There I was, minding my own business, as I am wont to do (lol) and I see on a Fetlife post some guy bemoaning how some..."FemDom Chickie Cuckoldress Wanna-be" scammed him out of money for an airplane ticket. I presume he replied to her "post" (meaning scam spam message disguised as a legit post) and then they private messaged each other and she reeled him in until he was naive enough to believe her, send her cash so she could fly to see him...and of course she disappeared with his funds.
So, I posted this:
Any legit woman, any woman looking for a partner, an actual date, a relationship, will never, ever, ever, ever....ask for a "tribute" of any kind. Ever. Period. And along the same line, no woman that has any self respect would ever, ever, ever accept a "tribute" for same. Sorry to be harsh, but guys are so gullible. If a profile has a link to a porn site, Only Fans, other pay-for-play social media, if the profile has a link to an Amazon Wishlist or anything like that, there is no chance she is going to meet you, unless you fork out $1000's and pay for sex. Sorry for anyone that got burned, but seriously, wise up. Its painfully obvious which profiles are from a sincere woman seeking "someone" and those that are seeking "money only".
To expand on the above, when I say no legit women would accept a tribute, I mean a woman who is genuinely looking for a relationship. Most women in that regard would be offended, might slap you across the face (which you might enjoy...you freaky submissive pervert, lol) and stomp off in a fit of...umbrage. Someone looking for a boyfriend or husband does *not* want to be treated like a hooker.
At the same time, I have no problem with prostitution. Seriously, good for them. The issue here is dishonesty. So to that end, if you can't find a willing woman to satisfy your sexual fantasy, hire one. But don't do it the foolish way. Run an ad for some local nubile nymph who is openminded, honest, willing to engage in whatever your fantasy is, for a set amount. But don't fall for some trap where undercover cops might set you up. Its only illegal when you discuss a set amount for a specific act. Using terms like "generous" or "giving" or willing to "gift" and so on undercuts most of the legal aspects in a court of law. As does if your preferred act is not of the penile/pussy or blowjob nature.
So what I mean is...find a "sugar baby" for a one off, or an ongoing arrangement. Sure, it costs money. So does being ripped off. So does regular dating. So does a hooker. So does a Pro-Domme. But what I am suggesting is...some broke ass coed, who is horny, unencumbered, open minded, not bogged down with bitterness and baggage, who could use an extra $50 or a couple hundred, to pay some utility bills, or buy some liquor (Lick her? I hardly even know her! It had to be done people, sorry, lol.) and its a mutually beneficial deal, where you don't have to pay some outrageous $250 or $500 an hour for some burned out old slaggy Pro-Domme with a bad attitude.
Maybe she's a college student, or working a couple part time jobs, or might even be a Pro-Domme in training. My point is, find someone lighthearted, that laughs, who is easy going, not sullen and cranky, who views the event as a way to make some extra money, get some thrills, have a good time, get some experience, and just generally have fun. Use common sense. Don't let your little head speak for your big head. Meet in a safe public area. Don't get mugged. Find someone that has as much to lose as you do as far as future career, reputation, family, health and safety. You know, just a nice lady, who is not all jaded, without a drug problem, who wants to enjoy life. Or not. What the hell do I know. Just don't send your money to random women on the Internet. :)
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