This is a Blog Post... :)

I was on a forum, and some guy posted the following in the thread. It's so unfortunate that so many people have guilt and shame over sex, alternate sexuality, fetish interests, kink, whatever. Anyway, my reply and thoughts are posted below his. 

*I know its stupid, but i feel like im the kind of cuck who would let it happen for a few months before quietly slipping away and hanging myself in the forest. So why the fuck am i so attracted to it? My guess is self loathing.* 

Might I suggest you try to rectify this train of thought, because this is no good, its not good, it's lacking in goodness.  :)

Societal & religious baggage aside, maybe ask yourself a few questions. 

Is anyone being harmed by this? 

No? Press on.

Is it occuring between consenting adults?

Yes? Press on.

Is everyone using caution, being safe and staying healthy?

Yes? Press on.

You can't live your life according to other people's expectations. You will never fully satisfy all people, and you will never satisfy yourself. Its not your obligation to adhere to some silly nonsensical archaic "rules" that other people conjured up. It's not your duty to live in a manner that does not suit you, and your significant other. The modern day expectations and norms of sex, relationships, marriage and all that are fairly recent, in the grand scheme of things timewise, and many of them are counter to how human beings are designed and how we lived for 100's of 1000's, if not millions of years. Denying our true nature, to the point of people being depressed, loathing themselves, even being suicidal is so, so, so unfortunate and it's a good example of how stupid our society is. Please don't beat yourself down for having normal urges. Yes, sex, normal or kinky, BDSM related including cuckoldry, fetish or whatever...*is* normal to the human species, and in the animal kingdom (of which we are part) regardless of what some clueless twat waffle fuckwits think about it. Sexual anthropologists and a myriad of educated people from multiple disciplines can confirm that, only uneducated uptight sexually repressed people dispute it. Listen to science and facts, not fiction. 

But most importantly, be kind to yourself.  :) 

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Interesting shower... :)

 

Bored? Whenever I'm sitting around doing something, sewing fetish stuff, riding my bike, doing stretches or Pilates, I listen to podcasts. One I've been enjoying lately is Holly Randall (daughter of Suze Randall, she of porn star, nude photograpy fame) who does porn production, interviews porn stars, BDSM chicks, people with those interests. You can search by topic, by name etc. 

Gotta love...problem solvers. 

I'm doing it soon, maybe tomorrow, or the next day, or...lol. :)

Dominant pegging statement ring.

This website has some really creative fantastic jewelry, and I'm jealous of their skills. 

David Brooks Looks At 'Terrifying Future' Of U.S. Right At Conservative Conference. 

  

 David Brooks is an old school Republican Journalist, someone I admire due to his sanity and sensibility, even though I disagree with some issues on policy and whatever, its amazing how the GOP has deteriorated into whackjob Trumpians...compared to people like Brooks. 

Sunny Leone.  

Former porn star that managed a successful crossover into various mainstream pursuits. 

This is exactly how the American wealth gap has increased in the last century.  

The short version is simple, decades of GOP tax cuts for rich people. 

Trump Was ‘Fact Free’ During Briefings, Says Former National Intelligence Director. 

Boise State Professor: Keep Women Out of Medicine, Engineering, and Law. 

A political-science professor at one of Idaho’s top universities has sparked outrage after openly calling for women to be kept out of engineering, medical school, and law so that they can instead focus on “feminine goals” such as “homemaking and having children.”   

Well fuck me. I keep hearing conservatives bitch about the so called "liberal indoctrination" efforts in colleges...what the hell is wrong with these people?

 

This is Stormy, the newest member of Alyeska resort's Mountain Safety team. She will spend the next two years training to become a certified avalanche rescue dog. Just imagine being rescued by that sweet little happy face.  :)