I send emails to my cuckold (excerpt from one of my books) just to torment him. So first thing in the morning, he wakes up, he sees messages like this. Or late at night, I'm already asleep, he has to read taunting emails that make him nervous, jealous, aroused, give him blue balls, letting him stew in his discomfort. For me, good, proper, effective female domination is maybe...25% physical, and 75% mental. The mind being the largest sexual organ in the body, can not be ignored and must be used, exploited and abused. :)
Believe me, Cocky, I love your body and your hands and arms and everything physical about you. You are very strong, and that is sexy to me. The strength you have would surely make a great massage. The only reason I seek out someone else to massage me is for the techniques he knows...sound a bit familiar? I never dreamed that I would be cuckolding you through massage, but it is what it is. Seeing Tom will eventually teach you a thing or two, so you will get to massage me more. It will be one of your regular jobs, you know. So I must see this man at least a few times more to gather good information....you understand, right? The fact that he is tall, fit, and good looking is just a happy coincidence...right? The fact that he and I get along very well is too, right? I think it's just great, and you better hope he doesn't have a huge cock, and balls to match...right? Ma'am
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Ma'am, Why would I care about the size of his cock and balls? I mean they/it has nothing to do with me. Correct?
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They, it, he has a lot to do with you. You will have a lot to learn indirectly from him, and you should have already thought of this possibility. I am not sure I intend to fuck him yet, but do enjoy the fact that it could very well happen eventually. While the meetings are still appointments, I will be letting you suffer with the thoughts and pictures of what could be. Either way, he is a new fast friend, and one I can use to humiliate you... Ma'am.
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My lovers are picked from ads I run. They know upfront that they have a "job" and that's it. There will be no other interaction beyond that, before or after. They are "human dildos" and if they have a problem with that, I never meet them. It's discussed prior to meeting, so they know they deal. The rest of your question...too long to go into here Poppet. I've written entire books on that topic. But it was a requirement of mine, from day one of dating. I outlined how I wanted my life to be... :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for answering Vanessa. i realised the minute i posted it that it probably deserved an answer along the lines of 'read my fucking books'. i love how you know your own mind and are quite open about what you want and expect from your husband. Owner has the same qualities. It's irresistibly attractive.
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I would never tell you to "read my fucking books", that would be pushy and rude. I might tell you "Read my fucking books you slutty mouthwhore ass-slut"...which would be more appropriate, lol. I just decided, after a few lame and lazy lovers when I was in my late teens and early twenties that I would either get what I want, or go without. And I did, go without for a few years. Then I found places to engage with others, to run ads, found this guy, who seemed malleable, totally took advantage of him, exploited him, and the rest is history. :)
DeleteYou found a great guy.
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I concur. :)
DeleteAs a submissive man, I would posit that being dominated is probably closer to 90%, at least for me. Physical chastisement without the 'proper' attitude, air, and engagement is just mechanics. I also want to know that beneath it all, I am loved, valued, and respected. A seemingly contradictory mix, I know. Perhaps that's why I lean more towards the maternal discipline side of things. That omnipotent female authority who only wants what's best for you, no matter how much it hurts you.
ReplyDelete100% understood FL. Many people are that way and many live that lifestyle for decades. It makes perfect sense. :)
DeleteBeing a cuckold is the best thing I ever became. It is thrilling, it is satisfying and it is humbling, but I'd have it no other way. I would rather her choose another cock over mine any day and if the only fucking she gets is from others well then so be it! I have not been in her in over three months but others have gone where I cant go....I am happy about it.
ReplyDeleteSage words from a satisfied (denied and unsatisfied) blue balled "customer", lol. Good to see you accept your lot in life bdenied. :)
DeleteI'm curious where you find it productive to advertise. I've tried CL, Fet, but without much success.
ReplyDeletebut perhaps folks just aren't interested in what I'm looking for.
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Hey Luke, I can't really suggest any website as there is a huge difference between a woman running an ad and a man, as you already know. It's very biased and unfair, but it just *is* that way. A woman can pretty much run an ad anywhere, and get inundated with replies. A guy? Not so much. I think for guys it might matter more *how* the ad is worded, rather than *where* it is placed...which might make a difference, if that makes sense. :)
Deleteit does, and I try to be respectful and professional in my inquiries. I wonder tho if there might be women advertising with similar interests, in my area.
Deleteany pointers on where to look would be appreciated.
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Sorry Luke, I have no suggestions or knowledge on that topic.
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