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Spanking Skirts - Humiliation Aprons - Fetish Clothing

Spanking Skirts - Humiliation Aprons - Fetish Clothing

Random Stupidity and Stuff... :)

Julia Fox says she’s 'desensitized to sex' after working as a dominatrix: 'It’s not thrilling for me'.

In an interview, the 32-year-old said she gained "self-worth and self-esteem" while working in a dungeon as an 18-year-old. Nevertheless, she recognizes now that it wasn't something that she was achieving on her own. "It's still them giving me the power. It's not my own power, you know? So it's a humiliating kind of position to be in or humbling, rather."

This is something I've been saying for a long time. I have no problem with any sort of sex work, good for them, go for it, but it's not the same as "real life" relationships. The dynamic is different, because it's a business arrangement. They are an employee and serve at the pleasure and request of the client. They work as an employee, hired to do a service, a sexual service, for money. If guys decide to stop hiring them, or they fire them, they have no power. The client outlines the fantasy, they set the parameters, the pay structure, the employee shows up and does as they're told, they do the roleplay the client wants, or they're out of a job. That is night and day different from a real relationship. 

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Jason Momoa....being weird, and looking good. 

Maybe some of us like to add a little...motherfucking whore faced, prolapsed cow cunted, slag-bitch to our verbiage, because...swearing can be fun! Education, matriculation, erudition, elucidation, intelligence has nothing to do with the desire of some of us to pepper our discourse, our verbiage, our loquacious, verbose, colloquialisms, slang, verbosity, pontificating, postulating, positing, sophistry with a good old Holy Mother Fucking Fuck FUCK FUCK! for amusement or emphasis.  :)

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Porn" (which is subjective and indefinable) is just like any other medium in life, there is good, there is bad, there is information and there is myth. It falls under the maxim/question "Does life imitate art, or does art imitate life?" What is depicted in porn *is* what some people do, so its "real" in that context. Sure, lousy plotlines, cheesy music, bad acting, fake orgasms, outsized dicks and T&A are in abundance, overabundance even, but it is still "real" and therefore educational and informational in some ways. 

There is no more, or less "truth" or accuracy to porn than there is in the majority of what Hollywood produces, many/most books, Disney, Fairy Tales, Rom-Coms, Chick Flicks, Comics, the Bible, Torah, Koran, Cable "News" (in some cases) or any other genre of what we see, hear, read, view and absorb in that manner. What it shares with the aforementioned examples...they are all mostly entertainment. Adult entertainment in this case, but its mostly just a product created for profit, to entertain people. And what they all also often share is a lack of perspicuousness.  

I've never understood why its mere existence is so confounding to some people. From a cursory search, the "oldest porn" is Le Coucher de la Marié, Released 1896 in France. Supposedly the oldest cave drawing is 64,000 years old, and the oldest cave "porn drawings" found thus far is 37,000 years old, but one could presume there is some older, somewhere, yet to be found. Its just a part of the human experience, always has been and always will be. Having said that, I find most of it to be excruciatingly trite and boring.  :) 

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“The moral test of government is how that government treats those who are in the dawn of life, the children; those who are in the twilight of life, the elderly; those who are in the shadows of life, the sick, the needy and the handicapped.” ~ Hubert Humphrey

Cuckoldry...Cuckolding the Cuckold. :)

What Is Cuckolding? Sex Experts Explain Everything You Should Know.

Pornhub’s Year-in-Review reported that searches for ‘Cuckold’ increased by 168% in 2021.

Here you go. One of those "expert" articles that I don't really agree with. Mostly because...somehow, the overall tone seems to be...about men. About the cuckold and the bull. Not much about the female. You know, the integral person whom, without her involvement, the "deed" could not exist. I know this will surprise some people due to so many years of getting their education and "expert advice" from cuckold cartoon captions, lol...but cuckoldry is what a woman does to her husband and for herself, not what she does for him.  

cuck·old /ˈkəkəld,ˈkəkōld/:  a man whose wife is sexually unfaithful. 

Cuckoldry is all about whatever the woman says it is. Terminological exactitude means something to some of us. I get that language evolves and is flexible in many ways, but the definition still remains. People would be well served to remember that it does exist in the animal kingdom, of which we are part. I mean the word itself, cuckold, derives from a bird. Cuckoldry exists in numerous species where serial monogamy exists. Beyond the fetish aspect, there are biological reasons such as the "Sperm Wars" theory. And many men are cuckolded, and have been throughout history, without a clue this is/was happening to them. I emphasize (again) to them as its what a wife does to them, regardless if they know it or not. 

I think about a gabillion cuckold porn websites have been made, twice as many memes, even more captioned photos and cartoons, a forest worth of paper used for books and of course the digital equivalent of verbiage via forums and blogs expounding on the fantasy of some men, many men really, men seeking women to match their own fantasy, men running ads seeking a woman to act out their fetish, focusing on their preferences, opinions, desires and so on. However, there is one common theme throughout...without a woman eagerly desiring and willing to participate in this, which there obviously is a dearth of same because our fantasy may not match yours, or we laugh at the "mansplaining" on this, without this match, all the aforementioned means nothing because, no cuckolding occurs. So in that regard, cuckoldry is all about...whatever the woman says it is. This is my opinion, and I am unanimous in it.  :)

Hmm..now I'm going to be suspicious of people that mumble more than average while...wearing a mask.  :) 

Midnight Manic Musings... :)

 

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Blush Debuts Schag’s Self-Lubricating Beer Can Strokers.

What in the blithering bloviating blarney batfucking buttfuckery is this? Seriously? Using what..appears to be a beer can as a masturbatory aid? What happend to good old lotion?  :) 

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The Sex Industry Portrayed in Fashion.

Yeah, they've been following, borrowing, plagiarizing and ripping off fashion trends for decades. From porn, from Dommes, from gay guys...I suppose it's a compliment really if you think about it. So, to that end...press on.  :) 

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Fucking Tech Support

No matter what happens, they tell you you need to update your browser. It's like their standard answer to any and all questions or issues. And they have no idea how stupid it is. They sound like a recording...

My car won't start...they suggest its my browser. 

My dryer blew up...they suggest its my browser. 

My jeans won't fit because I'm fat...they suggest its my browser. 

Or, maybe its not my browser, stupid sunnsobetches!  :)

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Objectification...

On the subject of "objectification", I have to say I don't quite agree with that concept. First off, I've always found the term amusing. The only way to turn someone into an "object" is with Calvin's transmogrifier: http://calvinandhobbes.wikia.com/wiki/Transmogrifier  :)

Secondly, everyone "objectifies" themselves to an extent, and others. When I'm cuckolding my husband, what I want from my "Bulls" is...dick. That's it. My husband is my best friend, my workout partner, my soulmate, my lifelong partner and a million other things. I want none of that from my lovers and I don't really even want to know anything about them once they are "vetted" for the job. And their "job" is to have sex with me and that's it. 

The objectification argument was used for decades, (centuries?) regarding women that posed nude, and was predicated on the notion that we don't like being nude, so therefore must have been forced into it. That argument lost all credibility once we got the right to vote, work outside the home, access to birth control and were no longer treated as chattel. Once that happened, many women (as in millions) went for the one night stand, posed nude, did porn, chat-webcam stuff, Onlyfans and have no regrets. So if it is indeed objectification, then in the same ways, or a variety of ways, we do it just as much as men. Double standards and hypocrisy aside. :)

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Just a reminder...this is me when I go out in public. 

So no one will recognize me and so I'll...blend in, lol.  :) 

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The Disgusting Transportation of Migrants from State to State for Political Gain...

 Its odd that some people don't seem to know this...we're having to bring in endless migrant workers to do the agricultural and construction jobs that are vacant, even with a very low unemployment rate. So yes, nations should have the right to protect their borders, and I agree with that, However, once people are here, they deserve to be treated as...human beings, not pawns for political soundbites and photo-ops.

I've hired, and will continue to hire, people for various jobs and I simply do not care of their "status". I pay them more than the prevailing rate, $15 an hour or more, in cash. Some people draw the assumption that anyone that hires so called "illegals" is doing so to pay them less and take advantage of cheap labor. If I was trying to exploit people, I'd be paying them $5 an hour instead of 3 (or more) times that amount per hour. So, they are not being exploited, but rather are well taken care of, well paid, fed good healthy food, plus homemade cookies and brownies, well hydrated and treated with kindness and dignity.

Am I concerned about stopping it, on my end? Not one bit. I place human welfare before border or political issues. And anyones invective on this topic means nothing to me. I will happily (and with great pride) continue to help other humans beings and the planet, regardless of some stupid laws or opinions of others. Benevolence and altruism is important to me. I admire people of peace and grace, like Malala Yousafzai, Jimmy Carter, Gandhi, Dalai Lama, MLK and others that place people before ego, wealth and material possessions. I've done well in life, worked hard, been very fortunate, and want to help others.  

 Yes, some might rant about nationalism, loyalty to country, and question my ethics on this. My ethics are superbly fantasti and all worthy people should emulate them, lol.  :) 

 People often conflate doing what's "right" with manmade "law". I try to always do what is right, as in the correct thing. That means I sometimes break laws...proudly. For example, some despicable cities make laws against giving food or money to homeless people. In this case, the "law" is not right, and I will happily break that law, all the time. 

In recent history, other laws I would have broken were those that oppressed women, enslaved people (African, Native American, Chinese and others), denied women the right to education, denied women the right to vote, reproductive rights, LGBTQ rights, free speech rights...the list could go on and on. All of those laws were wrong, as were the people that supported them. So doing what is "right" does not always mean following laws. I will always advocate for the disenfranchised, those without a voice, those being abused or oppressed, because its the right thing to do. 

Regarding "illegal immigrants" I admire old school patriotic Americans, true patriotic Americans, who align themselves with what made, and still makes America great such as: "Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free.” I think people should stand for something in this life. If we, as human beings and Americans, don't make taking care of other human beings and our planet our main priority, then what's the fucking point? 

Yeah, yeah, I know, someone will say the "Feds" should crack down on people hiring illegals. Good luck with that. They might come looking for me, but I shall foil their plans. How you may ask? Because I live in my super secret blanket fort, which is basically a bomb shelter. No one can get in, and I mean no one, unless they know the super duper secret password...which is "floccinaucinihilipilification", and it has to be said in Vulcan, backwards, with a southern accent...three times in a row.  :) 

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Blogis Postus. :)

Half the World Has a Clitoris. Why Don't Doctors Study It?

You wanna know why?

Because the majority of doctors are still male and...they can't find it.  :) 

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A startup using recycled plastic to 3D print prefab houses.  

What a fantastic idea. It reuses material that might have been trash, it's cheaper, no downside. I love it when people use repurposed materials or think out of the box when making homes...especially if it can benefit those that are impoverished, both nationally or globally. 

A Santa Fe jeweler covered her house in foam so it would blend in with the limestone cliffs.

I love this idea and this house. But I've always been a fan of homes and buildings that blend in with the environment, rather than stick out with a pretentious "look at me" sort of attitude. Building homes that live in harmony with nature, no matter if they're wood, stone, adobe, whatever the material, is just so much more appealing to me.  :) 

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The most surprising part of a new survey on adultery. 

Roughly two-thirds (66%) of Americans say when a man has an affair it is always morally wrong. Fewer (55%) say it is always morally wrong when a woman has an extramarital affair. This “moral double standard,” as the researchers called it, was especially pronounced among women. Seventy percent of women say that a married man who has an affair is always morally wrong, while fewer (56%) say the same when married women have relationships outside their marriage. The gap grows even larger if you look only at responses from young women. Then it’s 73% (always wrong for men) versus 51% (always wrong for women.)

So, the short answer is...bitches want strange side dick...but dude better keep it in his pants. :) 

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Notice...this says "Liberals". 

It does not say Democrat.

There is/can be a difference.  :) 

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Sexual Boredom, Sexually Boring or just...Boring?  

Sometimes I hear someone say, or read something online about their being "bored". How can anyone be bored? How can someone be bored with life and the amazing, fantastic and beautiful planet we live on?

 And along the same lines, I find it curious when someone decides they're bored with regular vanilla sex, and want to expand out, and try some new kinky freaky things. I mean, good, good for them. But what baffles me is...what draws one towards this, or what is the nature of the impetus at this point in their life? I ask as...many people tend to have certain desires from a young age, and are cognizant of that. So it's interesting to me where someone delves into, what some would consider, the more licentious and/or salacious aspects of fetish or kink, without having had that sort of ingrained interest, or perhaps it was suppressed? I mean it seems like most people I talk to or read about "knew" they were kinky, or gay, or trans or whatever, since about age 5 or so.  

So I think it's great, and not to sound clichéd...but heartwarming as well. By that I just mean someone having the agency to evolve how they see fit, opening their mind, soul and body to new avenues, new experiences, while rejecting societal norms with a resplendent level of enthusiasm, kudos to them, and I hope it goes well and they enjoy it. That's a rarity in a culture where people tend to regress or stagnate and become resigned to living a life of mundane monotony.

Bored people...do they just lack initiative and imagination? I don't know how anyone could be bored. I mean, read a book, go outside, volunteer for a charity, get a hobby, work out...or do what I do, give yourself Atomic wedgies...just for something to do.  :)