The Unexamined Brutality of the Male Libido (Authored by a Wussy FeMANist.)

Would someone please go buy this "guy" some balls?

Or ask his wife to sew them back on?  :)

 

 

 

From The New York Times we have The Unexamined Brutality of the Male Libido which left me baffled, perplexed, flummoxed and nearly apoplectic. 

 

This melding or confluence of sexual harassment, sexual abuse, rape, pedophiles and/or sex with minors and some peoples version of SPC (Sexual Political Correctness) plus a hard core feminist agenda has to stop. Its doing no one any good, it is not protecting victims of the aforementioned abuses, and in some ways minimizes the severity of the trauma for those that were truly victimized and the negative impact on their lives which is virtually assured.  

 

This half-man wussy actually quoted nutcase and fulltime man hater Andrea Dworkin:

 

"In 1976, the radical feminist and pornography opponent Andrea Dworkin said that the only sex between a man and a woman that could be undertaken without violence was sex with a flaccid penis: “I think that men will have to give up their precious erections,” she wrote."

 

(Andrea Dworkin was sadly...someone that had a rough life and a detached relationship with reality. While I'm sure her intentions were sincere, her studies, opinions and conclusions were pretty much 100% wrong...all the damn time)

 

Mixed in with some rambling babbling about Freud and Oedipus complex, he states:

"Sex is an impediment to any idealism, which is why the post-Weinstein era will be an era of gender pessimism." 

 

And the line that just killed me:

"But there remains no cure for human desire."

 

Cure? A cure means the end of a medical condition. He views human desire, human sexuality as something that needs to be "cured"? Does he not know that sex makes babies and if we "cure" sexual desires its....the end of the fucking human race, lol? 

 

Sex is an "impediment to any idealism"? What in the blithering blathering flying fuck is that supposed to even mean? What if my version of "idealism" is based on a hedonistic lifestyle where sex plays a major role?

 

Here's the main thing, eventually these sorts of "agendas" fulminate in movements and groups like "Men Going Their Own Way" and I have to say I see their point.

 

The last few decades we've seen efforts to make boys act like girls in school. They want a gender neutral environment (no more blue for boys and pink for girls) and when young boys "acted up" in class, they determined it was due to ADHD or ADD or some sort of behavior "problem" and put them on Ritalin or whatever other kind of psychiatric drugs to make them "calmer". The reality is, boys are not the same as girls, nor vice-versa. Ever hear of a thing called testosterone? You know, the primary male sex hormone? Some of which may contribute to what they deem "aggressiveness", but in all actuality is simply due to our society stuffing them full of sugar laden junk food and expecting them to sit still for 8 hours in a little classroom. Most of them couch surf playing video games when at home, being in a urban setting few have outdoor chores to do, and I think half the schools got rid of P.E. and others disallow the kids to run or play due to concerns the kid getting hurt and liability. Its nuts. Kids have to have a way to expend all that youthful energy. 

 

We need to take sexual harassment, pedophilia and rape seriously. That has nothing to do with the "wussification" of the human male. I don't need some mansplaining emasculated guy to explain to me how my "feminist" ideology needs to try indoctrinate all men into becoming afraid of being men, afraid of doing manly things, afraid to talk, afraid to express themselves, and so afraid of other women that they all flee for the hills to live in caves trying to avoid us at all costs.

 

The majority of men I know are civilized, domesticated and even house trained. Sure, some need a bit of slapping around to keep them in line, but this massively alarmist overreaction by some people just pisses me off. Especially when it comes to medicating kids to make them more docile and servile, while removing them from a healthy environment....meaning outside and playtime and doing the things that boys (and girls) do.

 

I like men...the sort of men that can do "manly" things.  :)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Covfefe. :)

 

 

 

Femdom engraving circa 1500 AD.

 

 

Meanwhile in midtown Atlanta,  on the Crowne plaza hotel, someone has been projecting this on the building. Apparently, the police can't stop it as they are not breaking the law.

Wood.....Put some Wood in your mouth!

Can't eat wood you say?

What are nuts?

Nuts are future trees that have not been allowed to mature.

Ergo...nuts are edible wood. 

So you can eat wood.

 

 

For some reason all this talk about "nuts and wood" has made me...

Hungry and Horny. :)

No Pants - Nude - Naked - Sans Pants - Lost My Pants Again. :)

 

Spirituality - Dorian Yates - Working Out - Marijuana - Consciousness - London Real - Happiness.

Holy Gluteus Maximus!!! 

 

 

A few times I've written about searching for the meaning of my life. Not the meaning of "life" as a whole, as that's too complicated. I just mean trying to figure out how make my life mean "more" to others and the planet. 

 

For quite a few years now I've studied various religions (beyond the Big 3 monotheistic religions, Christianity, Islam and Judaism) like Zoroastrianism, some aspects of Hinduism, various practices and beliefs of ancient religions, indigenous people, Native American (I'm part Nipmuc) and also read and contemplated just ones own "spirituality" which does not have to tie to any organized religion. 

 

I'm always curious when I come across an interesting person who is also exploring a similar path, trying to educate themselves, trying to find peace, solace, a bit of mental, emotional and spiritual tranquility and trying to be "one" with the world.   

 

I love raunchy comedy, and have been a fan of Joe Rogan for years. While watching one of his podcasts while pumping away the miles on my recumbent bike, I came across this guy named Dorian Yates. While I am an exercise nut, I've no knowledge of bodybuilders so was only partially paying attention to the podcast, when some of the conversation got interesting. After watching it, I did some searches and came across more video, which I loved. Anyone that's trying to live a peaceful life, who tries to help others, who is open-minded, not a bigot nor a racist, not materialistic nor greedy, is someone I would probably enjoy knowing. 

 

I think there is a huge connection between working out, Pilates, Yoga, martial arts and anything else with mental and spiritual happiness. At least for myself...its helped enormously.

 

The links below go to some videos, hours worth of video. And I'm sure a search would yield more. I was not familiar with the "London Real" channel or series but they appear to have some fantastic interviews which I look forward to viewing.

 

DORIAN YATES - INSIDE THE SHADOW - Part 1 of 2 | London Real 

 

Joe Rogan Experience - Dorian Yates

 

Dorian Yates – Inside The Shadow

 

 

 

The babbling, blathering verbiage I orally ejaculated above, (lol) ties in with this article which was sent to me by an anonymous person named...

A. Non Emous.  :)

 

What If Consciousness Doesn't Drive the Mind?

 

 

Uh, No. We Don’t Envy this Guy’s “Sex Life.”

Wouldn't it just be cheaper all around to get a hooker?  :)

 

c Male Prairie Voles Likely to Cheat, Less Happy In Monogamous Relationships.

Lets get drunk and get naked! Oh wait, they're already naked. Link forwarded to me by a reader. :)

Ron Jeremy: Notorious porn star says the internet has put industry out of business.

Side note to photographers...you don't *have* to zoom in that fucking close okay?  :)

 

"Mikey Thompson" - Cuckoldry. Queening. Female Domination. Oral Service. SPH. Submission.

Apparently I touched a nerve with someone using the moniker "Mikey Thompson". I posted the text below (beneath the photos) on a social media forum and received his message which reads:

 

 "Stop posting your stupid fucking views and opinions. Your not Vanessa Chaland. Your either looking for a relationship or go post on FetLife where you can be called out and disgraced by all." 

 

Seems a tad brusque and just a bit paranoid to me. Why would he think I am not me? I mean I know who I am. I am who I say I am, and I are, who I say I are, and am and be.

I'm not questioning if I am, who I say I think I am, lol.  :) 

 

 

 

Cuckoldry is the act of a married male and female wherein the female has a lover or lovers other than her husband. In modern times the term has extended to involved people, engaged people, those living together, a girl friend and a Mistress. It has nothing to do with a submissive male being involved with nor being "trained" by a bull or otherwise dominant male. Its not about bisexual acts between males, period. If people enjoy engaging in bisexual or homosexual acts, that's fine and I support them, and I sometimes make my husband do "things", but it has nothing to do with cuckolding in its classic/original sense.

Many websites today, about cuckoldry are a joke. They are full of people that think that cuckolding can only occur with Black males, or that it involves only multiple gang-bangs, or husbands sucking and worshiping BBC, or the objectification of the woman and so many other far fetched myths that it defies the notion that the site owners have ever read a book. Swinging, wife watching, bisexual role-play, exchanges of power, B&D, S&M, cross-dressing, forced feminization, and any other variations of the above plus whatever else does not equate "cuckoldry". Those acts may be part of it, they may be included in it, especially if the cuckoldress also happens to like a bit of kink and certain types of humiliation and/or femdom activities, but that is not the basis of the actual term of cuckolding.

My intention is not to be pedantic but simply to clarify and inform. Its irrelevant if others care to agree with me. I base my statements on the definition of the word, on many years of experience, evidence, logic and that simple thing known as fact. There is a rather large interest in cuckoldry and quite a decent amount of activity that exists in any city of any decent size. I know this firsthand, as I travel a great deal, and have met quite a few people. I know many people curious about it and/or involved in it. Single females, males, couples, Bulls, and many married couples that desire it. Some people seem to have a hard time finding compatible partners. 

 

Perhaps its all in the way one approaches and vets potential applicants. If people would just understand better what they are talking about, know what they are looking for and what the ads they place actually mean, plus be honest and upfront about their expectations, limitations, and hopes and fantasies, everyone could cut through the red tape and start living their fantasy instead of just dreaming about it. And of course, I do believe that as the woman is the center of all male attention, she should own a queening chair to allow her to have her pussy properly attended too by her cuckold husband.  

 ~ Vanessa Chaland :)

Thanksgiving.

A homeless man spent his last $20 to keep her safe. She’s raised $34,000 to repay him.

Its almost Thanksgiving, then people have their Christmas wish list, followed by New Years resolutions...I'm combing mine into one thought/wish...can't we make the world like this everyday? 

 

Sub-Drop and Sexual Anxiety.

  No, this isn't about dropping off your used and abused submissive at the local bus station like you would a distant second cousin you dislike after a way too long unannounced visit. This is about the depression or abandoned feelings and emotions after an intense session or when they are away. Background, anyone that has had the misfortune of reading my rambling babblings knows that my, introduction into the kink or fetish world was very unconventional. 

 

  It appears that, for many at least, they get into a lifestyle by learning about it from a boy or girl friend early in their sexual development year. Some go the route of munches, play parties, etc. It seems that the younger generation (those in their 20s) have a variety of social locations, bars, clubs, places that have theme nights which they frequent. Some are from the Old Guard. Some have fetish clubs where they dress up once a week on Fridays nights & hit the clubs where they then proceed to hit each other apparently. For myself, it was something I gravitated to of my own volition & had to pressure or demand it of previous boyfriends, to little satisfaction, and then later to a guy I was dating, whom became my husband, wherein I beat and tormented & trained him to do my bidding. Success at last.  :)

 

  So, my point is that much of the terminology that is used in the B&D, S&M, fetish, kink community is foreign to me as other than a few visits to a munch or something similar, my fetish life has always been private. I was not ever aware of the term "sub-drop" until recently. I am very aware of the nervous and anxious nature of my submissive husband when he is suspicious that I have some nefarious plot upcoming that may involve him being used in some disgusting and humiliating ways. I can sense his "sexual anxiety" and angst when he learns of a forthcoming punishment session that is often followed by his being cuckolded by me and all that goes with it. I am quite aware of his love/hate for this and know that while he is revolted by some tasks I assign to him, his cuckold blue balls are filling and quivering and desiring to unload just as soon as I allow it.
 

 

Common Rules, Etiquette BDSM.

Just realized this is a couple years old....but I guess I'll post it anyway.  :)

 

Lovebotz Debuts New Power-tool-inspired Sex Machines.

Why? There are horny men with cocks...everywhere. :)

 

6 Tips For Sex In Unexpected Places Around the House.

(Seriously? Is this article about sex? Or OCDs?)   :) 

 

First things first, the not so hot step to having hot kitchen sex: Clean your kitchen before you have sex in it. Make it a part of the experience. Getting everything spic ’n’ span can help boost the anticipation of erotic adventures to come. No one enjoys scrubbing with bleach, but it becomes a lot less tedious when you know you’re going to be naked on every surface in a matter of hours. There is nothing sexy about crumbs and sticky spills getting all over you, involuntarily, during kitchen sex. There is a difference between messy sex with food and gross, unsanitary sex because you’re a slob.