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Staring At Women Prompts Police To Issue 'Pervy Bloke' Warning. 

This is no good. Nothing good will come from this. This is PC Wanker, Simpism, #MeTooOverKill. 

 “Intrusive staring of a sexual nature is sexual harassment and is not tolerated.” 

 Who are the arbiters that determine whether a "look" is a glance, a leer, flirting, maybe the person is not even actually looking at the person in question, or is but it's slightly askance, glowering, or off to the side, over her head, trying to make eye contact with someone behind her. Maybe the person is drunk, or in a minor trance, staring off into space, contemplating something important to them, totally unaware that in their field of vision there is a woman, or they might be...blind. 

Where does this misguided notion come from that we, human beings, women and men, somehow have the right to go through life being unoffended by other human beings. Clothing, something printed on a T-shirt or a hat, is absolutely assured to offend someone, somewhere. Music overheard from a sidewalk, a car, a concert, a church, the Opera, someone humming a tune, or whistling, is guaranteed to offend someone, somewhere. Taking cell pics, someone taking a selfie, but way off in the background is another person, who loses their mind wondering if their image was captured in the photo. Politics, fashion, perfume, Television programming, the color you paint your home, the color of your car, the way someone walks, the way someone laughs or talks...100% guaranteed to piss off someone, somewhere.

My question to the proponents of this is...what sort of world are you trying to create? What is the ultimate and final objective here? Create laws that say that no male may look at, talk to, or even be near a female? You know who has laws like that? Hardcore religious fundamentalists like the Taliban. Complete and total separation of the sexes. I mean, to truly enact a system where this would work, to avoid any remote possible confusion, would require a draconian law where males and females are never, ever, ever, in the same room together.  

My main point here Ladies and Gentlemannsss, is a few uptight women, do *not* speak for me or the bulk of women everywhere.  

Just because they possess a loud "bullhorn" and throw massive conniption fits, doing all the #Hashtaggy "You go girlfriend Sister, Speak Your Truth, Band Together, Rise up Anti-Sex Misandrist Femininst" does not mean they are right, correct, or have the support of the majority of other women. We are unique. We are not homogeneous. There is no one size fits all. If I walk past a bar or a construction site and no guys whistle or catcall me...I'll think I "lost it" and turn right around and walk past again thinking/saying..."Okay, lets try this again boys". 

Obviously I'm not talking about groping, assault, rape, molestation or anything of that nature. And neither are they. They are talking about "looking" at a female...which means they've crossed the chasm from responsible advocacy for women that are actual victims of crimes, to being nutty insane fucking fruitcakes.  :)

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An alignment of Earth, Mars, Venus, Saturn and Jupiter (From Africa at 4 AM) 3 days ago. 

Posters found inside the restrooms of Synagogues. 

 

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Observations Post Social Media. :)

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I closed most of my social media accounts. I deleted Fetlife maybe a month ago. Instagram, Twitter, and others have been gone for years, I've never used Facebook, I think I have accounts on Reddit and Tumblr and that's it. So, a few observations now that I've spent some time without being "there". First off, I don't miss it, none of it, not at all, not one single bit.

Social media changed the last few years. It used to be memes, jokes, links and interesting people. Comedy, snark, caustic comments, parody, insult comedians, free speech, (what intelligent mature adults suppport), no political correctness, which I am not, proudly. I engage in self deprecating humor, I laugh at the Universe, I laugh at the tragedy of life, I curse and swear, I use words like cunt, you know...talking, writing, laughing, joking, insulting conservatives and religious fundamentalists, the shallow, vapid, vacuous, cretin posers, those that put style over substance. It was fun and I was just fine with it, not bothered by any of it, because...I'm an adult. But now, the last couple years, it's mostly ugly lies, backstabbing, outing others, doxxing, spam, and a lot, I mean a lot, of people whining, depressed, endlessly crying and complaining about their lives. Some whining how they can never find sex partners, both men and women. Yea, those 1st world problems are a real bitch right? It sucks when natural disasters, slavery, genocide, starvation, wars, a global pandemic, poverty, misery, human suffering and other "bothersome" things get in the way of...your sex life.

And then there is the Photoshopping and fake photos. The "Instagram Influencer" types, the obsession with looks, plastic surgery, Botox, fillers, implants and image. I see it like this, from the standpoint of my looks, my physicality, visage, countenance or whatever...Mother Nature - God/Goddess made me how I look, good or bad. I work out to stay healthy and that improves some appearance based aspects, and I try to improve myself internally, education and temperament, attitude and make the effort to be a better citizen of the world, implementing benevolence and altruism...that's about all I can do. So yes, what I see in the mirror is just fine.

And the far right endlessly harping about the "dangers of porn". How seeing some tits will force kids to crater into the deep, dark depths of porn hell. The whole "slippery slope" notion that some people promote, pure lies. The idea that some things will make someone deteriorate into addiction, but not other things. Everything shown in the media, if someone goes deep, why would it only apply to porn? What about history, Rom-Coms, Chick-Flicks, Hollywood action movies, comedy, religion, science and so on? Why, according to them, does this cratering only apply to porn? This assertion stems from the religious right, as a cautionary tale, to try to keep everyone from viewing something they deem as salacious, due to their ideology that it's a "sin" rather than any actual danger. It seems most people with a little cuckold or spanking fetish, stick with those fetishes their whole lives. They're not suddenly watching videos of decapitated lesbian nun meth freak hooker orgies, or whatever. They're still watching whatever they were interested in..their whole perverted lives. :)  

The BDSM "Community". 

There are those, the busybody, self appointed types that are endlessly trying to regulate, organize, control and determine what is allowed in the so called "BDSM Community".

What "community"? I'm always confused by this label that seems to exist mostly on Fetlife, Twitter posts and links to articles about some "community". There are roughly 7 billion people on this planet. By the law of averages, it would be safe to assume that billions of them engage in some version of BDSM. Probably 99% of them never heard of Fetlife, never went to a munch, never will, have no knowledge of all these "rules" that people come up with. So I'm not sure why people write or speak about the "kink" world as if it has some sort of governing body, elected officials, rules, laws, by-laws, a hearing committee and so on. 

Some version of BDSM has existed since the dawn of time. People write their own rules, do their own thing, and live their lives. One fantastic aspect of BDSM is it exists outside of "societal norms" sort of rebels against societal conventions, flouts those habits and rules...why would anyone would want to make it "conformist"? I don't understand that mentality.

 The "Experts"

You know the type, they crank out bloviating babbling rambling diatribes (like me, lol) and have no clue what their even writing about? Their missives are not grammatically correct, they have fucked up syntax, lack proper punctuation, and they pontificate on topics they know little to nothing about. Their diatribes lack perspicuity, draw false assumptions, have no coherent conclusion, yet they deem it as sage profound advice. The medical "advice" is the worst. According to some knuckleheads everyone has ADHD (for example). That and "Bipolar" seem to be the new catch-all diagnosis that seems to suddenly be afflicting everyone. ADHD is one of the most overdiagnosed and misdiagnosed diseases around. Most people would improve with a change in diet and lifestyle, which affects histamine, serotonin, histidine, dopamine, prostaglandin, oxytocin, adrenaline, endorphins, and a myriad of "body" chemicals, which cause confusion, insomnia, depression, mania, and a plethora of other symptoms. Most would benefit from less shrink drugs, less Big Pharma drugs, and a healthier and cleaner lifestyle. 

In summary, I don't miss it...not one bit. I'm happier without it. Perhaps I'm not totally calm and "non-ragey" (see above, lol) but at least somewhat calmer.  :) 

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Sounds lovely.  :) 

Penis straws?

Or a collection of tiny cuckold cocks?  :)

Happy Merry Easter Festivus! :)

Sex with Strangers...

Some people are for it, some are against it. Some wonder why fewer women are "down" for it than men. Some people think sex between "friends" is great, others think it's fraught with potential pitfalls. So, yea, things can change. The dynamic often changes after having sex due to the enhanced intimacy and knowledge of the other persons body, mind, thoughts, scents, verbal sounds, preferences and so on. Plus, from a social standpoint, the dynamic may have changed...based on until fairly recently (in the grand scheme of things), sex often resulted in pregnancy and disease...so there were reasons that people avoided it, or minimized it's frequency. Having said all that sensible stuff...I think it's hot and am all for it!  :) 

I'd love, love, love anyone coming to my door to talk to me about Sir Elton John. :)

Plant a tree.

Or 2, or 5 or 37. 

Our planet will thank you.  :) 

I hope...this will be me...damn soon.  :)

Working out, staying fit, and enjoying our lives...

The last few years have truly been some of the most bizarre times in many of our lives. Now there is increasingly a "push" for everyone to return to their jobs, back to normal, back to the cubicle, 40 plus hours, the grind...fuck that. 

The unfortunate reality is...this is not "news" meaning it should not be, as the "powers that be" profit from you being a worker drone. We're trained to be "worker bots" for the machine, work, work, spend, spend, and a person's perceived value and happiness is based on their productivity, hours spent at the office, income and material possessions. None of that has anything to do with spending time with family or friends, with quality of life, with happiness, with inner peace, serenity, spirituality...or longevity. You know, living longer. Obviously the bulk of humanities health has deteriorated during the pandemic. Everything being closed, isolated, shut in, unable to work out in the usual places and manners...time to change that. 

The so called "Baby Boomers" (those born between 1946 and 1964) are now entering into retirement age. Exercise is more important than ever as we age. So, yea, it's hard, it hurts to start or restart, some might think it's "too late" why bother and all that...hormones change, it's harder to make gains and to maintain...so what? It feels good. It's good for us. And it makes people look better. Witness...below. :)

Dave Draper...photos taken decades apart. 

 

Ernestine Shepherd, 84 years old. 

Eighty four years old... 

Service oriented submission, uxoriousness, compersion...there are all sorts of words, names or titles that could apply to submissive males their predilection for sexually bossy and aggressive women. The important thing is that you embrace it, enjoy it and share it with a worthy partner that deserves it. 

For women who want to experiment but are hesitant in not feeling all that assertive, maybe a bit self conscious, lacking in confidence, not knowing what to say or do...go slow. Don't put pressure on yourself. Without knowing what your interests are, maybe just start with a little tease and denial, or a light spanking. Sort of playful, lighthearted, just for fun, and over time the intensity will increase as your comfort level does. Maybe blindfold him if eye-to-eye contact makes you uncomfortable. Ride him on top, cowgirl style. Ride his face as well. Use body language (head nods, pointing, etc) if the verbal command aspect makes you nervous. 

Whatever it is, I would suggest not making it a huge production the first few times, nor some big planned "event" as that will only add to any nerves or anxiety. Just keep in mind, this is for fun, you care about each other, it's not a scripted event, just wing it and if something goes wrong, laugh about it and try again another night.  :)

My earliest memories of "female domination"? Not sure what that even means, but from the time of my earliest memories, seeing women entice men, flirt, getting what they wanted, realizing that it had sexual overtones, even before I fully understood what sex was...I grasped it all was a form of subtle domination. Domination is a mindset...not the activity. If someone is not naturally geared towards it, if they don't have that intuition and desire, it's more roleplay, which is just fine. Our world, at least most societies historically, have been more geared towards male dominated relationships, so overt examples of hardcore sexual female domination were/are not as present as many people, female and male, would like them to be. My point on this is...don't force it. Let it evolve organically and naturally in time. It resides within many women, on some level, it just needs to be allowed to develop and blossom.  :)

Movies and Memes... :)

Not sure how many people will "get" this one... :)

Bella Thorne...wearing an interesting dress. 

 

Cock Plant?

According to Snopes: “In March 2019, images of a plant dubbed a “penis flytrap” (a play on words that evokes the comparatively less phallic Venus flytrap - Dionaea muscipula) went viral. Though the provenance of the image is uncertain, we have no reason to doubt this is an authentic photograph of a plant that belongs to the Nepenthes genus.”

Cock and Ball Slapping...

 

Facesitting and Crop...

 

Discipline and Punishment...

Facetime...

Ah yes...the Party Life.  :)

 

And Twitter, Fetlife, and anywhere else they "visit"...

Here I Am!  :) 

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