Face Sitting and Grinding. :)

                           

The thing about extended positioning for oral service is...she's either seated, laying, prone or supine. Unless someone has the ability to levitate, I'm not aware of any other angles or positions that would work. If she's laying, and you got "Lickers Neck Ache"...elevating your bed or a chair is the only way I can think of to avoid that issue. Unless one had a barber chair of sorts, where she could lay back and use foot stirrups, but that would still be her seated, you down under. The only difference being if she's high enough, you'd be seated and with a straight neck/spine. Or you could go all Tarzan and have a hammock of some nature hanging from the ceiling. But now I'm getting into the realms of the imponderable, so consider a Queening chair, or not, but either way, I will cease babbling...and go see if I can find my pants.  :)

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Posting Personal Ads...

I think any ad, posted anywhere, regardless of the forum or theme of the site, that is overtly blunt or direct, is not going to yield good results. Ads that seem like the person is ordering up someone (vanilla, kinky, dominant, submissive, whatever) from a drive thru are ubiquitous and are usually ignored, for good reason. They generally read as someone desiring an "employee" who will focus on their needs, desires and pleasure, rather than someone seeking a *whole* person to spend time with, and possibly spend their lives together. And within the BDSM realm, they will be tagged as originating from a "Do me sub". And no one likes that. 

Placing an ad that comes from someone appearing to be well rounded, rational and sane, listing some general interests and hobbies is what would garner views and possible connections. And guys, keep in mind, confidence is sexy (as is a sense of humor and empathy). As per confidence, if it appears that someone is desperate, meaning they failed in their search on fetish sites, and are now trolling vanilla sites, that reeks that they're not scoring well and screams "Alert" and caution flags go up.  

But beyond writing an ad that shows a balanced person behind it, interjecting certain words or terms that imply a healthy and alternative sex drive should not be a deal breaker. Mentioning that you prefer a "take charge" woman, that you love to know she's sated and happy, are not averse to compersion, are somewhat obeisant and malleable, should catch the eye of any woman that is so inclined to desiring a mate that supports that type of lifestyle. But as a caveat, I should mention that I've never been to a dating site, of any sort, so possibly have no idea what the hell I'm talking about.  :)

Just a minor point, but not everyone engages in verbal negotiations and talks about limits, fantasies, safe words and so on. Something to consider when in the intial stages of "sexy talk" or sexting or whatever the hell people do. For some people, the whole thing just sort of evolves, it just grows and happens, without much more than a small verbal cue, or a nod of the head. Reactions, interest, disgust, favorites, lust and passion is gauged from body language, from breathing, panting, moans, groans and orgasms. 

 And for those already in a relationship, regardless of the dynamic and what someone might have a fantasy for...if someone feels the need to "push" their spouse into something, whatever it is, where that genuine interest doesn't already exist...its not going to go well in the long run, and sometimes not in the immediate either. Enthusiasm is always good...if its directed towards the goal of a mutually rewarding experience & lives. The operative word being "mutually". Maybe consider, if kink is involved, not getting hung up on the verbiage, the titles, the rituals and all that initially either, as for some people, it can be too intense and even intimidating. For myself, I don't feel the need to draw a distinction between sex, power and control. All three can be interconnected and there is this fluidity that combines them into what is...just me. I don't need a title and all the accouterments, the whole production that seems to increasingly be shown as what a "FemDom" is, or is supposed to say, do, look like, wear and all that nonsense mostly depicted from the porn industry. In other words, and no idea if this will even resonate with most people these days....dominant women? Yeah...we don't need no stinking badges. :) 

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Fetish Furniture Factory 

No sex please!?

Popular New Dating Trend Is the Last Thing People Expected. 

"According to the talk show hosts, women are now preferring short, bald men. Yes, you read that right. It seems that George Costanza may have been onto something all along. In a world where height and a full head of hair have traditionally been considered attractive qualities in men, this unexpected shift in preferences has taken the dating scene by storm."

This "article" made me think about the height dynamic between men and women, and more so, certain aspects of it within the "rich guy" world, business, Hollywood etc. where there are no shortage (no pun intended) of wealthy guys who are on the diminutive scale, with women who are much taller and usually statuesque. I guess that means money is the great equalizer...at least with gold diggers. Still, I can't imagine this is anything other than a small segment of society, and will be a brief trend. I know there has always been an "Amazon Woman" fetish, large strong sexually dominant women, so obviously some people will be happy about this.  :) 

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Please stop asking me to address gun violence, I'm busy banning books.

I'm not going to rant on this topic...the insanity of the current version of the GOP is quite clear. 

And no, obviously I do not mean every single Republican voter...just...98.27% of them.  :) 

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Changes in Sexual Activity. 

No sex please, we’re millennials: Celibacy has become all the rage among young people.

I've seen a lot of these types of articles the last few years...and I mean a lot. Sure, some of this would be attributed to the pandemic, people were (rightfully so) scared and extra cautious, but it seems to be beyond that. Is it a hormonal thing? Is there a change in human beings due to environmental issues, pollution, junk stuff (preservatives, steroids, hormones, pesticides, etc) added to our food and medications? Is it the change in the dynamic between women and men in the workplace and home life? Women now lead in getting college degrees and in many cases earn more. Are they just deciding to focus on work and vibrators? All this "Incel" stuff (much of which I do not buy into by the way)? Oversatuation of porn and sex stuff everywhere so that some of the curiosity has been lost? A combination of all of the above...or other factors? 

I know the evidence shows it to be mostly a global issue, which has some people freaking out. Beyond the "Bok-Bok-Bok" aspect for pleasure, from a reproduction standpoint, there is a concern by some, of global population decreasing...which to me would be a good thing. But to others, they're spazzing out over long term projections of less young people meaning less people to care for the elderly, less tax money to support programs like social security, less people in the labor force, and all those sorts of social factors...which are a concern, but I think some are drama queens about it. 

Whatever the cause and reasons behind it are...I find it baffling. Granted, I am a hedonist of sorts, to some extent, but to me (with family, friends, social issues and humanity coming first) food, drink, working out, reading, writing, playing with my cats and dogs, things of that nature... and of course sex, are pretty much the most pleasurable things in life, and the only reason to get out of bed in the morning...or, to get out of bed about noon, to be more accurate.  :) 

Transwomen Sports Debate...

Someone has been posting in my comments section calling me transphobic due to my stance on transwomen competing against women in sports. I approve all posts before anyone else can read them, so I could just delete them...but as I support free speech, and have no fear in discussing this topic, have zero fear in some idiots "cancelling" me...have no fear in using science and facts to beat down their PC rhetoric...I post and reply to those messages. 

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Women are women.

Transwomen are transwomen.

Men are men.

Transmen are transmen.

They are not the same.

They never will be. 

Supporting equal rights does *not* mean giving an unfair advantage to transwomen over women in sports. One has nothing to do with the other. I'm not going to go back into all of the specifics and genetic details as I've written numerous blog posts (and books) about the topic....go read, or not, makes no difference to me. 

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This person is known as Lia Thomas. A transwoman swimmer that was good as a male, and superb when competing against women as a transwoman. Lia is a transwoman...not a woman. Period. Anyone can see the difference. And anyone can tell by the change in the number of "wins" when competing as a man in the past, to now, competing against women, that it is unfair, and that transwomen are not women. 

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Some foolish people want to state that hormone levels equal things out. Meaning if a transwoman has the same levels of testosterone as a woman...it's "all good". 

Bullshit. 

Normal testosterone levels in teen boys 12 years old is 7 to 800 ng/dL

Normal testosterone levels in teen boys 15 is 100 to 1,200 ng/dL   

Normal testosterone level in late teen males 300 to 1,000 ng/d.   

Testosterone level in adult males 19+ years old is 300 to 1,000 ng/dL

Take the high level of 800 for a 12 year old male and compare that to an upper level high of 800 for an adult male and that means they have roughly the same level of the hormone testosterone. 

Meaning this 12 year old boxer could have the same level of testosterone...

As this guy.

Does that seem like it would be a fair fight? 

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People that are either stupid or lying want to pretend that hormones are the only factor that separates men from women (seriously, get an education). They imply that hormones are the "fuel" for the body...like gasoline...so to speak. 

Fine.  

Two mechanical devices that both run on fuel.

This one goes 22 miles per hour.

This one goes 338 miles per hour.

The both run on "fuel" so that must mean they are "equal" right?

No.

Hell no.

Fuck anyone that tries to say different.

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Fuck anyone that is implying I am transphobic. Seriously...take your PC wanker lies and shove them up your fucking ass.  And I mean that. Truly. You want to live in a delusional world where you think altering some hormones and some surgery makes a man into a woman? Run with it. Is it true? Nope. Is it a fact? Nope. Does stating facts, science and biology make one transphobic? Nope. It just makes the one stating the facts intelligent...and it makes those stating otherwise...a fucking dumbass. 

Fuck off.

  

Everyone else?

Have a resplendent and fantastic day!   :) 

 

The Clusterfucking Chaos Continues... :)

Most women don't climax from penetration alone. 

And 4 other important facts about female orgasms. 

Learn something about women guys...just to be different.  :)

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Alrighty then...guess I know what I'm buying everyone for...Christmas.  :) 

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After a Week of Anti-Trans Attacks, Jeffree Star Calls Nonbinary People "Made Up".

Jeffree Star chose Valentine’s Day to call nonbinary people “made up.” During an appearance on a podcast, the makeup mogul went on a minute-long, expletive-ridden rant on how he’s “not into” nonbinary identity. “I’m not into all the other bullshit—the ‘they’ and ‘them’ and all that extra shit we added during the pandemic ‘cause everyone was so bored in their fucking houses and started to make up more shit,” Star said.

Human beings, gay, straight, bi, trans, male, female, intersex, asexual, pansexual...we are not homogeneous. Everyone is going to have their own opinion, as they should. This notion that you are either on "Team X" or a traitor, that tribalism, is just stupid. 

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For your crotchety old cranky "stable genius" relative...on Facebook.  :)

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'Fear is not freedom': Centenarian shreds Florida book bans as Nazi behavior.

Her words to the school board meeting where pretend false outraged conservative stupid fucks are banning/buring books below. People that fear knowledge, education, information and wisdom, are people *we* should fear...and stop from having political power. 

Good afternoon folks. I am Grace Lynn. I am a hundred years young. I'm here to protest our school district's book-banning policy. My husband Robert Nichol, was killed in action in World War II, at a very young age, he was only 26, defending our democracy, constitution, and freedoms. One of the freedoms that the Nazis crushed was the freedom to read the books they banned. They stopped the free press, banned and burned books. The freedom to read, which is protected by the First Amendment, is our essential right and duty of our democracy. Even so, it is continually under attack by both the public and private groups who think they hold the truth. In response to the book banning throughout our country and Martin County last year, during the time I was 99, I have created this quilt to remind all of us that these few of so many more books that are banned or targeted need to be proudly displayed and protected and read if you choose to.  The quilt was shown on national TV as part of Ali Velshi's 'Banned Book Club' segment. Banned books, and burning books, are the same. Both are done for the same reason: fear of knowledge. Fear is not freedom. Fear is not liberty. Fear is control. My husband died as a father of freedom. I am a mother of liberty. Banned books need to be proudly displayed and protected from school boards like this. Thank you very much. Thank you.

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What Is A 'Quirked Up White Boy' Who Is 'Goated With The Sauce?' The Slang Overload Copypasta, Explained. 

Slang is always amusing, even though I can't keep up with half of it...nor care to. What's also amusing to me, is that probably 98% of the gold diggers on the planet would sashay past the guy in the meme...looking for a sugar daddy, and have no idea who he even is.  :) 

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Think Uganda's New Anti-LGBTQ+ Bill Doesn't Concern You? Think Again.

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World Athletics bans transgender women from female sports.

Good for them. Girls and women deserve to compete against other girls and women.

Start trans sports leagues and trans people can compete against each other. 

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Boss Refuses To Accommodate Employee's 'Confusing' Second Name & Pronoun Change After Explaining Their DID Diagnosis.

I would not employ this person either. You go to work to do the job for which you were hired and to get paid. Your own personal life, lifestyle, choices and preferences are not relevant to your job or your boss. Show up, do your job, get your check...and shut the fuck up.  

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Joe Rogan Opens His Anti-Cancel Culture Club in Austin.

 The comedian and podcaster's longtime passion project, Comedy Mothership, has finally opened its doors: "You can't fire me from my own club!"

If I lived in Austin, I would frequent this club on a regular basis. Humor is supposed to be offensive. Free speech can be brutal, and is usually/often honest, but either way, it needs to be protected. Fuck cancel culture...

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Fucking Male "Privilege"...

Who the hell do they think they are?  :) 

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If I tried to decide who is more bat guano fucking insane stupid ass crazy and moronic...the far left, or the far right...I'd have to say right now, it's a tie.   : ) 

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See what I did there?

Naked ass?

No pants?

Bent over? 

Aughh..some of you people have no damn sense of humor.  :) 

Just Watch/Listen to the End...

 

Love her, love the song, love the ambience, love the energy, love the vibe, might have posted this before, friends of mine, wish she and the musicians had more exposure, yes she actually cut herself in several places on the tree bark, bleeding, cold, snow, dedicated to getting the shots right...end of post.  :) 

Nothing Worth Seeing/Reading Here...

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The Enduring Grip of the Gender Pay Gap. 

This should read...

The Enduring Myth of the Gender Pay Gap. 

When they put together these cute little biased "studies" notice they only look at a few specific jobs within certain industries, and then imply the stats are applicable to all occupations. 

What do they leave out?

Runway models.

Instagram "Models".

Strippers.

Hooters waitresses.

ProDoms.

Hookers.

Gold Diggers.

Stepford Wives.

Mistresses.

Concubines.

"Kept" women.

The list goes on and on and what do they all have in common?

They make vastly more money...than men do.

So, when people claim that women "earn 82 cents for every dollar earned by men"...it's a 100% pure and total lie. 

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Crazy Ass Liberals. :) 

‘There Is Something Dangerous About This Movement’ 

JK Rowling Pushes Back Against Pro-Trans Activists.  

What baffles me about this whole controversy is...how any sane rational person can think the promotion of rights for trans people, means taking rights away from biological women as being...just. It's women that are being minimized by this insanity. Women. Women are women. Transwomen are transwomen. Men are men. Transmen are transmen. Not the same thing. All human beings deserve equal rights, but pretending that biology doesn't matter...it's nuts. I am mostly on the side of Rowling on this issue, as is science and facts. And I'm fed up with anyone that doesn't capitulate to this insane PC nonsense being branded as being "transphobic". Anyone that doesn't agree with the extremist elements of this agenda is called "transphobic". 

That guy is transphobic. 

That lady is transphobic. 

That traffic light is transphobic. 

That burrito is transphobic. 

Any straight guy that won't let me suck his dick is transphobic. 

Any straight chick that won't let me go down on her is transphobic. 

The wind today is transphobic. 

That dirty napkin is transphobic.  

 Science, facts, reality, biology, genetics...not politically correct, nor transphobic. 

Piss off...  :) 

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Stanford Law protesters demand to have names redacted from news reports.

 'Not how the First Amendment works'. 

A bunch of hardcore drama queen radical liberals at a liberal law school protested a conservative speaker who was invited to speak. They disrupted the event, made asses of themselves, were filmed, now want their names and photos removed from records and social media. Just to reiterate, these are law students, that have no fucking clue what the 1st Amerndment stands for...bunch of dumbfucks. :) 

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Crazy Ass Conservatives.  :) 

The GOP needs a new slogan. 

No part of the above articles assertions stated within, can I disagree with. 

How hate has become the GOP's main political weapon. 

Hate has become the rotted core of the GOP.  Hate of queer people; hate of college professors; hate of Black people; hate of immigrants; hate of public school teachers and books; hate of Hispanics; hate on “uppity” women; hate of drag queens; hate of liberals; hate of American history; hate of Asians; hate of “woke” and other terms to describe tolerance and compassion. 

In other words...they hate democracy and America. 

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Phone sex...old school style. 

Pants...just saying. 

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Bloomers...gotta love them...right?  :) 

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Alrighty then, enough out of me. 

Most people probably think that should be...forever, lol.  :)