Cuckoldry and Humiliation: Readers Question Answered...

{In the comment section of my blog a reader posted the following question, I'm answering it here. And on a personal note, to the gentleman that wrote this, thank you for purchasing, appreciating and mentioning my books. That patronage keeps me off the streets, and able to buy Tacos. :) } 

{{{{AnonymousAugust 28, 2018 at 9:50 PM

I’ve read several or most of Vanessa’a must-read books several times. I can't get through several pages before I’m rock hard. Continue reading and not what I wanted but forced to orgasm. Her writing IMO is so fucking realistic. Today I was rereading “FemDom Evolution; I Became Sexually Dominant For Tongue.” 

What’s causing anxiety is that you mention and mock with your girlfriend her partner's small cock. And, all women talk about cock sizes. So between my premature ejaculation and less than 5-inch cock they must have discussed mainly in the early 20s. So watching today, your video “Tease and Denial - Ball Busting - Humiliation Video.” WTF, your “cocky” has a big thick cock with a muscular body. Why and do you still search for a stronger man bigger cock to fuck?

Thanks for the excellent well-written book!! People can criticize the work, but it never fails as the best read to get me motivated.}}}}

One thing about cuckolding that seems to be missed by those that get most of that related "education" from online sites, porn sites etc. and I am *not* implying the reader that asked is one of those is....:)

Yes, penis size is one factor. Not only length, but girth, and in many cases girth is more important than length. But in many cases, it can also be about stamina or lasting power or bluntly put, not ejaculating within the first few strokes upon entry into a nice wet and warm pussy. In the case of my cuckold, he's a "Minute Man" at best, often lasting less than say....20 seconds or so. Of course its not really fair to him, as I taunt and tease him, tease and deny, ball-bust, face-sit, tease some more, repeat the cycle... until he's got blue balls and is leaking pre-cum out of the end of his dick, so of course he ejaculates quickly when I allow him inside me....which is rare....very rare, actually. 

And the above ties directly into another aspect which is...I'm a sexual sadist. I get off on mocking and humiliating him. I enjoy his distress, his sexual anxiety, his angst, his begging, his willing to do whatever I ask or demand, his blue balls hurting, his aching for entry and release...so making it worse, making him suffer in that way...is a thrill for me. 

And yes, he is rather large, in all ways. As I've written about several times, finding a lover who is as tall, or taller, as built, or better built, with a dick as big, or bigger is no easy task. When I first met him several years ago, he was (obviously) younger, more muscular, ripped, shredded, jacked, striations, vascular and all that one would expect from someone with good genetics, plus decades of martial arts, exercise, lifting weights and so on. 

This, his being how he is, has actually created complications a few times as other guys, lovers, bulls, are intimidated by him. I wrote once about a guy with a huge 9 inch dick that came over to fuck me, he knew the deal, I'd laid everything out in numerous e-mails while I was vetting him, he knew I wanted my cuckold to watch me get fucked properly by a superior dick, but once he started fucking me, his dick went limp. What happened was he noticed my husband watching from a dressing area, right off the bathroom, where there are several mirrors. I realized later, after I sent the failed "bull" home , that seeing a large muscular man watching, where the offset mirrors might have made it look like two guys, or three guys, just freaked him out. More than once I had lovers or potential lovers be *very* concerned about jealously, a jealous rage coming from my cuckold husband.

But the last thing is, for some people, it could also be the husband is impotent due to age, a health issue, medication or whatever. So, there are a myriad of reasons why a wife might cuckold her husband in the manner I do (meaning FemDom style and not so much the tamer version more akin to swinging or threesomes), everything from health reasons, to size issues. or in some cases, just a very horny slutty Hotwife who loves sex and enjoys it even more with a side order of, sexual sadism. 

Meaning...me.  :)