Queening Chairs - Spanking Benches - BDSM: September 2021

Wednesday, September 29, 2021

MuseAck - Now with Freaky Bitches! :)

Yea, I like ABBA...and Disco, so get over it. :)

Yea, I listen to weird, odd music sometimes, even like "Schmaltz"...so get over it. :)

Woman says she’s a ‘hotwife’ and kinky husband begs her to have sex with other men.

Informational article only. Regular readers know I don't support, nor agree with the verbiage, titles, theme, concept etc...compared to cuckoldry...my style.

To me, this is just pathetic and gross. For one, its a desperate cry for attention and has little to nothing to do with sex. She's wanting social media traction, hopes to become famous out of it, get some sort of interviews, or get paid somehow. Secondly, the verbiage, its all twisted and messed up. People are applying any term, any word, to whatever aspect of sex and in this case cuckolding, without any historical knowledge or accuracy. Third, she states her husband is the "best lay" she's ever had. If so, that means she's fucking dudes that are subpar, to satisfy him, if she's to be believed, which I do not. Lastly, and mostly...bitch, we can see your kid in the background of the video. This kid will now grow up, go through school, interacting with other kids in the neighborhood, cousins, possibly other siblings in the future...and will be mocked, teased and harassed as everyone will be calling her mom a slut, a whore, a skank and so on. The first and foremost obligation of a parent should be, to protect your kids. Not subject them to whatever, so you can have 15 seconds of Internet "fame". I will not be surprised if within a few days, she's getting a visit from some sort of Child Protective Services or whatever it's called in her area...and sort of with good reason. Not because Mommy has lovers, but because Mommy has no fucking common sense and her priorities are all out of kilter. :)

NYU professor says fewer men going to college will lead to a 'mating crisis' with the US producing too many 'broke and alone' men.

Better train those tongues boys... :)

Not unlike every single "conservative" agenda/effort, Brexit is a fuck up.

Ah yes, fundamentalist Christians. Just like the Taliban...only whiter. :)

Tax the Rich.

Call it as you see it! :)

Nothing of Value was Lost.

Ahead of winter hibernation, Alaska celebrates Fat Bear Week.

I'll look like this...very soon. :)

PC Doggie Pronouns?

Go Fuck Yourselves! :)

These DIY Cosplay "kids" do create some amazing fashion styles.

Sunday, September 26, 2021

Not Everything is Racist. Plus...Spleen Venting! :)

Example, some people think Barry Goldwater was a racist.

Barry Goldwater felt (I 100% disagree) that segregation, integration etc, should have been a states rights issue, and not dictated by the Fed. At the same time, regarding diners, cafes etc, he stated multiple times that he thought business owners were fools for not accepting everyone as they're running a business and the patronage and money of anyone and everyone, was all the same. So, from a legislative, state versus Fed standpoint, I think he was totally wrong, as civil rights should be (and ended up being) under the purview on the national level, with the Constitution to back it up, and fuck the racist states (and fuck the racist states currently trying to undo some of those rights). So my opinion, was not that it was a racist stance, but rather an incorrect viewpoint/interpretation of the division of power as per states versus Feds.

King said of Goldwater’s voting record, “While not himself a racist, Mr. Goldwater articulates a philosophy which gives aid and comfort to the racists” (16 July 1964) ~ Martin Luther King

Another difference between Goldwater's version of Republicans versus now:

“Mark my word, if and when these preachers get control of the [Republican] party, and they're sure trying to do so, it's going to be a terrible damn problem. Frankly, these people frighten me. Politics and governing demand compromise. But these Christians believe they are acting in the name of God, so they can't and won't compromise. I know, I've tried to deal with them.” ~ Barry Goldwater

Goldwater grew up rich. So yes, he was clueless in many ways, a bit of an elitist, didn't understand the plight of those not born into wealth, favor and privilege, but he also spent most of his life, especially as he grew older, on his own dime, in his own plane (he was a pilot for small planes) flying all over Arizona and other connected states, to the Pueblos where he'd just land out in the desert and pass out food, medicine, blankets, money, whatever they needed.

As many well know, the GOP of that era was more of a mixed bag of one part Libertarian, one part modern day Dem, and the GOP of that era truly were small government, wanted privacy etc. As another example of how things have changed, Hillary Clinton was a high-school Young Republican and "Goldwater Girl" in 1964 but swung to supporting Democrats later, and then becoming one.

Different time, different agenda, different world. I think Goldwater was an arrogant ass in many ways, but not a racist...just my opinion. I have never felt that Goldwater was a racist. I think he was foolish in some of his opinions, you know, regarding states rights versus integration etc...but that makes him a clueless moron, not a bigot.

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News and Information.

Most of the "visual" news formats are biased, at least somewhat. From my perspective, what I wish, which will never happen, news should be delivered in a robotic (but pleasant) voice. What I mean is, inflection, a gleam in the eye, a slight nod of the head (up or down, left or right) that indicates disagreement, or agreement, or happiness, joy, endorsement, or whatever, body language, pitch, tone, all those details can and do imply...something. And I'd prefer if the news channels were totally independent from opinion or talking head pundits. The "flavor" of CNN, where it creates a vibe or the atmosphere of being partisan, is due to Cuomo, Maddow, Don Lemon, (or whoever works for whatever station, I don't watch them, so am not sure) the same but from the opposite side as Hannity and whatever douchebarges work for Fox. Know what I mean? Perhaps actual human looking robots, just straight delivery, no bias possible, remote, detached, just voicing whatever events took place, with zero ability to show any emotion that...well that implies what I mentioned above. But, I mostly just read and almost never "view" so its not a big thing for me. Just for the heck of it, check out DW News, CNA news, maybe sometimes France News Live, Al Jazeera, just to get other views of global issues. And I should add, I do "watch" many things, but for that, its documentaries, PBS Frontline type stuff (just occurred to me, that's the "voice" I'd prefer, the deep voiced Frontline guy), programs like that while I sit on my...stationary tricycle and pedal away. :)

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I heard this tired old line again recently. US President Ronald Reagan said, “The nine most terrifying words in the English language are ‘I’m from the government and I’m here to help.’”

Republicans love to use that for an applause line...but when there's a hurricaine, tornado, flood, drought, pandemic, recession, terrorist attack, or they want a school, a road, a dam, a stadium, they line up with their hands out faster than anyone. And Reagan did it as well. :)

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Down South Border Issues.

According to some from the lunatic right, Biden is stoking racial tensions. That's what some people call it when minorities want...equal rights, and other people, including me, stand by them. Nothing new there. The same trope has been used since the Civil War. Border issues are nothing new, people have immigrated from place to place since the dawn of time. When people say "Republicans are better on border control." what they mean is...better at exploiting cheap labor, then sending people back whenever they're done using and abusing them.

What happened to:

"Give me your tired, your poor, Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free, The wretched refuse of your teeming shore."

~Emma Lazarus sonnet which is on the pedestal of The Statue of Liberty.

What happened to:

“I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me.” ~Matthew 25: 31-40

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The Deep State...as Opposed to "Deep Throat". :)

When someone says "deep state" I tune out. There is no "deep state". Its a conspiracy theory, made up by lunatics. Our government is made up of a random sampling of human beings, from across all demographics. They can't coalesce and decide what they want collectively for lunch, so there is no way in hell there's an oganized shadow group running the USA.

An interesting thing to me, is when I ask someone how Biden is damaging America on a large scale, as the far right asserts, they never have a rational answer. Look, its no secret, I did not vote for Biden, never voted for any Clinton, yes, I did vote for Obama both terms, so I have no hardcore loyalty to the Dems, and especially not the DNC.

At the same time...the GOP has been wrong about every single thing for at least 20 years. Wrong on Iraq and Afghanistan, wrong on Climate Change, wrong on Covid-19, masks, and vaccinations, wrong on "trickle down" economics, wrong on their stance that gays in the military would break down cohesion, wrong on women out of the kitchen, wrong on gay marriage, wrong on taxes, wrong on gay adoption, wrong on the so called "Patriot Act", wrong on constitutional law, wrong on eavesdropping without warrants, wrong on pollution, wrong on not raising minumum wage, wrong on...everything. I can not think of one single thing, the GOP has done in this century that has been right or good for America, or the world or humanity at large. They just sell fear and lies. This is not an opinion, its fact, provable, incontrovertible fact.

I get some Republicans might not affiliate with the currrent GOP, neither does Bob Dole, David Brooks, Bill Kristol, George Will, Romney, the Bush Family, the Reagan family, and an innumerable list of old school stalwart conservatives...so what does that say about the modern day version of the GOP? Either way, 74 million did vote for Trump, the vast majority of them still won't state they fucked up, bought a lemon, got snookered, which speaks to a level of emotional immaturity that is pathetic...and the USA and the rest of the world is being drug down in the meantime. Unless someone thinks 74 million Trumpians are right and the rest of the world, which mostly detests Trump and the current GOP is wrong, meaning less than 1% of the worlds population (Trumpians) are correct, and the other 99% (Anti-GOP, Anti-Trump) are wrong...and I'd love for someone to point out how that could be the case. More so when the 99% is based on science, facts, statistics, history, common sense, ratiocination, evidence, math, biology, DNA testing, radiographic testing and the views of the worlds most brilliant people, and the 1% is based on...Trump and Fox News. Obviously only part of the GOP is bat guano insane. However, my disgust is with the other...whatever it is, 75%, 95%, that refuse to speak out against the lunatics. Allowing the blatant lies of Trump, Fox News, NewsMax etc to continue, unchecked, is a level of cowardice that I never expected.

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USA Doctors Obsession with Pushing "Shrink" Drugs.

Americans are nuts. Fucking bonkers, crazyass nuts. We get that. But what seems to be unknown to most people, including/especially the medical establishment is (one example):

In rare cases, a commonly prescribed drug known as Buspar: anger can be a side effect of buspirone oral tablets. This was not a common side effect in studies, but some people taking the drug did develop anger or even hostility while using buspirone.

The same info from the Mayo Clinic.

Bupropion may cause some people to be agitated, irritable, or display other abnormal behaviors. It may also cause some people to have suicidal thoughts and tendencies, or to become more depressed. Make sure the doctor knows if you have trouble sleeping, get upset easily, have a big increase in energy, or start to act reckless. Also tell your doctor if you have sudden or strong feelings, such as feeling nervous, angry, restless, violent, or scared.

Just one example, but I know people that took Seroquel, and said they almost immediately, as in within a day or so, felt extremely hostile and angry. Plus, Seroquel was one of the main drugs that was given to Iraq War Vets, and was tied to a very high suicide rate of them. Big Pharma has been downplaying this for decades. They were playing semantic games, using terms like "agitated" or "irritable" when in reality, its more like...roid rage, which ties in with my point about...road rage, shootings, killings, people with vicious tempers, no patience, unbelievable stress in our society, guns, more guns, big ass 4x4 trucks that can run over anyone, and over other cars, me/me/me mentality, out of my fucking way...you see my point? Some of the drugs that are being prscribed to "soften" society...are making it fucking worse.

On top of that, some studies indicate that Americans take the majority of "shrink meds" compared to the rest of the world, as in up to 60% of all that are manufactured, and they are prescribed by regular doctors, NP's, PA's, therapists, most of whom have little training with these meds, there are no blood tests to prove half, or even a quarter of the people taking them actually need them (misdiagnosis is a massive problem in the USA, by the CDC's own admission), so its a clusterfuck...which is only now becoming apparent. So when someone wonders why Americans are so fucking obnoxious, pissy, violent...these meds are contributing to the problem, for some people, but obviously not all.

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So many problems and issues we have in the USA are of our own making. Its just stupid. Anyway, my spleen...feels all better now! :)

Blather - Babble - Ramble - Words. :)

I often see people complain about how they perceive their own looks. Sometimes they unfortunately compare themselves to their spouse, thinking they don't "rate" high enough. Often its where they intend to do some swinging, attend a munch, maybe an orgy or something and they're worried that they might not "stack up" well enough compared to their spouse.

A few times, people talk about how they want to *insert whatever* get in better shape, lose weight, get their hair done, cosmetic surgery, a nose job, tit job, a cock extension, whatever. They sort of bemoan that out in public, people gaze at their spouse, lust after them, hit on them, and they themselves are ignored. But here's the thing, you don't want a bunch of frauds and fakes hitting on you, or passing off insincere compliments. You don't want people using you for your body, or looks, or money, or to get a job, or to make contacts or anything else. Be yourself. Be who you are. Honesty, integrity and self confidence is a huge turn-on.

And I gotta be honest here, based on what some people write, it sounds like their dragging their husband or wife and their whole relationship down. Why? For what? She/He likes you. She/He loves you. She/He sees the qualities and attributes that attracted her/him to you, wrapped in the package that is your face and body. Maybe consider yourself fortunate, because being lonely sucks. Rather than focusing on anything negative, be grateful, feel blessed, be happy and make both of your lives as best as you can, rather than worrying about what other people think, which most of the time is probably accessed incorrectly anyway due to self esteem issues. Move forward and just be who you are. :)

Side Topic/Observation about Cuckoldry.

Cuckoldry, from a definitive or terminological exactitude standpoint, is 100% sexual (as it applies to a cheating wife being fertilized) from a married female (or long term involvment) in that she's knocking boots and swapping bodily fluids with a guy that is not her husband. But that's not really what we're talking about here. The "fetish" of cuckoldry, is like...98% mental/emotional and 2% physical/sexual.

I know some people don't seem to understand this, because thanks in no small part due to some really inaccurate (and cheesy) cuckold "porn" they think cuckolding is about...5 seconds of penetration, a creampie, BBC and/or chastity. Its not. The "beef" (See what I did there?) is in the before, and after. The "during" lasts a few seconds to perhaps a few minutes. The before, the taunting, teasing, priming, arranging, the excitement, the anticipation, the primping, the "heat", the spark, the thrill, can range from hours, days, weeks, even months between "Bouts of Boom-Boom" and then the after goes on for awhile, but the after starts to meld with the next before, as all those emotions, anticipatory thrills start for the next "Vagabond Vagina Venture".

My point is, you have to want it. Meaning she/her/wife or a single woman. She has to revel in the whole event. From my perspective, there has to be at least a bit of sexual sadism in her making. It has to be something that you really, really, really enjoy. Something that is a big part of your life. A hobby. A pastime. An affinity of sorts. We're all just made differently. You can't "make" someone like pizza, if they hate it. Or car racing. Or sewing. Or cuckoldry. It's sort of innate. If someone does not have an interest in something, they probably never will.

And for those that offer the advice of "Get her drunk." or "Make her watch porn." or whatever...that's not going to work. Sure, no doubt a few times some woman got drunk-n-horny, got aroused and did the deed. But not only is that sort of "rapey", its not safe, its not nice, no guy should even want to do that to someone he loves. Its also a damn good reason many women wake up the next morning, realize they were pressured into something they didn't want to do, taken advantage of, hire a good lawyer, divorce, take everything he owns.

Quite often, fantasy is better than reality. In many cases and relationships, people should just enjoy the fantasy. Enjoy your lovely wife and life together. It is never worth ruining a relationship, over anything, and especially not a sex fantasy, which has probably been oversold and influenced by porn to begin with. So, go buy some lotion and "handle" your 2%. :)

There is a heap of truth to the following meme. The double standard between how gay men are seen and accepted, versus lesbians, is stunningly obvious, and disgusting. And the same applies to bisexual men as well. Its no good, its not right and its not fair. I don't understand why some people are so obsessed with the sex lives of other people, which has no impact on their own lives...at all, ever.

How #MAGA 'Murica Evangelicals view the "Life-n-Times-n-Homeland of Jesus. :)

Okay, so I had never heard of this and had to look it up.

Some call it “soaking.” Others: “parking,” “marinating” or the “Provo Float.” Or my personal favorite: the “dock and talk.” The definition, however, remains the same every time: when a person inserts a penis inside a vagina and… that’s it. No thrusting, no grinding, no climax. Just pop it in, and hold the fuck still. It’s “like ‘planking’ only your dick is inside of a Mormon.