Submissive Training?

 

I see a lot of threads and questions from people on social media stating they have a dominant streak and want to know how to "train" a so called vanilla person into being a submissive...and this sort of baffles me. As I'm not submissive...I'm not sure I'm the best one to answer this question, however, I'd speculate that many/most/all subs have the innate desire to serve someone outside of themselves, and sort of feel they were either born that way, or something occurred to make them follow that mindset and path at a very early age. Without going into the nature/nurture question, the vast majority I've spoken to state they've "known" of these urges pretty much as long as they can remember. So to that end, if its sort of ingrained within them, its not so much about their being "taught" how to be submissive, as opposed to being "trained" to attend to the tasks, duties and wishes that their Domme/Dom expect of them. Maybe its a little like being a maid or butler, wherein they have the knowledge and skills to do...whatever...and just need the guidance of when and where, but they already know the "how"....if that makes sense. But as to taking some vanilla person, who has no interest, no drive for it, no lifelong dreams and fantasies about it, I'm not sure how that could even be done. Should anyone have opinions, feel free to comment or message me if that's preferred.   :)