Random Stupidity and Stuff... :)

Julia Fox says she’s 'desensitized to sex' after working as a dominatrix: 'It’s not thrilling for me'.

In an interview, the 32-year-old said she gained "self-worth and self-esteem" while working in a dungeon as an 18-year-old. Nevertheless, she recognizes now that it wasn't something that she was achieving on her own. "It's still them giving me the power. It's not my own power, you know? So it's a humiliating kind of position to be in or humbling, rather."

This is something I've been saying for a long time. I have no problem with any sort of sex work, good for them, go for it, but it's not the same as "real life" relationships. The dynamic is different, because it's a business arrangement. They are an employee and serve at the pleasure and request of the client. They work as an employee, hired to do a service, a sexual service, for money. If guys decide to stop hiring them, or they fire them, they have no power. The client outlines the fantasy, they set the parameters, the pay structure, the employee shows up and does as they're told, they do the roleplay the client wants, or they're out of a job. That is night and day different from a real relationship. 

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Jason Momoa....being weird, and looking good. 

Maybe some of us like to add a little...motherfucking whore faced, prolapsed cow cunted, slag-bitch to our verbiage, because...swearing can be fun! Education, matriculation, erudition, elucidation, intelligence has nothing to do with the desire of some of us to pepper our discourse, our verbiage, our loquacious, verbose, colloquialisms, slang, verbosity, pontificating, postulating, positing, sophistry with a good old Holy Mother Fucking Fuck FUCK FUCK! for amusement or emphasis.  :)

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Porn" (which is subjective and indefinable) is just like any other medium in life, there is good, there is bad, there is information and there is myth. It falls under the maxim/question "Does life imitate art, or does art imitate life?" What is depicted in porn *is* what some people do, so its "real" in that context. Sure, lousy plotlines, cheesy music, bad acting, fake orgasms, outsized dicks and T&A are in abundance, overabundance even, but it is still "real" and therefore educational and informational in some ways. 

There is no more, or less "truth" or accuracy to porn than there is in the majority of what Hollywood produces, many/most books, Disney, Fairy Tales, Rom-Coms, Chick Flicks, Comics, the Bible, Torah, Koran, Cable "News" (in some cases) or any other genre of what we see, hear, read, view and absorb in that manner. What it shares with the aforementioned examples...they are all mostly entertainment. Adult entertainment in this case, but its mostly just a product created for profit, to entertain people. And what they all also often share is a lack of perspicuousness.  

I've never understood why its mere existence is so confounding to some people. From a cursory search, the "oldest porn" is Le Coucher de la Marié, Released 1896 in France. Supposedly the oldest cave drawing is 64,000 years old, and the oldest cave "porn drawings" found thus far is 37,000 years old, but one could presume there is some older, somewhere, yet to be found. Its just a part of the human experience, always has been and always will be. Having said that, I find most of it to be excruciatingly trite and boring.  :) 

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“The moral test of government is how that government treats those who are in the dawn of life, the children; those who are in the twilight of life, the elderly; those who are in the shadows of life, the sick, the needy and the handicapped.” ~ Hubert Humphrey