Apparently some people seem to think that the impetus behind BDSM is misogyny or misandry. According to them, being a misandrist or a misogynist *is* a fetish, one which requires the humiliation, degradation, beating, corporal punishment, debasement and dominance of whichever specific group. I'm always amazed at how a segment of society can be so, so, so uneducated on some topics, but then still see fit to expound on those topics in articles, on social media etc.
Misogyny and/or misandry are not a fetish...but rather a demented view of society and the respective roles that women and men play in them, and for purposes of this rant, our "roles" in sex and BDSM. Kinky sex, the healthy sort, is not bred out of hatred. Its bred out of power, control, sex, pain, dominance, submission, endorphins, roleplay, role reversal, dopamine, lust, oxytocin, and a myriad of other chemicals, urges, desires and on on. If you look at sex in the animal kingdom, and yes we are animals, that raw, dirty, sometimes sort of violent foreplay, those animalistic carnal hedonistic acts, which are normal...that is us in our natural state. That society and religion has been trying to convince humans for a couple thousand years that "sex" should be....once a week, with the lights off, missionary position, for the purposes of procreation is erroneous and unfortunate. I simply don't understand people that lack intellectual curiosity. Even on topics that I have little interest in, something new crosses my path, I want to know at least the basics of it. I love learning. I want to know about, and understand the world around me. And when its something that *does* interest me...I suck up information like a fluffer sucking a dick in a gloryhole. :)
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Guys...seeking FemDoms...sheesh. When bored I sometimes peruse a few ads on Twitter, Reddit, various forums and so on, and they're mostly all the same. With all due respect, stop looking for a "Dominant Woman" first and foremost, and look for a woman who happens to be somewhat dominant, or sexually dominant. There is a massive, huge, night and day difference. With the former, there are like...76 gabillion submissive guys running essentially the same type of ads...that come across as if they're expecting a "Made-To-Order FemDom" to knock on their door. With the latter, you are seeking a *human being* first, a person, a whole person, a woman with hopes, dreams, a life, aspirations, intelligence, a heart, hobbies, a past, a future, who also...is seeking, or is open to an alternative lifestyle in that regard. I wish guys (not implying anyone specifically) would understand how rude, presumptuous and coldhearted it is to treat any "dominant" woman like an employee, a piece of meat, fantasy fulfillment for *his* desires only. If a guy treats women online, when running or responding to ads like a human being...he'd get more replies, increasing the likelihood of meeting a match. :)
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I guess these masturbatory devices are of crucial importance...
For anyone without a fulltime tongue slave. :)
Ah yes...the Golden Shower Yard Art Bronze Statue....gotta get me one of them. :)
I so much love a humorous smartass. So, whomever did the meme below, and decided to block out the dogs eyes, (as they do to protect identity) is brilliant. :)
Man up Boys! :)
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