by it. So when I see people freaking out over a naked breast while some lady is breastfeeding her child...I just want to slap them and point out...that's what breasts were designed for. Grow up. 
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The Religious Right in America is Pissing me Off.  :)



Talk about missing the point...meaning whomever wrote this. Churches in the USA (and elsewhere) are losing members due to...they mostly preach hate. Hate for women. Hate for gays. Hate for transpeople. Hate for other races. Hate of education. Hate of knowledge. Hate for those that "question".

Evangelicals preach hate. Bush type religious people preach hate. Trump is not a Christian, but his religious followers preach hate. You want to know a good example of someone that preaches the message of the person known as Jesus Christ? Jimmy Carter. People like Carter are "good" Christians. The guy is pushing a 100...no scandals...ever. He walks the walk, lives by example, does the acts, tries to adhere to the scriptures and their intent. Benevolence, altruism, forgivness, no judging, patience, compassion, charity...you know, like Jesus preached via "Sermon on the Mount".  

Most "GOP Christians" are just fucking evil. And far too many "liberal" Christians are apathetic and spineless...standing for nothing, or just surface noise, afraid to advocate for much in public. Sure, they might crank out a hashtag, but most of them are too self absorbed to really do or say much that would require any actual effort. Most of what is "taught" in Christian churches theses days is paranoia and aversion to all things sexual...minus fucking for procreation. They are obsessed with other peoples sex lives, I mean obsessed...and ignorant about most of the texts they claim to revere. 

The "Song of Songs"...a book of the bible that is erotic and sexual, but has no moralistic aspect to it. No mention of marriage or vows, no discussion of procreation, just pleasure. Most people have little understanding of the bible they profess to love and follow. Most people's religiosity is relegated to Pascals Wager...and not much beyond. Few have any indepth understanding of it's origin, the way it's been revised, rewritten, hacked up, translated, adopted, adapted, changed, edited, portions deleted, they fail to apply the anagogical and allegorical elements to "read it well" and few view it through the use of hermeneutics...so they're missing most of the point, which is unfortunate.
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BDSM Munch and Play Party Promoters are Pissng me Off.  :) 


I'm so tired of seeing these wankers rant about their version of BDSM, their rules, their "red flags" and most everything else they whine about. Lets just be honest, "red flag" is a worn out, overused, tired old "warning" that no one pays attention to anymore. Totally pedestrian and subjective. Munches...people looking for fresh meat. Usually run by, or the participants being, those wanting to sell someone services, whips, a "ProDom" a "FinDom", phone sex, sex chats, OnlyFans etc... 

Munches and play parties...people that conflate education, inculcation with "indoctrination" where they're looking for fresh blood to add to their "stable" or their friends list where they can exploit said people under the guise of "twueism" and use them for their own selfish salacious needs and desires. In many places these sorts of events are dying, for the reasons I outlined and a myriad of others. People have figured out what a scam it often is, how they're filled with "expert" predators...and those that are looking to profit off of neophytes. Who pushes and promotes munches and parties heartily? Those that have something to gain from them, financially or sexually. 

I hate being inundated with offers and ads, spam and invitations to BDSM events just because I have a blog and a few related websites. I don't spam people. I hate that. I view messages like that the same as fliers on the windshield of my car, my gate or a salesmans phone call. I didn't ask said person to bother me, I am under no obligation to be polite. I have no reason to respond or be courteous, they invaded my property, touched my possessions, without permission, they invaded the sanctity of my home through the phone, or my e-mail accounts, or through my shops or websites. Stop bugging me...fuck off and leave me alone...bitches. :)
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Feminists are Pissing me Off.  :) 


Femimism is mostly dead. It served a purpose in the 60's and 70's, but more and more women currently reject the label due to the extremisn and the duplicity of that agenda. As to the "agenda", they want the best part of what they think males have, reject the rest, take the easy road, have tunnel vision on a couple of issues, pull the ladder up behind them screwing other women that follow over, and mostly just whine and bitch about men, while refusing to pick up a check, or to take out the trash, or to take hard jobs, and have demands that benefit them only, while ignoring FGM around the world, the plight of women around the world, while ignoring the imbalance in male homelessness, in committing suicide, prison sentences, divorce settlements, labor, and on and on and on...sort of like this sentence, lol. 

Are women offering to pick up checks during dates? Nope. Are feminists fighting to get equal pay for guys that work at Hooters? As runway models? Regular models? Porn stars? No? Why not? I thought "equality" was the goal. Are feminists trying to take manual labor jobs and get paid the same amount for the same amount of work? No? Why not? Because women are not physically able to do the same amount of work...but whine about wanting the same pay anyway. And as soon as some get hired, BOOM, pregnant, and want maternity leave, and they want the job held for them if they decide to come back to work months or years later. Equality? No...they want preferential treatment, which is why it's failing...equality is not on the agenda. All over social media, adult forums, Reddit, Twitter, Fetlife women are begging for money, just because they have a pussy. They have a sense of entitlement, and feel men should pay their bills, because of that. I could go on forever with examples where women are not fighting for equlity, but simply desire preferred status, ergo, that aspect of feminisim is not about equality. Get off your tired talking points, look at reality and the world the way it really is and not what a small segment of lying SJW online bitch about.

 It's just gross and pathetic. We fought for decades to have autonomy, equality, balance, equal rights and personal agency, not to have a sugar daddy pay our bills. How is that progress, or equality? Equality? Men can take their shirts off in public, we can not. So, they have more rights than we do. That makes us second class citizens. Less rights, second class. There are 164.38 million males and 167.51 million females living in the United States. So, there are more women than men in the USA, by about 3.2 million. Women outnumber men. There are more woman than men.We are the majority population wise. So, if you want equality, true equality...why are we still second class citizens? We could outvote men, in every election and change laws and have *true* equality. 

We never hear about this because it's not part of the (failing) feminist agenda. Why are no "feminist" leaders talking about this?  Why are they so quiet about this? Stop bitching about how men are oppressing us...in so many ways, we are oppressing ourselves. 
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People Wanting to be "Popular" are Pissing me Off.  :) 


In order to be popular you need to agree with people, with everyone, no matter what, just agree. This would apply less to those in the center, moderates, both politically and emotionally, but does apply to everyone on the far left or the far right. 

To appeal to the extremists in the trans community, I have to pretend men can give birth. 
Nope, that's not true.

(Jeffreestar on "they/them" which I concur with.) 

To appeal to far right extremist Republicans...I have to agree the election was stolen.
Nope, that's not true. 

To appeal to the anti-body shamers, I have to pretend obese people are "healthy"
Nope, that's not true. 

To appeal to the extremist flat earth crowd, I have to pretend the earth is flat. 
Nope, that's not true. 

To appeal to the extremist credulous Christians, I have to pretend parthenogenesis is real.
Nope, that's not true.

To appeal to the extremist far left, I have to pretend political correctness is a good thing.
Nope, that's not true.

To appeal to everyone, I have to deny science, facts, history, common sense, logic, reality, education, knowledge, and truth. Nope, I can't do that, won't do that, will not ever do that, no fucks given about how it might affect my level of popularity, online or in person. I'd rather be right, be real, be authentic and in touch with reality...and if that means I remain pissed off at extremists...good, fuck 'em. I want a return to where sensible intelligent rational people are heard, elected, admired, and emulated...and not the lunatics that dominate the airwaves and media today. According to some reports, 1%, (yes, one percent) of people get the vast majority of notice, hits, traffic, likes, mentions, thumbs up, loves and all that nonsense on social media. Meaning, the extremists on the left and the extremists on the right get most of the "headlines" and the silent majority in the middle largely go....unnoticed and unheard. That is not, how democracy is supposed to work. 

People are entitled to their opinions. Opinions are not fact. When someone makes a categorical declarative statement that calls on facts, when that is introduced into the conversation, opinion goes out the window. Science, facts and reality does not give a fuck about feelings or opinion, it simply does not. Nor should it. Normal sensible people from the middle, moderates from either major political party...get off your asses and take control back from the extremist cranks...please. 

Okay, I probably pissed every single reader off now so...I'm done, lol.  :)

44 comments:

  1. That's quite a post Vanessa and one that sets your blog apart from so many others and the reason but i feel it was missing something at the end, oh yes, the closing 'without pants' shot :)

    i agree with much of what you wrote (sorry to disappoint). The only things i would challenge you back on. Freedom of expression and the 'good old days'. I will say just one word 'McCarthyism' and the fear and closing down of any discussion of many issues that generated.

    As for women and feminism, well you know my views. Gunning for equality doesn't aim high enough, women should push for superiority as, for the most part, they are. But i know i am in a minority on this, even my Owner disagrees with me on this.

    i hope the post was a cathartic experience though and remember, for every shit head and dumb arse out there there are a ton of totally lovely people too.

    Now, to the important point. What happened to the 'sans pants' shot?

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    1. Oh sure...McCarthyism, and there would be a plethora of other examples...I was sort of making a sweeping statement there, lol. Sans pants? In the wintertime? What? You drunk or something? :)

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    2. Valid point. Warm legs, frozen punani though...will take this into consideration, lol. :)

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    3. The greatest art is born out of suffering...and imagine how pert butt you will be :)
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  2. Deal, next post no knickers

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    p.s. and have just posted so may be a few days coming - although also have no panties in that one, just a freshly caned warm arse

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    1. I live in "Murica....we have no idea what "knickers" even are. :)

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  3. Vanessa, this is quite a post covering a myriad of topics….and I do admit to possessing many of the same thoughts on these subjects as you have so eloquently described. And it is disturbing…..and while these are “perceptions” about our society these days and the culture that is apparently prevalent, I am embarrassed to say I cannot name, by name, one person who represents any these points of view….I am out of the main stream these days I believe, but who are these people? By name. Who are the pc police? The wok spokespeople…the GOP Christian bums?

    I think about my circle of friends and acquaintances and folks I am aware of in my community, and the people I have known through my life, and cannot name a single person that falls into any of the categories you mention…

    I may be really naive, but out there in America, in real life and on a personal basis have we changed that much the way we interact? Or is there a small, very small segment of the population, trying to influence most of us and keep us separated and divided, to allow them to obtain and retain power?

    Nonetheless, What a post! thanks for sharing….yes and if I get a vote…I vote for a pantless ending as well.

    hs

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    2. HS, part of my point, you hit on. According to social media and regular media, the topics I mentioned are the *most* important of the day, but in real life, mainstream average people, the moderates, the *non-extremists*, those issues are not our main focus. Yet the politicians listen to whomever gets the most headlines, and ignores the *silent majority* that are not all over Twitter or Facebook (or whatever) raging and thowing tantrums. Ergo why I want us "normal" people, to be heard. :)

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  4. Well said, and I am with you all the way….you have a platform and are quite thoughtful and well written, and educated on the subject matter, so you are doing your part….for sure….the rest of us need to step up do our parts, and take back our country from the few powerful elite politicians….and academia…..study and learn about the founding of our country…how it is supposed to be by and for the people…us normal people….not career politicians who get rich off controlling the rest of us or their lackeys…who do their bidding…

    Now “normal” not so sure of for me….crossdressing submissive male…Ha….but yes a member of the silent majority….and you Vanessa….you are far from “normal” as well….as you have shown many times in many ways….have a great week.

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    1. Crossdressing? I wear pants. Does that make me an "abnormal" crossdressing woman? :)

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  5. Of course you are not “abnormal”….just a “normal” crossdressing Woman…..have always thought if it was ok for Women to wear pants, then it should be ok for men to wear skirts and panties…..but there are few folks in our society that feel the same way.

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    1. Oh, I am certainly "abnormal" and do not care one bit. :)

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  6. Vanessa!!!!!!!
    You hit it out of the park
    You got a big brain my friend
    You can summarize the situation in one word:
    Dumbassery
    The Boss

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  7. Biden’s pure class
    His speech will be remembered 1000 years from now

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    1. Biden has done a far job better overall than I, or many others, ever anticipated he would.

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  8. He’s going to win in 24
    And Kamala Harris is going to win in a landslide
    I’m a seer:)
    The Boss

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    1. On that issue...I'm not so sure. Not totally convinced he's going to run, and not sure Kamala can win anything. Only time will tell though...

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  9. Well remember my prediction in 28
    Biden’s running for sure
    Bet you a crispy 100 dollar bill
    And he’s winning for sure
    Bet you a million

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  10. Ok sceptical
    Here are some other predictions
    Musk is the dumbest genius in the world
    FOX is a flaming wreck by the end of the year
    Democrats will rule the country for the next 50 years at least
    Biden’s going to be at 70 percent approval ratings within a month
    Biden’s going to win this war by July

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  11. Putin will be dead by July
    Russia will splinter into pieces
    Th Iranian people will free themselves soon
    Trumps going to jail for the rest of his life

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  12. The mkt is going to explode in the next two weeks
    Fawyney Willis will indict trump and more than 12 others on March 5

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  13. Jack Smith is going to bring a massive racketeering case that’s going to take out most of the republican leadership

    I’ve got 30 more
    But for the good news!
    I shot 70 today with piles of snow all over the place
    8 for 8 up and downs baby!

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  14. Oh and your readers might want to know
    Jack Smith is going to bring a racketeering case that’s going to take out most of the republican leadership
    Within a month

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  15. Your welcome Vanessa:)

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    1. Alrighty then...for all 7 of your recent predictive notions...and in no certain order, maybe, doubt it, possibly, might happen, no way, nope, yep, could be a factor, golf is stupid, yeah, no way in fucking hell, stop drinking, yea, could be, doubt it again, lay off the pipe, golf is boring, get out more, you might be right, seek help, and....that is yet to be determined. You're welcome...you freaking lunatic, lol. :)

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    2. Never expected less from you:)!
      Now Vanessa
      I told you I’m a seer

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  16. See Vanessa
    What I do is
    Eat breakfast
    Golf
    Cook dinner
    Eat dinner
    Do golf yoga
    I invented it
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    You do yoga with a 60 degree wedge
    Property griped
    And you move the wedge slowly and gracefully
    And always in perfect balance
    I eat 4 edibles
    And I loose myself in totally in bliss
    It’s a very zen
    Read the internet till about 3
    And
    rinse and repeat
    Perfect life:)

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  17. I asked you a serious question over on the cuckolds blog

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  18. Oh and
    You have to have a
    Jumbo Max ultra light XL grip on the 60

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  19. Vanessa!
    You never told me if you’d carry my balls

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    1. *"I eat 4 edibles. And I loose myself in totally in bliss."*

      That explains a lot. :)

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  20. Text me your phone so I can text you some stuff
    I can’t email it
    Too dumb

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    1. No texts. I use a landline. Luddite over here, lol. :)

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