Defending Submissive Men. 😊

 

I came across a social media thread where people were slamming male subs as being "pussy's" and alluding to them being weak inferior men and all the typical assorted invective laden pejoratives, some by men, some by women. I found this confusing. 

First off...what's wrong with pussy?

Most people like it. 😁

Secondly, women are often complaining that men are unavailable emotionally, too detached, too stoic, and too reserved with thoughts, feeling and fantasies. Being sexually submissive is not a sign of "weakness". If being sexually dominant for women is "empowering", why is being sexually submissive for men viewed as being  "emasculating"? One could posit that both are outside societal norms and some would say outside gender norms. So one is good, one way is positive, but the other way is bad and negative? How can women be sexually dominant without men being sexually submissive? You sort of have to have the latter in order to have the former right? Without submissive men being submissive, who the hell would dominant women...dominate? 

You can take the physically strongest man on the planet, a powerlifter or whatever, or the top boxer or MMA fighter, some karate guy, the toughest man alive, and he could be sexually submissive. Does that mean he's "weak" or a coward, a wimp or a "pussy"? Not even close.  

It just makes me realize that the majority of people, normal people, vanilla people, simply do not get anything fetish related. They just do not understand anything within the BDSM or kinky realm, and can't grasp that it's not about physical strength, fortitude, endurance or whatever, but rather about mental state or attitude, lusts and desires. The whole power dynamic shift that we understand, is baffling to them and beyond their comprehension...or at least it is for most. There is no way in hell an average woman could ever physically dominate the average male...period. Ever. So him submitting is not about being weak or being a "pussy", its about him willfully submitting TO the pussy, lol. 

I get people from past generations and eras not understanding this. But in todays world, with all the information we have, with the Internet, with munches, play parties, movies, porn sites, books, erotic books, porn stories, news articles, the plethora of information available, how so many still are ignorant of just a simple concept. And it also makes me wonder...do they have no imagination at all? Do they have no sex fantasies, no desires out of the "Insert Penis in Vagina" type of sexual urges? If true, it sort of makes me feel sorry for them...and perhaps for their sexual partners. Sounds like a boring existence. My point simply being...well I have no idea what my point was anymore, but it's up there somewhere. 🤣