Submissive Cuckold Service.

Service within a cuckolding relationship should be as wide and varied as the wife/cuckoldress desires it to be. For some couples this includes the usual such as helping her before a date and providing oral service afterwards. For some, he may be required to dress (woman's clothes, French maid outfit, an apron and nothing else and so forth) in a certain attire and his obligations are to care for all household duties. Cleaning, preparing meals (for the two of them, or her lover as well on occasion), conducting all that is required in taking care of her wardrobe (sending out and retrieving dry cleaning) or doing the laundry himself. 

 

For myself, I require him to wipe down and dust my queening chair before use, and to wipe it again after should there be any 'bodily fluids' on it, my come or someone elses. At the very least I feel that a full body massage (and foot massage even more often if not nightly) should occur. 

 

Plus just general assistance, drawing her bath, making her morning coffee, bringing her the morning paper and so forth. For those that are the handyman type this could also include home repair and maintenance. Yes I am aware that to some, this borders on the "slavish/dungeon" type arrangement but it should not be viewed that way. 

 

The majority of cuckold relationships that I know of are based on many things. Love, respect, devotion and dedication, trust, a genuine regard for the others health and well being. They may also be based in part on discipline, punishment, humiliation and servitude. The normal conventional rules don't really apply and neither should there be hard limits on what duties or activities based on if something seems to be "Mistress/slave", "Governess/charge", "Teacher/student", and even "Momdom/???". 

 

The reason I am mentioning some of this is that over the last week or so I have received more than the usual amount of e-mails from site members or blog readers with questions about if 'this or that" follows the norms of a cuckold marriage. There is NO norm within a cuckold marriage. I wrote the rules for mine, another woman will write the rules for hers. For those men fortunate enough to be in a cuckold relationship your duty then is to follow those rules as she has set them.

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Future.

Because he's just too cute not to post. :)

Not one of mine.  :)

 

What The Pictures On The Sexy 'My Wife In Stockings' Instagram Account Tell Us About Men's Fetishes.

Wankers. Hosed or Bare Wankers. Thigh, Calve, Heel, Sole, Arch and Toe....Wankers.  :)

 

Women: Are They Better Entrepreneurs?

But of course we are. Sometimes. Sometimes not. :)

 

Golden Showers - Bondage - Fisting - Copy? :)

A Secret History of the Pissing Figure in Art.

 

 

No idea what the hell's going on here...but I fully support it! :)    

 

 

Patriotic Fisting! 

 

When you don't know how to make a screenshot but you desperately need a copy...

How Old Were You When You First Thought About Face Sitting and Queening? :)

😂

Congress Takes Aim At Revenge Porn In The Military.

Congress Takes Aim At Revenge Porn In The Military.

 

Porn Is A Public Health Crisis – And He Should Know.

Porn Is A Public Health Crisis – And He Should Know.

 

Random Smut and Stupidity. :)

The TENNESSEE STATEMENT on Corporal Punishment.

This is just so bizarre. I consider myself to be reasonably intelligent (on a good day, maybe) and I seriously can not figure out if these are legit, or parody.

 

The TENNESSEE STATEMENT on Corporal Punishment. 

Extremist Supply Company.

 

"Curvy" - Muscle - Body Types.

"Curvy" is subjective. There is no body type known exclusively as "curvy". Somatotyping provides for endomorph, ectomorph and mesomorph. Our feminine "curves" are provided by adipose (fat) and without it....first off we'd all die, secondly there would be no "tits and ass". 

So we all have and need a certain level of "fat" (adipose) to not only survive but to look womanly. There is a small percent of women and men that have a predisposed genetic condition towards being heavier than "average". The primary reason for the increase in body mass index in the western world the last few decades is junk food and less manual labor...ergo less caloric expenditure. But at the same time, the health standards are a joke. I mean some of their "data" is just stupid. A random search provided the chart below...and lets just say its a tad outdated.

People are taller than when this "scientific data" was produced, and we tend to grow taller with every couple generations. That coupled with some better nutrition (assuming we choose it) means bigger, thicker, heavier, stouter boners. Ugh...sorry, I meant *bones* not boners, lol.

 

And it has to be pointed out that usually these charts come from insurance companies who don't really want to pay out a single dime if they can help it. So from the standpoint of a cardiologist, weighing next to nothing, means its easier on your heart, ergo you'll likely live longer. This of course does not take into account muscle mass. I mean it does, from their perspective it makes no difference if its muscle or fat. Weight is weight. So using my husband for example, who is a bit over 6 foot, weights about 229 or so, powerlifts, weight lifts, martial arts, works out in so many ways, he has more lean muscle mass than average. According to the suggested guidelines set by the medical and insurance industry? According to them....he's grossly obese.  :)

For us, its harder then it is for guys. Social media is increasingly full of articles on body type, fashion, sizing, airplane seats, stereotyping, attitudes, whining, accusations of insensitivity, political correctness debates over comments, choice of words, verbiage selected, versus free speech...its brutal out there. And some guys especially can be cruel with their words.

But blaming the media and misogyny for self esteem issues is self defeating. If people are happy with their body type, more power to you, rock on, live your life and love every minute of it. If people are not happy with their body type, change it. But everyone should know that love of self, self esteem, finding happiness and solace in the world should not be determined by a scale or a mirror. Ever. 
Especially based on 60 year old standards.  :)

When a financially challenged cuckold buys a romantic dinner for his Hotwife and her Bull...

 

He's the only one that gets...."dessert".  :)

 

 

 

 

 

Disabled Military Guy Takes Blanket to Road Show and... :)

Jump to about 40 seconds in.

 

Rate Of Suicide Among Female Veterans Climbs, VA Says.

Rate Of Suicide Among Female Veterans Climbs, VA Says.

 

After every war since WW2, regardless of political ideology, party preferences or who holds office, we essentially abandon the people that fought those wars. This is no good. We need to stomp our feet, scream, yell, write, call, use social media, be obnoxious, even throw things, whatever it takes, with our elected officials until they change this.