You Do *Not* Want to Read This! (Or Maybe You Do.) :)

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To the various people (who shall reamain anonymous) that write me asking advice about wanting to "rid" themselves of their sexual fetishes, and how to do that...Denying who you are, trying to shut off or ignore one facet of your personality, isn't the healthiest thing to do. Maybe consider making it work for you, rather than trying to "shed" it? Sure, trying to figure out a fetish, the origin of it, how to incorporate it into your life, how to find a partner (or partners, freaks, lol) that are into it, the details, the props, toys, equipment (if required) can take a mental toll. But don't let it drive you nuts. Don't be afraid to take a day off from thinking about it, turn off the "porn machine", do something different, read a good book, take a hot bath, or even just sit and unwind, take in a big deep breath and slowly release it. Go slow. There is no rush. It's not a competition. At the same time, don't be scared of it, don't be a pussy about it. See what I did there? Pussy? You know, pussy, sex, kink, fetish, copulation, philoprogenitiveness, pregnancy, fecundity...fuck me, some of you people have no sense of humor, not sure why I even bother with you sometimes, lol.  :)

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Brad Pitt, 58, in Berlin, promoting a film wearing a brown linen skirt...I like the look. 

And the clapping seal bitches approve as well.  :) 

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Anti-LGBTQ hate group reorganizes as a "church" to avoid government oversight.

The groups, Focus on the Family and Family Research Council, were founded by evangelical Christian, James Dobson. Focus on the Family comprises a conservative theocratic mega-media Christian ministry. In his book Marriage Under Fire, Dobson likens proponents of marriage for same-sex couples to Nazis:“Like Adolf Hitler, who overran his European neighbors, those who favor homosexual marriage are determined to make it legal, regardless of the democratic processes that stand in their way.”

I guess the Adult Entertainment Industry, the Fetish Community, the BDSM world and Sex Workers need to band together and...start a church, right? I mean, it seems to be the best way to protect yourself, to have legal standing, plus...not pay taxes. 

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 Depression is not caused by a 'chemical imbalance' in the brain, say scientists.

The Left started a culture war over pronouns, not the Right. 

All about Ze/Zim & Xe/Xem pronouns.

Neopronouns are a relatively new term that describes new pronouns that can be used to replace the usual gendered pronouns like “she” and “him”. Some examples include:  They/them/theirs Ze/zim/zis Ze/hir/hirs Ze/xem/xyrs Sie/hir/hirs. Some non-binary people aren’t particularly fond of the singular “they” pronoun. Instead, they use neopronouns like ze/zim/zirs and xe/xem/xyrs. The “ze” pronoun is read as “zee”. “Zim” rhymes with “him” and “zirs” rhymes with “hers”. “Ze” is a subjective pronoun, like “she” and “he”, while “zim” is an objective pronoun, like “him” and “her”. “Zirs” is used possessively, as in “That laptop is zirs”.

Get a fucking grip people. I support egalitarianism. But there is no way in hell that I'm going to be bullied or pressured into using this language, and neither are 99.9% of the people on the planet. It is not, simply not, going to happen. Focus on what's actually important and what truly matters, laws, security, jobs, adoption, healthcare, housing and so on for the trans community (and everyone else) and stop wasting time with this forced language stupidity. Language needs to evolve organically, not be forced on people through guilt or social media pressure...because again, that is not going to happen. 

Book bans are on the rise. What are the most banned books and why?

Are book bans on the rise in the U.S.? Yes. The American Library Association (ALA) keeps track of challenges and bans across the country, and the most recent data is alarming. In 2021, the ALA recorded 729 book challenges targeting 1,597 titles. That’s more than double 2020’s figures and the highest number since the organization began recording data in 2000. The actual numbers are likely much higher: Some challenges are never reported by libraries, and books preemptively pulled by librarians out of fear for their jobs are not included.

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I think someone missed evolution classes... :) 

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There is just so, so, so, so much going on here.  :) 

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Chicharra - Are You...?

Posting this again. For one thing, I like it. For another thing, she's an amazing human being. Plus, I used to go walk my dogs and jog right where this was filmed...down by the river.  :) 

 

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Forgot to mention, I've been loading clips on my FemDom Vanessa Chaland Studio here and there, whenever I remember to. Some of it is newer, some is older from the myriad of websites I own and used to run, but mostly forgot about. Who knows, I might want to, you know, buy a Taco or (shudders, God forbid) a pair of pants or something one of these days.  :) 

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The End. :)