Blathering Bloviating Babbling Babble. :)

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I like words. I like books. I like reading, learning, writing, expression, jotting down thoughts, ideas, concepts and finding out interesting things about our world and other people. I love libraries, book stores, and really miss the old second hand book stores, those hole in the wall used book stores, finding treasures and unknown authors, old tomes, books with dusty tops and cracked spines. 

Knowledge, history, science, law, astronomy, old religions, old customs, biographies, geography, about humans, our ancestors, cultures, sex, pretty much anything and everything. So...you know I'm not going to like the following, lol. 

Republican wants to expand definition of “child pornography” to make it easier to ban LGBTQ+ books. 

I would like to ask these morons a question. Have they ever head of....the Internet? I mean, banning books, blocking and censoring what young people might be able to read at a school or public library...makes no fucking sense when all that same information is...on their phones or PC. It's just stupid. Beyond the fact that knowledge never harmed anyone, information, facts and education being a good thing, not a bad thing...ever...the futility of trying to thwart people from learning when they have all the information and knowledge compiled together by humankind at the tips of their fingers via the Internet...what a bunch of jackasses.  :) 

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 On to other Topics...that Involve...Words.  :) 

I came across this cuckolding question on some site and just thought how unfortunate it is. What struck me was how the guy described his plans based on his life's hopes of a relationship with a dominant woman. His education in all this being porn. Reposted below as I found it, typos and all: 

{"I don't know what to do. If someone can understand my situation and know how to guide, please do! 

Alright, I am single male. I am very shy and introvert by nature. I never been with anyone before romantically and/ or sexually. Approaching someone on such matter is next to impossible thing for me because of my nature.But after all I am human being and have physical/ mental needs to fulfill. So my only escape route to fulfill my needs is through the online world of porn and sex stories sites. What I used to think for fantacy and just to release my sexual tension in lonliness, now I strongly feel that I want it in real. My favourite topic in porn surfing and sex stories in about wife sharing and cuckoldary. Day and night, I cant think of anythign else but dream about being a cuckold hubby myself. I have my fantacy world carved out of many hours of porn and sex stories I had done. When I think and dream about it, I feel so happy and can help myself release tension. On the other hand, I also strongly feel like being a normal person and having and enjoying normal romantic and sexual relations like many others in society. I am suppose to be getting married now, but still I dream of such things. Such feelings and thoughts are affecting my day today life. I cant sleep well, I cant focus well on job, my health and mental state is always disturbed. Because of this push-pull of opposite feelings and desires, I always go through great internal struggles. What to do?"}

Beyond what appears to be a need for a shrink visit and maybe some OCD medications, his hopes are not based on reality but porn sites and sex stories. 

Look, while my marriage and life is far from anything even remotely normal, I am a fan and advocate of marriage. Sure, mine is not monogamous (on my side anyway, lol) and far from conventional. Still, it is something that can be mutually rewarding and beneficial for so many couples around the world. What's missing in the above post is anything and everything to do with what happens the majority of the day and night when people are living their lives and not having sex. One could say that my marriage is certainly a Female Led Household type. But that encompasses so much more than sexual domination. 

We own a couple of mainstream businesses. So, we have employees and all the details related to that, plus of owning homes, land and so on. There are thousands of things that have to be done, and I run all of them. My husband is very good at what he does, but he's not a leader. I am. So whether its taxes, landscaping, ordering or repairing office equipment, a new roof, car maintenance, scheduling doctor visits and making sure they are kept, grocery shopping, payroll taxes, getting the dogs and cats to the Vet for shots and checkups, all those millions of details that I'm in charge of...that reflect or are an aspect of my being bossy and dominant...you never see or read that in most FemDom porn or stories. 

I love cooking and baking and entertaining. I also am a health nut. I absorb recipes and write my own and drive all over town looking for the freshest and healthiest produce and meats and fish etc...to make sure that anyone that eats anything I make is healthful. I care about my husbands health and of the health of my friends and family. My insistence on all of this is (again, repeating myself) an aspect of my being bossy and dominant and are something you never see or read about in most FemDom porn or stories.  

I view my marriage as a team effort. Trying to get through life, living as long as possible, enjoying life, traveling, eating, drinking, fucking, doing all the things I enjoy...requires planning and effort to accomplish these goals and dreams. For me, that means I have to pretty much run the whole operation as I am demanding and bossy and exacting with high expectations. And those expectations will be met. This is (yes, once again) something that is a reflection or is an aspect of my being bossy and dominant...and yes again...you never see or read that in most FemDom porn or stories. 

I have no problem with porn or erotica and as some people may know, I've made some and written some myself. At the same time, real life female led relationships and domination include what happens the other 23 hours of the day when I'm not spanking, caning, ball slapping, facesitting and cuckolding my submissive husband. That's real life...and it can be a great life. I hope that others can find and achieve the same for themselves but that is simply not possible when people have unrealistic expectations and/or base their hopes of a life spent with a dominant woman...based on FemDom porn. 

Guys, you want to be with, to love and honor and worship and spend your life with a dominant woman? Great, truly...I mean who would support that more than I? Get out there in the real world and apply yourselves finding her. She's there somewhere...I can guarantee it. I can also guarantee that shes not going to be anything like what you may have seen or read in most FemDom porn or stories (well...unless they're mine of course, lol.)  :)

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Cuckold Jealousy? 

I have a question for all you cuckolds out there. Your lovely wife is out on a fuck/date with a sexually superior man. You are left waiting at home with that cuckold angst, the nerves, the excitement, the blue-balls, maybe caged, that sexual energy, teased and denied, anxiety, probably in her wardrobe, staring at her panties, and trying to stroke your cuckold cock. Are you mostly jealous of him...or of her? 

I mean he is kissing, stroking, caressing your wife. He might be tasting her and she might be tasting him. She may be sucking on his cock and/or licking his balls. Do you wish it was you? Do you wish she had invited you to tag along and maybe order you to take his flaccid penis in your hand and/or mouth and to stroke or suck it into a raging hard on with veins pronounced and balls filling up with that superior manly sperm?   

He's going to fuck your wife. He's going to ejaculate inside her. You remember what that feels like right? Pumping in and out of her pussy (probably a loose pussy if you have a little dick) until your little cuckold balls empty? I mean for some of you its probably been quite a long time since she allowed you access to her pussy with anything other than your tongue. And good call on her part. I barely even recall the last time I let my husband put his cuckold dick inside me.

But some of you get excited by fluffing a dick. Some of you love/hate the thought that she might make you take your "treat" directly from the source. You hate the thought of it...its what queers do. Yet your dick is hard and you question, wonder, maybe even salivate at the thought of those superior Bull balls emptying in your mouth and spewing that manly mess all over your tongue. 

So, are you jealous of him for being qualified to fuck your wife? Or are you jealous of her for spending time with a superior male? Maybe I'll go ask my cuckold husband this question, just to watch him stutter and stammer knowing he's getting blue balls and later sit on his face while I beat on those cuckold balls with my riding crop.  :) 

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A couple random photos I found and love.  

Cuckold Horns...and Bull Vetting. :)

 Bring Back the Cuckold Horns? There is a great deal of symbolism attached to cuckoldry. No doubt we've all seen the HotWife anklets, charms, bracelets, pendants, even T-shirts and panties printed with a variety of cuckold related sayings, comments or graphics and artwork. Whatever happened to the use of the cuckold horns though to provide that additional humiliation to the cuckold husband? 

"In Western traditions, cuckolds have sometimes been described as "wearing the horns of a cuckold" or just "wearing the horns". This is an allusion to the mating habits of stags, who forfeit their mates when they are defeated by another male.[7] In Italy (especially in Southern Italy, where it is a major personal offence), the insult is often accompanied by the sign of the horns. In French, the term is porter des cornes, which is used by Molière to describe someone whose consort has been unfaithful. Rabelais wrote the Tiers Livers of Gargantua and Pantagruel in 1546, by which time the symbol of the horns was "so well-known and over-used that the author could barely avoid making reference to it."[8] Molière's L'École des femmes (1662) is the story of a man who mocks cuckolds and becomes one at the end. In Geoffrey Chaucer's Canterbury Tales (c. 1372-77), the Miller's Tale is a story that humorously examines the life of a cuckold. In Chinese usage, an altogether different allusion is used, when the cuckold (or wittol) is said to be "????" (wearing the green hat), which derives from the sumptuary laws used in China from the 13th to the 18th century which required the males in households with prostitutes to wrap their heads in a green scarf (or later a hat)."  

The Cuckold's Horns.

Now I know that many have adopted an approach to cuckolding that is akin to swinging...in my opinion. And of course that's fine but (as some may know) for yours truly...without the element of Female Domination, without it being done of her own volition, her choice, my choice, its rather boring. I prefer to mix in a bit of "sexual domestic violence" before, during and sometimes after. Forcing, grabbing my cuckold by the hair and making him kiss, lick, suck and clean up. Humiliating him is a thrill for me and one of the main attractions to this. So, to that end, if cuckolds were ordered to wear "the horns" on a shirt, a bumper sticker, a yard sign (lol) it would display their status to the world and all other women would know his wife was freely mocking whatever his inadequacies were and flaunting it in front of the world. Nice twist on sexual objectification for our side. :)

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Since I am going through the "Bull Vetting" procedure in my mind....I figured I'd write this out and share it as its running though my mind anyway. The mental list of things, details, attractive qualities and positive versus negative lifestyle attributes or complications.  

Its sort of odd to me that all the personality traits and physical characteristics that drew me to a guy even as a clueless and love struck teenage girl, still apply today. The odd part is that then it was the Disney/Hollywood version in my mind of boyfriend/girlfriend, followed by years of dating and marriage and kids, white picket fence and all that, now its just a guy to come over and fuck me in front of my cuckold husband, lol. 

Eyes: Love eyes. I can't say I have a particular favorite in color, but the shape, the lashes, (Are they kind eyes? Does he have shifty eyes?) and how that all blends with his face is very important to me. 

Hands: Love, love love a mans hands. They need to be manly. I prefer the infamous "mans man" (whatever the hell that means really) so some long and thick fingers, well manicured but not to the metro-sexual level, are great. Thick meaty palms, those veins on the back, strong, manly, a few scars, the kind that lead up to forearms and biceps that are well toned, some muscle, and connect with big wide shoulders. The rest of the body has to match. I hate those "beach muscle" guys that are all gym pumped up, never worked a day in their life, and only do upper body workouts. You know the type, once they strip down nude, superb upper body development (often very tanned as they love to show off) and skinny, scrawny white legs that look as if they belong to a different human altogether. Things need to be symmetrical and in balance with other body parts. 

Smile: One that is engaging and pleasant without coming across as someone trying to sell me insurance or that of a politician. Not cheesy, just friendly and sincere. I'm not hyper-anal about store bought teeth either. The brilliant blind-your-ass whitening thing has gone too far in my opinion. Normal looking, well kept, hygienic human teeth are attractive to me, they show individuality and character. Paste on teeth that make everyone look like a beauty pageant queen or a mannequin...not really into that look.

Height and weight: He needs to be at least as tall as my husband, so 6 foot plus. As mentioned above, in shape so I've no idea of body weight requirements but I would assume 200 pounds or so and up to maybe 240. I love guys with muscle but am not attracted to the steroid body-builder type. Lean, not bloated, nice ass and abs, cut, in shape. 

Cock and balls. 7 inches plus and thick a must. Up to maybe 9 inches and that's about it. Beyond that...and my compliments...but you need to find a size queen who can take and enjoy it, I can't. I like large sort of low hanging...heavy balls, as my cuckold has those uptight, high ones so it gives me something else to mock and humiliate him about. 

Personality: See above. I'm still attracted to my very own fictional version of Prince Charming. Warm, caring, confident but not overtly so. Don't come across as Mr. ManlyMacho or you're gonna be using lotion...alone, lol. 

Status: If I see, hear, detect any signs that he's cheating on a wife or girlfriend...we're done immediately. I'm out of the coffee shop door (or wherever the interview takes place at) in a second. I have some rather oblique questions that I ask via e-mail that usually catches them up if they are. Of course other telltale sings, wedding ring tan lines, nervousness when checking cell phone or texts. I never really get into their cars so can't check for signs of another woman's possessions, lingering perfume, "girlie" Cd's, wet wipes, scented Kleenex, magazines, receipts, clothing or so forth. Not that I would do a search like that anyway, just mentioning that some things are easily noticed. 

Health/Brains: Does he show signs of excessive drinking, drugs, paranoia? Is he able to carry his side of a conversation and able to focus? I like an intelligent guy who is well read and educated to some level. I mean I've no desire to sit around and expound on Pythagoras theorem...that's not how I intend to "use" him. I don't really mind any specific accents, drawls, vernacular and so forth, just as long as he can hold his end up. 

Availability: After a few complications with a fairly recent divorced lover, family obligations and odd working hours etc, I prefer someone who lives close by (but not too close) and is a bit of a night-owl. I keep late hours and we have to be compatible on that. At the same time I want my distance. The way it works is this: If I call you to come over and fuck me, if you're free then here we go. If not, that's fine and we try another day. You don't call me...ever, period. 

Does he "Get it": I don't want to have to write out a dissertation on all the subtle nuances of my version of cuckoldry. I don't want to have to explain from A to Z and back again on what the "rules" are, how they apply, and what is and is not on the "menu". If they guy has spent the last decade reading bad cuckold porn, watching it, dreaming about it and thinks his involvement is anything other than supplying me with some dick, he's confused. No, you are not going to be my Lord and Master. No you are not going to fuck my husband up his ass (or me for that matter). No you are not in charge of anything. No you do not get to humiliate my husband and you are not a Sex God and neither of us are going to be your sex slave. Wrong ad buddy...cuckoldry is not about that. Do your homework.  

Then, after all that, going through this with a few guys, running the ads, answering a few, deleting most, replying back to the few that do seem sincere, arranging for a coffee date some afternoon after multiple e-mails, a few phone calls...the final candidate usually gets scared and runs away anyway, lol. :) 

When that happens its tough on my husband. My sexual frustration morphs into sexual anger and the intensity goes up quickly. Which means a frustrated Cuckoldress who can't find any worthy cock is in the mood to administer rather severe spankings and canings, ball busting and endless demands for an overabundance of face-sitting and Queening. 

Okay...back to the replies. :)

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Why do I suspect that Poppet Subslut would want "Purple Star Mans" jumpsuit...  :)

You Must Now Verify Your Drivers License to Watch Porn in Louisiana.

                              

Conservatives celebrate law that ensures age verification to view online porn in Louisiana.

Government Identification Required to Jerk Off in the Pelican State. 

Laurie Schlege (Bill Sponser) graduated from Dominican High School. Schlegel earned a degree from Louisiana State University and an M.A. in marriage and family counseling from New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary. 

Or, in other words, in typical religious fundamentalist fashion, she's making up "evidence" to support her agenda of pushing for the USA to be a theocracy. In one interview she stated: We must protect our children from the dangers of pornography online the same way that we do in the physical world.

What danger? I'm being serious here. What danger? Seeing nude bodies? Okay, some people might find that offensive, but being "offended" does not imply "danger". People, us, human beings, do not have a right to go through life being "unoffended". Someone else's music, clothing, a slogan on a bumper sticker or a t-shirt, a poem, a book, an opinion, how they walk, talk, laugh, eat, what they eat, how they chew, how they dance, their hobbies...plus a billion other examples are things that someone, somewhere, will find "offensive", but that does not mean the other person or people should stop doing it, nor that it is a danger. 

People used to say, decades ago (some credulous cretins probably still do), that porn would cause an increase in rape. The evidence proves otherwise. People used to say that porn would cause an increase in sex trafficking, the evidence proves otherwise. So...danger? People say that porn will cause sex or porn addiction. Problem with that is...there's no official diagnosis that either exists as a freestanding, all alone addiction. Sure, some people have addictions, to a lot of things, but that could be working out, dieting, TV, cigs, religion, sex, porn, comedy, food, drugs, video games etc...which shows an issue with the "person" not the product they are consuming, as...others have no issue with it nor are addicted to it. Some people drink alcohol, some do not. Some play video games, some do not. Some do too much of those examples, others control it, some abstain from those things entirely.

So, what we're really talking about here is...in most cases, conservative religious people finding porn objectionable based on their religious indoctrination, and...that's it. But rather than just admitting that, they rig studies, alter statistics, lie about science, biology and facts, to prove their point...which is not proof, as in scientific proof, but instead it's just nonsense. As in stupid nonsense...of the type that would be funny and laughable, if it were not for the fact that some of these lunatics have political power and create laws...that oppress other people, that censor free speech and that violate the 1st Amendment. I've said this many times before, I don't really watch porn, never really did. I have some home movies that would be considered "pornographic" by some peoples standards, which I do for fun. So my rant on this topic is not about my desire to watch porn...I just hate any powertripping motherfuckers telling other people what they can and can not watch, and making up lies that it's about "protecting" children. Seeing some tits and ass never hurt a kid, ever. Seeing endless violence might...and being brainwashed by religion...certainly does. So, in conclusion...fuck 'em. :) 

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What a body...I mean...what a fucking body.  :)