Hikikomori: A form of severe social withdrawal, called hikikomori, has been frequently described in Japan and is characterized by adolescents and young adults who become recluses in their parents' homes, unable to work or go to school for months or years.
Celibacy syndrome (Japanese: セックスしない症候群, sekkusu shinai shōkōgun) is a media hypothesis proposing that a growing number of Japanese adults have lost interest in sexual activity and have also lost interest in romantic love, dating and marriage.
Hypergamy: the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background.
On the Bumble dating app, 90% of women pursue 6% of men, in terms of height. This was measured by height-filtered searches of American women within the app.
Here's the thing, social media has lied to women for a decade or so. Pretty much any woman can be on social media and get DM's from at least a few guys, from somewhere in the world, and others get a gazillion offers and DM's per day. So, after a time, they think all guys want them, they have this distorted view of themselves, they all think they're "10's" on a 1 to 10 scale (until they ask someone in real life and get rated a 4.2...and then get pissed). The vast majority of men get...no DM's, pretty much ever. Back to the hypergamy aspect, most studies show that about 90% of women are interacting with roughly 10% of guys. Meaning, roughly 10% of the more "desirable" guys, are dating/banging/fucking the majority of women, and the remaining 90% of guys have...blue balls.
It has to be pointed out however, that the majority of these youngish women, mostly in their 20s and early 30's, are going to hit that nesting and/or biological clock period, and then find out that men don't want to marry someone with a "body count" of 300 other guys, that did porn, had an OnlyFans account, has 4 kids from 3 or 4 "baby daddies", no education, a ton of bills, no skills, out of shape and overweight, nothing to bring to the table, and Holy Fuck, the man hating, misandry bitching and complaning is going to really elevate. Plus, there is a massive increase in what they call "Passport Bros" (men going to other countries to find a non-toxic more traditional woman to marry) which is pissing American and Western women off, at the same time that many of the "feminists" are questioning the whole working 8 to 12 hours a day, no time for anything, still being broke, for 50 years, wondering how that feminist "achievement" benefited or empowered women and...fuck me, there could well be a drastic decrease in the amount of babies being born, weddings, women wanting to work outside of the home, and all those sorts of related social issues.
The "6's".
These poor clueless and delusional women, all want what I call the "6's". Meaning guys that are at least 6' tall, make 6 figures, have 6 pack abs, and at least 6 inches. Which means they're totally insane. That means they have like a...0.67% chance of finding that guy. Average height for males is about 5'9", average income is, what...$30k? Most people in America are out of shape so that 6 pack, not happening. Average penis size is 5.5 inches. The level of disappointment forthcoming, soon, for 10s of millions of American women is going to be tragic, stunning, depressing for them, the motherloade of all bitchslaps. And for the most part, social media, the lies of the PC ego boosting regular media, is responsible for this. Plus, a lack of accountability and reason on the part of women in general. Seriously, find a nice, average, loyal, intelligent, hard working and stable guy, love him, marry him, treat him right, and enjoy your life together. Stop living in this fake ass world that is presented to you in ads, magazines, TV, online and in rock and rap vidoes...that is not reality.
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An image spreading across platforms purports to show an LGBTQ pride event participant wearing a T-shirt that says "trans kids are sexy." But the photo has been digitally altered; the original shows the person in plain white at a November 2021 parade in California, and the supposed T-shirt about transgender children is a fake that exploits a child's image.
Do research people. In the era of PhotoShop, AI, ChatGPT, Deepfake video and so on...take nothing at face value and double check, triple check, double verify anything of importance.
Was there a point to this blog post?
Hell no.
There's rarely a point to...any of my blog posts. :)
Vanessa: A very interesting and informative post. I enjoyed the read. I wonder though how different these times really are from any other generational time in the past 50 years...or before regarding sexual activity....especially in light of the openness of gay partnerships not keeping many people in the closet and sex free.
ReplyDeleteThere have always been folks who are not in any kind of relationship for periods of time....and these days the impression is that younger folks are into spontaneously going out to find someone that they do not know for a quickie...or one night stand....
I have to think like so much of what is promoted in the media today....not reflective of reality......obviously the population growth rate and birth rate indicate some idea of perhaps a reduction in reproductive sexual activity....but....
And I guess the age of the internet continues to have its downsides as well....just need to keep educating people to do the research...check things out...don't fall into the traps.....you do a lot of that on your blog....My hat is off to you...Much appreciated your efforts.
And mmmmmm 5.5 inches Huh! Thank goodness for talented tongues.....
Have a great day!
hs
Hi HS. You make and raise some valid questions and points. From my end, I'm just fascinated with human nature, society, people, so read a lot about those topics, ponder the details, and sometimes babble about them. No doubt some aspects of human nature are cyclical, others are "new" due to circumstances, technology and so on. Either way, I find it interesting. Anyway, hope you enjoy your weekend. :)
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ReplyDeleteI’m blown away by you
That article about those poor young men
Touched me heart
I proposed a elegant solution elsewhere today
I m too tired to type it again
But I hope that someone shows it to us all as soon a possible
ASAP
and I mean it
Every fucking word
ReplyDeleteResearch? Really!! It it was on the internet, it must be so.
ReplyDeleteHmm, so let's see. It's been over 15 years since i experienced 'traditional' sex and suspect i'll never be allowed to again in my lifetime and it's over a year since i was permitted an orgasm of any type. Nit sure where that puts me? But i remain a happy and contented slut :)
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p.s. i must try one of those clever image altering thingy-me-jigs one day and see what i'd look like as a real man :)
Where does that all put you?
DeleteYou answered your own question...slut. :)
My goodness this is a good read. One of those wonderfully blunt posts/articles based in the very kind of truth that most oblivious lemmings don't want to face. Thank you vanessachaland ... your wisdom is showing.
ReplyDeleteThank you Sub-Hub....glad you enjoyed my little rant. :)
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