Cuckold Horns...and Bull Vetting. :)

 Bring Back the Cuckold Horns? There is a great deal of symbolism attached to cuckoldry. No doubt we've all seen the HotWife anklets, charms, bracelets, pendants, even T-shirts and panties printed with a variety of cuckold related sayings, comments or graphics and artwork. Whatever happened to the use of the cuckold horns though to provide that additional humiliation to the cuckold husband? 

"In Western traditions, cuckolds have sometimes been described as "wearing the horns of a cuckold" or just "wearing the horns". This is an allusion to the mating habits of stags, who forfeit their mates when they are defeated by another male.[7] In Italy (especially in Southern Italy, where it is a major personal offence), the insult is often accompanied by the sign of the horns. In French, the term is porter des cornes, which is used by Molière to describe someone whose consort has been unfaithful. Rabelais wrote the Tiers Livers of Gargantua and Pantagruel in 1546, by which time the symbol of the horns was "so well-known and over-used that the author could barely avoid making reference to it."[8] Molière's L'École des femmes (1662) is the story of a man who mocks cuckolds and becomes one at the end. In Geoffrey Chaucer's Canterbury Tales (c. 1372-77), the Miller's Tale is a story that humorously examines the life of a cuckold. In Chinese usage, an altogether different allusion is used, when the cuckold (or wittol) is said to be "????" (wearing the green hat), which derives from the sumptuary laws used in China from the 13th to the 18th century which required the males in households with prostitutes to wrap their heads in a green scarf (or later a hat)."  

The Cuckold's Horns.

Now I know that many have adopted an approach to cuckolding that is akin to swinging...in my opinion. And of course that's fine but (as some may know) for yours truly...without the element of Female Domination, without it being done of her own volition, her choice, my choice, its rather boring. I prefer to mix in a bit of "sexual domestic violence" before, during and sometimes after. Forcing, grabbing my cuckold by the hair and making him kiss, lick, suck and clean up. Humiliating him is a thrill for me and one of the main attractions to this. So, to that end, if cuckolds were ordered to wear "the horns" on a shirt, a bumper sticker, a yard sign (lol) it would display their status to the world and all other women would know his wife was freely mocking whatever his inadequacies were and flaunting it in front of the world. Nice twist on sexual objectification for our side. :)

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Since I am going through the "Bull Vetting" procedure in my mind....I figured I'd write this out and share it as its running though my mind anyway. The mental list of things, details, attractive qualities and positive versus negative lifestyle attributes or complications.  

Its sort of odd to me that all the personality traits and physical characteristics that drew me to a guy even as a clueless and love struck teenage girl, still apply today. The odd part is that then it was the Disney/Hollywood version in my mind of boyfriend/girlfriend, followed by years of dating and marriage and kids, white picket fence and all that, now its just a guy to come over and fuck me in front of my cuckold husband, lol. 

Eyes: Love eyes. I can't say I have a particular favorite in color, but the shape, the lashes, (Are they kind eyes? Does he have shifty eyes?) and how that all blends with his face is very important to me. 

Hands: Love, love love a mans hands. They need to be manly. I prefer the infamous "mans man" (whatever the hell that means really) so some long and thick fingers, well manicured but not to the metro-sexual level, are great. Thick meaty palms, those veins on the back, strong, manly, a few scars, the kind that lead up to forearms and biceps that are well toned, some muscle, and connect with big wide shoulders. The rest of the body has to match. I hate those "beach muscle" guys that are all gym pumped up, never worked a day in their life, and only do upper body workouts. You know the type, once they strip down nude, superb upper body development (often very tanned as they love to show off) and skinny, scrawny white legs that look as if they belong to a different human altogether. Things need to be symmetrical and in balance with other body parts. 

Smile: One that is engaging and pleasant without coming across as someone trying to sell me insurance or that of a politician. Not cheesy, just friendly and sincere. I'm not hyper-anal about store bought teeth either. The brilliant blind-your-ass whitening thing has gone too far in my opinion. Normal looking, well kept, hygienic human teeth are attractive to me, they show individuality and character. Paste on teeth that make everyone look like a beauty pageant queen or a mannequin...not really into that look.

Height and weight: He needs to be at least as tall as my husband, so 6 foot plus. As mentioned above, in shape so I've no idea of body weight requirements but I would assume 200 pounds or so and up to maybe 240. I love guys with muscle but am not attracted to the steroid body-builder type. Lean, not bloated, nice ass and abs, cut, in shape. 

Cock and balls. 7 inches plus and thick a must. Up to maybe 9 inches and that's about it. Beyond that...and my compliments...but you need to find a size queen who can take and enjoy it, I can't. I like large sort of low hanging...heavy balls, as my cuckold has those uptight, high ones so it gives me something else to mock and humiliate him about. 

Personality: See above. I'm still attracted to my very own fictional version of Prince Charming. Warm, caring, confident but not overtly so. Don't come across as Mr. ManlyMacho or you're gonna be using lotion...alone, lol. 

Status: If I see, hear, detect any signs that he's cheating on a wife or girlfriend...we're done immediately. I'm out of the coffee shop door (or wherever the interview takes place at) in a second. I have some rather oblique questions that I ask via e-mail that usually catches them up if they are. Of course other telltale sings, wedding ring tan lines, nervousness when checking cell phone or texts. I never really get into their cars so can't check for signs of another woman's possessions, lingering perfume, "girlie" Cd's, wet wipes, scented Kleenex, magazines, receipts, clothing or so forth. Not that I would do a search like that anyway, just mentioning that some things are easily noticed. 

Health/Brains: Does he show signs of excessive drinking, drugs, paranoia? Is he able to carry his side of a conversation and able to focus? I like an intelligent guy who is well read and educated to some level. I mean I've no desire to sit around and expound on Pythagoras theorem...that's not how I intend to "use" him. I don't really mind any specific accents, drawls, vernacular and so forth, just as long as he can hold his end up. 

Availability: After a few complications with a fairly recent divorced lover, family obligations and odd working hours etc, I prefer someone who lives close by (but not too close) and is a bit of a night-owl. I keep late hours and we have to be compatible on that. At the same time I want my distance. The way it works is this: If I call you to come over and fuck me, if you're free then here we go. If not, that's fine and we try another day. You don't call me...ever, period. 

Does he "Get it": I don't want to have to write out a dissertation on all the subtle nuances of my version of cuckoldry. I don't want to have to explain from A to Z and back again on what the "rules" are, how they apply, and what is and is not on the "menu". If they guy has spent the last decade reading bad cuckold porn, watching it, dreaming about it and thinks his involvement is anything other than supplying me with some dick, he's confused. No, you are not going to be my Lord and Master. No you are not going to fuck my husband up his ass (or me for that matter). No you are not in charge of anything. No you do not get to humiliate my husband and you are not a Sex God and neither of us are going to be your sex slave. Wrong ad buddy...cuckoldry is not about that. Do your homework.  

Then, after all that, going through this with a few guys, running the ads, answering a few, deleting most, replying back to the few that do seem sincere, arranging for a coffee date some afternoon after multiple e-mails, a few phone calls...the final candidate usually gets scared and runs away anyway, lol. :) 

When that happens its tough on my husband. My sexual frustration morphs into sexual anger and the intensity goes up quickly. Which means a frustrated Cuckoldress who can't find any worthy cock is in the mood to administer rather severe spankings and canings, ball busting and endless demands for an overabundance of face-sitting and Queening. 

Okay...back to the replies. :)

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Why do I suspect that Poppet Subslut would want "Purple Star Mans" jumpsuit...  :)