"Mikey Thompson" - Cuckoldry. Queening. Female Domination. Oral Service. SPH. Submission.

Apparently I touched a nerve with someone using the moniker "Mikey Thompson". I posted the text below (beneath the photos) on a social media forum and received his message which reads:

 

 "Stop posting your stupid fucking views and opinions. Your not Vanessa Chaland. Your either looking for a relationship or go post on FetLife where you can be called out and disgraced by all." 

 

Seems a tad brusque and just a bit paranoid to me. Why would he think I am not me? I mean I know who I am. I am who I say I am, and I are, who I say I are, and am and be.

I'm not questioning if I am, who I say I think I am, lol.  :) 

 

 

 

Cuckoldry is the act of a married male and female wherein the female has a lover or lovers other than her husband. In modern times the term has extended to involved people, engaged people, those living together, a girl friend and a Mistress. It has nothing to do with a submissive male being involved with nor being "trained" by a bull or otherwise dominant male. Its not about bisexual acts between males, period. If people enjoy engaging in bisexual or homosexual acts, that's fine and I support them, and I sometimes make my husband do "things", but it has nothing to do with cuckolding in its classic/original sense.

Many websites today, about cuckoldry are a joke. They are full of people that think that cuckolding can only occur with Black males, or that it involves only multiple gang-bangs, or husbands sucking and worshiping BBC, or the objectification of the woman and so many other far fetched myths that it defies the notion that the site owners have ever read a book. Swinging, wife watching, bisexual role-play, exchanges of power, B&D, S&M, cross-dressing, forced feminization, and any other variations of the above plus whatever else does not equate "cuckoldry". Those acts may be part of it, they may be included in it, especially if the cuckoldress also happens to like a bit of kink and certain types of humiliation and/or femdom activities, but that is not the basis of the actual term of cuckolding.

My intention is not to be pedantic but simply to clarify and inform. Its irrelevant if others care to agree with me. I base my statements on the definition of the word, on many years of experience, evidence, logic and that simple thing known as fact. There is a rather large interest in cuckoldry and quite a decent amount of activity that exists in any city of any decent size. I know this firsthand, as I travel a great deal, and have met quite a few people. I know many people curious about it and/or involved in it. Single females, males, couples, Bulls, and many married couples that desire it. Some people seem to have a hard time finding compatible partners. 

 

Perhaps its all in the way one approaches and vets potential applicants. If people would just understand better what they are talking about, know what they are looking for and what the ads they place actually mean, plus be honest and upfront about their expectations, limitations, and hopes and fantasies, everyone could cut through the red tape and start living their fantasy instead of just dreaming about it. And of course, I do believe that as the woman is the center of all male attention, she should own a queening chair to allow her to have her pussy properly attended too by her cuckold husband.  

 ~ Vanessa Chaland :)