(Reposted *with* his permission...in relation to a recent blog post of mine.) :)
Hello Miss Chaland,
Interesting point.
I dare to counter it by saying that, at least in the Netherlands, girls are being raised to say that they have a right to have fun in bed too.
Sex must always be about fun.
Orgasms are part of that fun.
So if a lady can't climax from her partner, she must tell him/her what he/she is doing wrong.
L**** and I are together for more than 20 years now.
The first times that we slept together, I needed over 30 minutes to make her cum.
Simply because she wasn't telling me her 'spots'.
I was really 'all over the place', finding out what she liked.
I pressed her to tell me what she liked happening to her, being her lover.
It worked.
Look, Miss Chaland, I consider myself as a 'giver'.
I don't need to penetrate my wife to climax and, never had that 'need'.
Handjobs, calvejobs, titjobs and blowjobs are just as good or better.
I pleasure my wife to a climax and she does it to me.
In my days as a bachelor, I was a frequent visitor of brothels.
In one I was together was a much older, but still very busty, German lady.
We were cuddling and my erection was pulsing, but she didn't touch it.
I started to move towards her vagina, start to finger it.
She relaxed and if needed, slowed my hand in motions.
It took about 30 minutes and several corrections of 'speed' when she suddenly shivered.
I could feel her vagina contract.
When I asked her if she just had climaxed, she said yes.
'Really'?, I asked again.
'Yes, silly', she said. 'Look at my hands, they are shivering even now'.
That was the first time I made a woman climax.
So, my point it that sex is about equality.
I also visited 3x a professional dominatrix.
Really interesting stories and, although over 25 years ago, I still remember them vividly.
Kind regards,
M****
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