Thursday, March 30, 2023

No sex please!?



"According to the talk show hosts, women are now preferring short, bald men. Yes, you read that right. It seems that George Costanza may have been onto something all along. In a world where height and a full head of hair have traditionally been considered attractive qualities in men, this unexpected shift in preferences has taken the dating scene by storm."

This "article" made me think about the height dynamic between men and women, and more so, certain aspects of it within the "rich guy" world, business, Hollywood etc. where there are no shortage (no pun intended) of wealthy guys who are on the diminutive scale, with women who are much taller and usually statuesque. I guess that means money is the great equalizer...at least with gold diggers. Still, I can't imagine this is anything other than a small segment of society, and will be a brief trend. I know there has always been an "Amazon Woman" fetish, large strong sexually dominant women, so obviously some people will be happy about this.  :) 



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I'm not going to rant on this topic...the insanity of the current version of the GOP is quite clear. 
And no, obviously I do not mean every single Republican voter...just...98.27% of them.  :) 


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Changes in Sexual Activity. 




I've seen a lot of these types of articles the last few years...and I mean a lot. Sure, some of this would be attributed to the pandemic, people were (rightfully so) scared and extra cautious, but it seems to be beyond that. Is it a hormonal thing? Is there a change in human beings due to environmental issues, pollution, junk stuff (preservatives, steroids, hormones, pesticides, etc) added to our food and medications? Is it the change in the dynamic between women and men in the workplace and home life? Women now lead in getting college degrees and in many cases earn more. Are they just deciding to focus on work and vibrators? All this "Incel" stuff (much of which I do not buy into by the way)? Oversatuation of porn and sex stuff everywhere so that some of the curiosity has been lost? A combination of all of the above...or other factors? 

I know the evidence shows it to be mostly a global issue, which has some people freaking out. Beyond the "Bok-Bok-Bok" aspect for pleasure, from a reproduction standpoint, there is a concern by some, of global population decreasing...which to me would be a good thing. But to others, they're spazzing out over long term projections of less young people meaning less people to care for the elderly, less tax money to support programs like social security, less people in the labor force, and all those sorts of social factors...which are a concern, but I think some are drama queens about it. 

Whatever the cause and reasons behind it are...I find it baffling. Granted, I am a hedonist of sorts, to some extent, but to me (with family, friends, social issues and humanity coming first) food, drink, working out, reading, writing, playing with my cats and dogs, things of that nature... and of course sex, are pretty much the most pleasurable things in life, and the only reason to get out of bed in the morning...or, to get out of bed about noon, to be more accurate.  :) 

12 comments:

  1. Vanessa: not surprising about the bald man situation….you may not remember, but it wasn’t too long ago that Telly Savalas, and Yul Brynner we’re voted the sexiest men in America…and it started a trend in baldness being equated to attractive and alluring….there certainly are many men these days who intentional wear bald….so I think the trend has never waned….of course some wear it better than others…

    And I suspect it goes along with an increasing trend for Women to prefer more “mature” men as well as much less well endowed in the “manhood” department….older and smaller seem to be catching on (LOL…tongue in cheek of course…the day before April 1, as well).

    Sex has been a primary focus of people and especially the young since time began…I don’t think much is different these days…just perhaps a more open and broader view of what folks like…….

    Not a enough of us tall, dark and handsome men to go around! (Ha).

    I enjoyed the read as always….thanks…have a great weekend.

    HS

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    1. I am aware of the two guys you mentioned, but they are a bit before my time so I'm not real familiar with them. But yes, the shaved head look has been around for some time, and yes, there are many men that look fantastic like that. For me hair means less, really looks overall mean less, than other attributes and qualities. :)

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  2. Hey Vanessa
    Always nice to wake up to your musings:)
    WC

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    1. Duly noted WC...glad you enjoy, and thanks for saying it. :)

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  3. Personally I blame Hitachi:)
    No man can measure up!
    WC

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  4. How bout a picture:):)?
    Vanessa in the throes of the Hitachi:)
    WC

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    1. Oh, I've already posted a jagillion of those...photos, videos, you name it. It's old hat at this point. :)

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  5. Yea but Poppet and HS and I want a custom shot:)
    WC:)

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  6. Haha!
    Yea
    Something like that:)
    WC

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