Why does male submissiveness seem more common? Are submissive males becoming more common? Has the internet raised their visibility?

 Why does male submissiveness seem more common? Are submissive males becoming more common? Has the internet raised their visibility?

This question was posed a couple years back but is still relevant to current "breakdowns" of Dommes versus subs I think. Perhaps even more so now than before.

I think one of the issues with "Female Domination" as its currently seen by many in the media, is how its depicted *by* that same media. If someone only views "FemDom" in the sexual sense with leather or a whip or whatever accouterments, the numbers may seem fairly small. But in reality, female domination, or assertiveness, or sexual aggression or being demanding, can take as many paths as there are of us on the planet. 

I mean we've all probably seen multiple examples in everyday life of a passive henpecked husband, submissive in mannerisms and speech, yielding to his powerful and bossy wife, and that same couple may have been celibate for a decade.  

Or one could use the example of a very sexually dominant woman...who just happens to be a lesbian. And then of course there is the example that you provided of professional domination, which I don't really count as "FemDom" in the context we often ascribe to that word/term because its a guy paying a woman to act out through role play his sexual fantasies...so she is in effect his employee.  

But on the aforementioned note of "role-play" that is, what it is, for most people....playing a role. I think the dynamic of a 24/7 female domme, male sub is probably quite rare. For many couples its an activity that they engage in to spice up their lives, to act out sexual fantasy, to mutually explore, and that's fantastic as its adds to their lives substantially. 

Over the last couple of decades, perhaps 15 or so years really, the attitudes of many in society have changed enabling men to be more open, more honest, more vulnerable so in addition to other aspects of life, the submissive nature of some has risen to the surface where they can feel less judged. This is a good thing, but it could appear to others that all of a sudden many/some men are no longer acting like "men", are becoming simpering wimps, spineless, far too uxorious, and skewing polls and data that make it seem like a wussy revolution. In reality I think the split between dominant males, and submissive males has probably remained the same, but its just more open and out there, where people are aware so it appears that men are becoming increasingly sexually submissive. 

Of course I have no data to prove this, its just an opinion...and I'm not wearing pants!  :) 

 

A comprehensive list of Barack Obama scandals in 8 years...

A comprehensive list of Barack Obama scandals in 8 years:

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How many cuckolded husbands enjoy cuckold anguish?

How many cuckolded husbands enjoy cuckold anguish?

When done correctly, the answer should be...all of them.  :) 

 

 

Fuck Censorship!! ABC Investigation Reveals Conflicting Porno-Stances Within Australian Society.

 ABC Investigation Reveals Conflicting Porno-Stances Within Australian Society.

"This is supported by a 2010 study published in the journal Violence Against Women that found that 88 percent of porn scenes in popular movies contained some form of “physical aggression” by men against women. This typically takes the form of slapping, gagging, choking, and other forms of vigorous contact — all of which the co-performers are typically shown enjoying." 

Here's a thought...why not let grown adults decide what they want to read, see, hear, view, film, share, fantasize about and act out. The aforementioned gagging, choking, slapping sounds like some vicious abuse and oppression of women, subjecting us to this filth right? 

Except...

Box Office: 'Fifty Shades Freed' Pushes The Trilogy Past $1 Billion Worldwide.  

Fifty Shades of Grey has topped best-seller lists around the world, including those of the United Kingdom and the United States. The series had sold over 125 million copies worldwide by June 2015 and has been translated into 52 languages, and set a record in the United Kingdom as the fastest-selling paperback of all time.

So, if grown and  mature, sensible adult women, who are the vast majority of the fans of the 50 Shades phenom, and spent well over One Billion of their hard earned dollars on it, enjoy the fantasy and hope for the reality of...gagging, choking, slapping and whatever else...what business is it of anyone else and especially any government organization?  

The "Nanny State" should....fuck off.  :) 

 

My No Pants Fascination....How it all Came to Be. :)

Visualize me as a wee lass of a strict, uptight and proper fundamentalist upbringing...forced to wear disgusting scratchy, itchy leotards and tights under my skirts. And by "skirts" I mean floor length dresses that swept up dust 'cuz they were so long. We can see the lasting impression this had on me by the following two examples, the "whore guide" and one of yours truly. :)

Through my early years I'd see cartoons, TV shows, and jokes about "no pants"...which would usually involve old guys with sock garters and no pants. I just thought it was hilarious. There was nothing sexual about it as that was a rather repressed era where anything "sexual" was not allowed on TV...so that never even entered my mind. The first 25 seconds of this Letterman clips speaks volumes. When I'd stay up late, hiding from my parents, sneaking into the living room when I was supposed to be in bed to watch "sinful" late night TV...and I first saw Letterman with his "Worldwide Pants" corporation, I'd stuff my face into a pillow and giggle until I just about peed myself. 

 

Which of course this all eventually lead to....a fascination and penchant for "No Pants" but with a different intent and purpose. 

In conclusion I would just like to summarize and emphatically state that....there was absolutely no fucking point to this entire blog post.  :) 

New Clothing Line Allows Men to Proclaim They’re “Cuckolds” Who Share Their Wives.

 New Clothing Line Allows Men to Proclaim They’re “Cuckolds” Who Share Their Wives. 

Some Fluffer sent me this link. Its just something I'm passing on out of amusement...it has nothing to do with me personally. I would however be curious how many people would wear this sort of "self-outing" clothing in everyday life.   :)

Sugarcookie Posts Guide to Bypassing UK’s Age-Verification System.

Sugarcookie Posts Guide to Bypassing UK’s Age-Verification System.

 

By the way....these are "Sugar Cookies".

My fat ass outta know!  :) 

  

Reddit Bans Ads For ‘Adult-Oriented Products and Services’ and...No Pants. :)

Reddit Bans Ads For ‘Adult-Oriented Products and Services’

Recently on the Censorship Bandwagon...

Reddit

Tumblr

Instagram

Google+...which did censor content, but is now gone.

Facebook, which has always censored posts...unless its "fake news" from Russians, of course.

That basically leaves Twitter, of the "major" social media sites that still allow nudie pics.

Sorry Ass Suns-o-Bitches. 

What good is "social" media if grown adults can't "socialize" in a "social" setting in the manner with which they deem enjoyable? What sort of business model is it when a few old puritan uptight frigid grandmas decide what you, as an adult, can post, read, view, share and see? What can be done about this? Why am I asking so many questions? What if nobody reads this? What if I just keep on asking questions and can't stop? What happens then? Can anybody hear me?   :)

Hey, I said "No Pants"....I didn't say it was *me* without pants. 

So, I was not lying, okay.  :)

Nothing else to see here people.

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All done.

That's it.

Go home.

Nothing to see down below. 

Don't look below this line.

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What?

You're still here?

Whats your problem?

You can't follow directions?

I said...go home.

Damn it to hell!  :) 

8 Myths And Beliefs About The Penis, Analyzed By Sex Experts.

8 Myths And Beliefs About The Penis, Analyzed By Sex Experts. 

J.Lo (Jennifer Lopez) is Bringing the 70s Fashion Back. :)

I am not a fashion plate, a fashionista, a clothes horse (love a Taco plate, Fashionatrixes & clothes whores) but I do like the way she looks here. Love the hair, accouterments, shades, beads, jewelry, belt, bells, whistles and trimming, and of course the jeans. I might have to actually get up, get decent, be civil, act human, go out into the world and buy some...pants.  :)  

But first....a word from our sponsors.  :) 

Cellist Yo-Yo Ma Plays Bach In Shadow Of Border Crossing.

"In culture, as you all know — as you did, and do, and will do — in culture, we build bridges, not walls,"  Yo-Yo Ma said as he played Bach in celebration of the relationship between the border cities of Laredo, Texas, and Nuevo Laredo, Mexico.