Happy Merry Easter Festivus! :)

Sex with Strangers...

Some people are for it, some are against it. Some wonder why fewer women are "down" for it than men. Some people think sex between "friends" is great, others think it's fraught with potential pitfalls. So, yea, things can change. The dynamic often changes after having sex due to the enhanced intimacy and knowledge of the other persons body, mind, thoughts, scents, verbal sounds, preferences and so on. Plus, from a social standpoint, the dynamic may have changed...based on until fairly recently (in the grand scheme of things), sex often resulted in pregnancy and disease...so there were reasons that people avoided it, or minimized it's frequency. Having said all that sensible stuff...I think it's hot and am all for it!  :) 

I'd love, love, love anyone coming to my door to talk to me about Sir Elton John. :)

Plant a tree.

Or 2, or 5 or 37. 

Our planet will thank you.  :) 

I hope...this will be me...damn soon.  :)

Working out, staying fit, and enjoying our lives...

The last few years have truly been some of the most bizarre times in many of our lives. Now there is increasingly a "push" for everyone to return to their jobs, back to normal, back to the cubicle, 40 plus hours, the grind...fuck that. 

The unfortunate reality is...this is not "news" meaning it should not be, as the "powers that be" profit from you being a worker drone. We're trained to be "worker bots" for the machine, work, work, spend, spend, and a person's perceived value and happiness is based on their productivity, hours spent at the office, income and material possessions. None of that has anything to do with spending time with family or friends, with quality of life, with happiness, with inner peace, serenity, spirituality...or longevity. You know, living longer. Obviously the bulk of humanities health has deteriorated during the pandemic. Everything being closed, isolated, shut in, unable to work out in the usual places and manners...time to change that. 

The so called "Baby Boomers" (those born between 1946 and 1964) are now entering into retirement age. Exercise is more important than ever as we age. So, yea, it's hard, it hurts to start or restart, some might think it's "too late" why bother and all that...hormones change, it's harder to make gains and to maintain...so what? It feels good. It's good for us. And it makes people look better. Witness...below. :)

Dave Draper...photos taken decades apart. 

 

Ernestine Shepherd, 84 years old. 

Eighty four years old... 

Service oriented submission, uxoriousness, compersion...there are all sorts of words, names or titles that could apply to submissive males their predilection for sexually bossy and aggressive women. The important thing is that you embrace it, enjoy it and share it with a worthy partner that deserves it. 

For women who want to experiment but are hesitant in not feeling all that assertive, maybe a bit self conscious, lacking in confidence, not knowing what to say or do...go slow. Don't put pressure on yourself. Without knowing what your interests are, maybe just start with a little tease and denial, or a light spanking. Sort of playful, lighthearted, just for fun, and over time the intensity will increase as your comfort level does. Maybe blindfold him if eye-to-eye contact makes you uncomfortable. Ride him on top, cowgirl style. Ride his face as well. Use body language (head nods, pointing, etc) if the verbal command aspect makes you nervous. 

Whatever it is, I would suggest not making it a huge production the first few times, nor some big planned "event" as that will only add to any nerves or anxiety. Just keep in mind, this is for fun, you care about each other, it's not a scripted event, just wing it and if something goes wrong, laugh about it and try again another night.  :)

My earliest memories of "female domination"? Not sure what that even means, but from the time of my earliest memories, seeing women entice men, flirt, getting what they wanted, realizing that it had sexual overtones, even before I fully understood what sex was...I grasped it all was a form of subtle domination. Domination is a mindset...not the activity. If someone is not naturally geared towards it, if they don't have that intuition and desire, it's more roleplay, which is just fine. Our world, at least most societies historically, have been more geared towards male dominated relationships, so overt examples of hardcore sexual female domination were/are not as present as many people, female and male, would like them to be. My point on this is...don't force it. Let it evolve organically and naturally in time. It resides within many women, on some level, it just needs to be allowed to develop and blossom.  :)