BDSM Fetish Fashion... :)

  It's sort of odd, how things creep up on you and catch your sort of unawares. I'm not sure why I've been thinking about clothing and fashion in general lately (the Oscars the other night probably started it) and how things have changed the last 20 years or so. What I mean is, how shocking certain BDSM or kink influenced "looks" were not so long ago, how they would catch all the headlines, conservative pearl clutchers would be shaking their heads, ranting about the decay of the moral fabric of society, becoming apoplectic, and now...no one says much. It's mostly accepted, which is of course a good thing. 

 

  The reality is, back in the old days, photos like these were basically "porn" and would make young guys aroused and have to "relieve" themselves and in need of...

Maybe the old guys as well. 

 

  Of course now, guys have Viagra, and don't have to rely on devices such as the one below, which someone actually designed and filed a patent for.  :) 

  I actually really like this look. It's cut really well, the color is complimentary to his skin tone, it's classy and fits him damn well. "Western" world business and evening suits...are so boring. While the basic suit look great, it's monotonous and so limiting to what men could be wearing. 

  Of course fashion, like everything else, is cyclical. I presume that means one day fairly soon, a certain segment of society will want to go with a more reserved and "chaste" look. Though I'm not really anticpiating full on Hoop or Bustle skirts any time soon.  :) 

   What's a bit odd is, I have an interest in fashion, but rarely put effort into what I personally wear, which makes no sense. I love creating clothing, making it, reading about it, checking into new designers and have an appreciation of it from a historical perspective. But I tend to lean towards how my great, great, great...ancestors clothed themselves, such as The Venus Callipyge below (aka the Callipygian Venus), and it's interesting that while fashion and the human body change, it also...does not. "The Venus" is dated to roughly 1st century BC and you may notice that what she and I both have in common is...no pants. :)

Yea, I know. This whole blog post made...no fucking sense. 

It was brought to you by...insomnia.  :) 

Goodbye Fetlife.

 

I can't tolerate the politically correct, power tripping nonsense that goes on there anymore, so I deleted my account. I value free speech, truth, honesty, facts, science, history etc...and Fetlife, does not. Just mentioning this as people that follow this blog and would socialize with me there...would know why my profile and content is gone.  :) 

Men-in-Skirts & Gay Puppies? :)

Oscar Isaac Wore a Thom Browne Skirt Suit on the Red Carpet. 

No idea who this guy is, but this outfit looks damn good. Seriously good. Not sure what's up with the odd socks that don't match, might be a symbolic thing, or refer to culture or sports or whatever, but the overall look is very sharp.  

Frisky pup dumped at N.C. shelter for being ‘gay’ after humping fellow male doggy. 

Gay puppy? Are they sure? I mean...how do they know? Did they ask him? Was he on CanineGrindr? Did they stereotype him? Was he wearing pink chaps? Spending too much time at the Doggy Disco, doing Doggie Dog DoggyStyle? 

Dogs are like most men, they hump anything. They hump women, they hump each other (come on, many manly sports have homoerotic overtones with the celebratory ass slapping, the full frontal "Bro-Hugs", shower room pecker checker glances and so on) other animals, pillows, a lampost, hump-hump-hump. But actually, homosexuality in the animal kingdom is not rare, just like it's not rare in human beings. It's perfectly normal. So the question here is not what's wrong with the dog...but rather, what the fuck is wrong with the owner? 

Same-sex behaviour ranging from co-parenting to sex has been observed in over 1,000 species with likely many more as researchers begin to look for the behaviour explicitly. Homosexuality is widespread, with bisexuality even more prevalent across species. 

Is Social Media a Positive or a Negative for Society? 

The posts, the photos, the exhibitionism and voyeurism, the bravado, the bragging, the myths and lies, the false claims, the dick pics, the booty's, tits and ass, the so called "influencers" most of whom have been busted being fake, you know, posing in front of cars, homes and jets, they don't actually own, Photoshopping themselves to exotic locations they're not at, have never been to, and probably never will be. People spying on each other, stalking others, jealous spouses checking up on their "significant others" to see what they've viewed, what they "liked", who they interacted with, the suspicion and paranoia, low self esteeem...it's nuts. 

I would say it's a tie. Social media (and the Internet at large) is just a microcosm of society. It simply created the ease and ability for more of us to know, how many nutty people are on our planet. Whether it's those denying legit news stories, or science, facts, history, election results, or those with grandiosity, narcissism, overinflated (and totally unjustified) egos, or the plethora of educational outlets, information, uplifting messages on websites, memes and videos, all which already existed, but was something one rarely came across in the pre-Internet days. 

There have always been dumbfucks around, morons without a clue, there were always stalkers and predators, there were always arrogant stuck up dudes and chicks that have been lied to by their Moms and their own mirrors, the difference being now, we're just inundated with those nutcases. So there are the pros and the cons. Where one chooses to visit, what you click on, who you interact with decides whether it's an informative and positive expereince, or you go down a rabbit hole of stupidity. There is a choice.  :) 

An example of the social media post above, in the following meme. What do we got here? Some dude, doing a little cunnilingus (analingus) on some bent over hottie. Cool. But the text? What the hell does the text have to do with the content in the photo? What does submission, love, commitment, devotion and poor communication skills have to do with each other...or with the photo? Nothing really. But I can assure you that a gazillion young submissive guys will see this and think it's some sort of accurate depiction of what we want to hear, so by doing so, it will be beneficially prophetic in their future with the ability to "score" with a FemDom. It's not...it's just....stupid.  :) 

Men in Skirts Above.

Men in Tights Below.

Good Men are Not Hard To Find...

They Just Need Training.  :)

Time for a Nap. :)

Arnold Schwarzenegger for POTUS. :)

Arnold Schwarzenegger makes plea to Russia amid invasion: ‘You can stop this war."

 

Okay, yeah....he can't run for President of the US, as he was not born here. However, if he could, I would in all likelihood vote for him. And yes, he's a Republican, but you know, a real one, not a RINO (Republican In Name Only) like Trump, Bush, anyone on Fox News, most of the GOP members of Congress, plus the majority of their voters as of recent times. As in, Arnold adheres to the original ideals, version and philosophy of the Republican party...something most in the GOP today, don't even know about. 

My point is, someone can be fiscally conservative, support environmental causes, desire small government, and NOT hate LGBTQIA, women, people of other races and religions, not be obsessed with other people's sex lives, and still believe in things like, history, facts, common sense, logic, education, and be a good person.

Millions of memes I've seen revolving around cuckoldry, finally, someone got it right.  :) 

And on the topic of cuckoldry and people running ads stating they are a cuckold, confusing that with meaning submissive, the "only" thing that can turn a man into a cuckold...is his wife or significant other. Being cuckolded is not a state of mind people. Its not a mood, its not a fad, its not something one conjures up or orders from Amazon. Its something done to a man. I know there are a few "resident experts" that try to say you are born one, which is just laughable. That makes as much sense as saying you are "born" a fireman, mechanic or a race car driver. No. You have to "become" one of those professions, you are not "born" one.

cuck·old /ˈkəkəld,ˈkəkōld/

a man whose wife is sexually unfaithful, often regarded as an object of derision.

 I am not defining people as black and white. I have not defined anyone as anything. A dictionary defines words. You have an issue with that, bring it up with the people that write dictionaries, or that create languages. Per some example, those men might be "wannabes" but they are not, in any way shape or form, "cuckolds" no matter how many linguistic revisionist lunatics might want to state otherwise. I could point out that the word applies to animals as well, but I fear that knowledge would elude/overwhelm some. You can call a pink taco a blue platypus if you like, it does not change the fact that this would be...100% wrong. This message was brought to you by facts, reality, common sense and...the dictionary, which I, incidentally, did not write.  :)

  

Anybody have any knowledge or information on SLS.Com, good or bad, please let me know.

Screenshot from Fetlife. Just in the off chance anyone wants to know how some Black males view being depicted as nothing but a dick...for the fantasy of others. Maybe, just maybe, they'd prefer being seen as...an actual whole human being?  :) 

BDSM Furniture - Queening Chairs - FemDom  

 

 

 

BDSM Furniture - Queening Chairs - FemDom 

Weekend... :)

 These sexy heels...with a side order of spurs, actually blend together quite well. :)

U.K. Lord: Porn 'Normalizes Sexual Behavior' Unfit for 'Wooing a Woman'.  

The Earl of Erroll, a British nobleman with an inherited title dating back to the 15th century, gave a speech to the House of Lords supporting state intervention in adult content through a revamped Online Safety Bill, claiming that online porn “normalizes anal sex and blowjobs” which “are just really not about how to go around wooing a woman.”

I bet he secretly has a caning fetish, among other things. A lot of Brits his age do. I mean, they even have a specific very old name for it,  "Le Vice Anglais" translates literally to,"The English Vice". Which means, the use of corporal punishment, and is considered a vice characteristic of their nature (some of them, of course not all) .  :)

Okay, so the meme below has some accuracy to it, and not. Obviously not every guy in a suit is a bad guy, and not everyone in overalls is a good guy, but there is some truth to it. I have little to no respect for Wall Street corporate raider types. Douchebags that make millions or billions, exploiting the labor and effort of others. Yes, they have the intellectual acuity to play that game and make money, but they don't actually do anything.  

And of course it was not just men that built America. Women played a huge role. Beyond the sweet little image shown below, being a good housewife, Mother, cook, homemaker and all that, in reality, most women also slopped the hogs, chopped wood, milked the cows, had a huge garden and orchard where they grew, froze, canned, stored, baked, pruned trees, fixed fences, rounded up cattle and numerous other outside jobs as well. 

Paul-Émile Bécat, Huit images avec leur texte (1932). 

Turn of the century MMF engraving by Édouard-Henri Avri. 

The screenshot below...has a point. No, the point is not whether or not I am "known" or popular, I'm not, and that's how I want it. My point is it's nice to know that I may have had a positive influence on other peoples lives. That means something to me. Being an advocate, for anyone that is downtrodden, disadvantaged, which includes those that are LGBTQIA and in the fetish world as well. Freedom, autonomy, egalitarianism, people living their lives as they want, with dignity and security...it's what everyone should expect, and be afforded.  :)