(The question was asked...are cuckolds allowed to watch when with a lover, or not?)
I am a bit of an exhibitionist, so yes, I like my husband to watch me with my lovers, sometimes. Other times, not as much. There is something "hot" about both versions.
On the one hand, having him there, making eye contact with him, a subtle grin, a nod of the head, a glance, a raised eyebrow and a "look" saying: "See cuckold? See what he's doing? This is how a real man fucks a woman!" thrills me to no end, as it brings about his sexual angst, his humiliation, his knowing I'm thinking and acknowledging his sexual inferiority, and mocking him for it, and our mutually knowing he's denied access, to where the "better" man's cock currently is.
The other way, meaning he's waiting in the other room, or at home, or on a couple of occasions, waiting in the car, that's equally as "hot" as he's being denied the opportunity to witness me being pleasured. He's not allowed to see my lovers cock pump in and out of me, stretching me out, my moans, my labored breathing, and his "sexual anxiety" of knowing that both I and my lover, are probably laughing at him, waiting in the car, like a kid, being ordered to "Stay Put" in an emasculated manner.
I can't really say one rules over the other as, for me, its about me getting my pleasure first and foremost, getting my pussy pounded, the effect on him, is secondary, if that makes sense. I do what I do for my pleasure, for my own greedy sexual sadistic desires. :)
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I have never been allowed to watch my wife with her lovers. I guess she’s not an exhibitionist. She feels that sex, even extramarital sex, is a very private thing, so she thinks her pleasure would be diminished if I was watching. She says my presence would be a distraction. She has, however, introduced me to a couple of the guys. She knows it’s humiliating for me to meet her lovers, but she knows the humiliation turns me on. She says she leaves it up to the other guys to decide whether they want to meet me. Some guys prefer not to meet me, but other guys apparently find it a turn on to shake my hand and look me in the eyes, knowing that I know they fuck my wife. She says that although I am never present physically when they have sex, they do talk about me because it is arousing for the guys to hear that they are better endowed than I am.
ReplyDelete“It’s difficult to explain to someone I just met what thrills I get in teasing you with photos of guys with bigger cocks.”
ReplyDelete“I am currently fucking a few guys, & how many is irrelevant, since the number will change from time to time. You may or may not like this”
Taken from Cuckold Letters (Vanessa Chaland)
https://www.fetishfurniturefactory.com/search?q=cuckold+letters
It is a conundrum, I agree.
ReplyDeleteI did the hotwife thing for many years only to later learn that while I was out, the hubs would lock himself in the bedroom and neglect the kids. Oh yes, when I arrived home all chores were done, candle was lit, wine was waiting, and I had the illusion but yet .....
I no longer feel comfortable going out on a date. I don’t want to have to micromanage things at home while I’m out having fun. My thinking, and preference at this time, is to have hubs there with me. Kills 2 birds with one stone.
"My dear cocky, today was a success for me. His giant cock didn't go into my pussy today. It did go into my mouth however.....many, many times. I took the photos to see which I like" Cuckold Letters Vanessa Chaland
ReplyDeleteThat's just perverted... :)
DeleteHer preferences, her way, her wishes, her desires, what's right for her...that's the important thing. :)
ReplyDeleteTreating him like a kid, ordering him to "Stay Put" waiting in the car must be deeply confusing for your husband.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure its emasculating...
DeleteTwo pump chumps, guys that can’t last more than 10 seconds inside a pussy have one thing in common. They recognize the women they are lucky to have sex are superior. She can be superior intellectually, sexual competent, more sexually experienced, with the ability to crush him mentally, sexually at her will. So the man can’t help but submissive and unable to resist to be inferior, inadequate and punish himself proving his inferiority by ejaculating after a few seconds or so in her warm pussy he doesn’t deserve as a natural beta, submissive, cuckold. My personal reflection has concluded that a mans inability to fuck a women is directly correlated with the knowledge of his inferiority. Inferiority sexually, sexual experience, intellectually or even a smaller than average thin or short penis. He just just can’t last and rightfully advertises his incompetence.
ReplyDeleteWell stated...and I agree. :)
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ReplyDeleteIt sucks, but I must confess. Damn, I wish this was a lie, but it's not.
ReplyDeleteI present an excellent package. Above average looks, money, stability, nice guy, but I have no business doing the fucking if I want to please a woman. It's 100% evolution; DNA, doesn't make us bad people. Finding dates with women is easy. But, I can't keep women satisfied. Once reality is revealed! You know, that exact moment.It happens every *&*& time. We betas know when we become intimate.She knows immediately. It could be my lack of moves, inferior sexual confidence, or misunderstanding of obvious sexual cues. It's a huge disappointment every time—the knowing look of disappointment. You can feel her disappointment even without her words. For some betas, it's the frustration on her face or lack of wanting to try again. So that nightmare movie repeats, the 5 seconds were panting and thrusting. "oh, I'm oh sorry I came. This doesn't happen," but somehow she knows it always happens all the time to you and you know it does every fucking time.
She is more powerful. Sexually more capable , sharper wit and that ability to put you in your proper place and make you bow your head in shame. She does it with a word or simple comment/gesture.
After your first intimate moment it only takes a few seconds, somehow, she discovers the truth. You are inferior, submissive, and a pushover, easy person to control with her pussy and superior mind. No contest. I'm/we are fucked, and if lucky, I'm a cuckold. Or a remain a submissive unable to fuck a woman the way they deserve.
I/we know. Regardless of decent looks, above average status in society, and a friendly face and body to attract women. It wont matter she will soon find out. Rinse and repeat.
THIS IS THE SAD TRUTH FROM YEARS OF PERSONAL ANALYSIS AND LIVING. It's nothing personal its 100% evolution.
Wow, an honest testimonial, almost a calling card, a resume of sorts...from one relegated to "second best" his whole life. Rather fitting, and I might use this for a future blog post topic, copy/paste and all...just so you know that many other women will be reading about, acknowledging, mocking and knowing of your shame...but its for "educational" purposes only. :)
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