Spanking - Discipline Punishment.

 

 

(Partial edited repost from a previous post of mine.) 

The very essence of any disciplinary program is the punishment aspect. Without it, you have no recourse for ensuring that rules and wishes will be followed. With rapid and firm administration of punishment you can keep periodic challenges or outbursts in check. Punishment can fundamentally be broken down into either the "domestic discipline" type or the "sexual domination" type. For now I'm only writing about domestic discipline.

The former follows the traditions set in the formative years, although more so in previous generations than in present. Traditional follows a more regimented pattern or style (usually otk, laying over a bed, chair etc,). As well, the implements are also rather basic and seem to be more popular depending on the region of your origin. In England and surrounding areas the cane, birch rods and slipper seem to be historically preferred. In America paddles, hairbrush and in southern regions switches are more traditional. I suggest using all the above. :)

You can not overemphasis the importance of using good hard spankings as the foundation of any discipline training program. This should be expected and also accepted as a given. Regardless of other interests that may be included, firm, sound bare bottom spanking should be used regularly and in a no nonsense manner.

For standard offences the use of your firm hand and at least one other implement should suffice. For more serious offences multiple implements should be used. Some people use what is called "maintenance spankings" to help ensure that you punish for all the little things they did which you don't know about, and also to help "refresh" their memory.

For most people the standard is to start off with a bare bottom OTK spanking. Often a good solid wood hairbrush is introduced after a bit, and then a position change would be required for the use of longer implements. Laying over a bed, a chair or an ottoman works really well. Bent over a chair, standing leaning over with hands on the wall works well too, especially for caning. Another position is what is referred to as the "diaper position" which is their laying on their back, legs bent and pulled towards the chest. This position works well for added exposure and humiliation. One can not discount the multiple benefits of firm discipline and punishment while dealing with your errant or unmotivated partner. It can clear the air, alleviate your sense of frustration, it may reduce guilt and be cathartic, it should increase their willingness to follow directions and wishes to a letter.

The mental portion of a punishment session is equal to the physical. Therefore, begin with a question and answer period, a brief lecture, strict scolding and then the beginning of the actual physical punishment. Usually this is best served if they are either nude or at least with bare bottom exposed. This enhances their focus on the upcoming punishment, and adds greatly to the feeling of vulnerability. Some prefer either standing or kneeling, or a portion can be OTK and direct eye contact for at least part of this is very important.

After the scolding, start off with a good old fashioned OTK bare bottom spanking with firm hard slaps to the bottom and backs of thighs to get a nice rosy glow and continue with scolding while in this position. After a bit switch to a hairbrush. I have different ones that I use for different purposes, heavier, larger, harder wood etc. Rotate around and pay special attention to the crease where thighs connect to bottom. This is a very sensitive yet safe place where the brush can be applied soundly and get good results. A discipline spanking should be just one "degree" below overwhelming. If you are spanking a man, lets face it ladies, guys are physically stronger than us, and if you are not using restraints he could overpower you and remove himself from your lap. You want to keep it so that he is right at the threshold of wanting to "flee or escape" but under that level just enough so he can maintain his position and comportment.

After a long dose of the hairbrush (I often go into the hundreds, but don't really count) order them to reposition for a strapping, caning, cropping or switching. For these have them slightly leaning over a chair, laying over a low stool or ottoman, or in the legs up position. Your objective is to have them positioned so you have easy access to their bottom with no interference from chair arms, chair backs, and good clearance to swing your implement with no concern about hitting walls, lights, ceiling fans, etc.

From this point switch or rotate implements. Administer maybe 10 to 30 with the cane, then switch to the crop, the strap etc. For a serious session this could go on for quite some time. Feel free to stop for a moment and interrogate the recipient how their bottom feels, if they are learning anything and so forth. On different days implements can feel different to the recipient. Figure out which is hurting the most and causing the greatest discomfort, then apply an extra dozen with that one with extra vigor and enthusiasm.

When you're done their bottom and the backs of upper thighs should be red, mottled, criss-crossed with welts. While you can inflict pain and cause a great deal of visual effect, this can be done with no kind of damage. Lighter implements made of wood will get the job done but never do any "deep tissue" bruising. Great care should be made to never hit any area around the lower spine or the tailbone (coccyx). Before using a cane, check distance to make sure the tip will not wrap around the hips. Use caution with the lower thighs. About two hands width below the crease area is fine, but lower than that on most people there is not enough muscle or padding to safely cover the connective tissues, ligaments, etc. You can also slap the insides of the thighs with your hand or a light instrument and dedicate a whole session to just the thighs and legs. Some people believe after the recipient should spend some quality time in the corner. The humiliation of standing with sore red bottom exposed, and their face is in the corner is priceless. Just a few thoughts. :) 

Lets Talk Music Boys and Girls... :)

                                                       

Okay, this is me bored, talking about music. If you don't like this sort of post, or my opinions, or taste in music, go suck a bag of...  :) 

 

What's that you say?

You can't deal with the full bag of dick suckage?

Sure you can, because...

 

And if you are a micropenis cuckold, then you REALLY need to suck a cock...to know what a real mans cock looks and feels like (laughing at my own jokes here).  :) 

 

To set the ambiance, listen to Saturday's Sensual Saucy Salacious Super Sexy Sade, while reading. Or not. Off topic, stupid time change happens tonight. Set your clocks back one hour. No, that does *not* mean you are one hour younger...you Supercilious Snarky Psychos. :) 

Music is, and always has been, a huge part of my life. I've mentioned this before, but the last year of so I've grown fascinated with YouTube "Reaction" videos. Yea, its just people watching. The modern day digital version of hanging out at the beach, the club or the park, being "voyeuristic" of sorts. 

Sometimes the reactions bring about great alacrity and I love seeing people discover some unknown, to them, music or artist and seeing the joy on their faces, but I've also noticed, with some level of surprise and even sorrow, how so many of the younger generation, are, how do I put this politely...musically stunted, deprived, even ignorant (not meant in a pejorative manner) of recent era musicians and all that entails. And its not their fault...in so many ways. 

Rock's origins started in the late 1940s when country music, maybe a little jazz and blues blended into a new sound with electric guitars and a steady drumbeat, according to some. From that, other genres branched out into harder rock, Pop, Hip-Hop and so on. MTV was a thing for some time, but then stopped playing music, radio somewhat died, Rap entered the scene, and point blank, I am *not* a fan of Rap and I blame it partially for the musical "stunting" of todays "Yutes". 

For example (I'm not drawing attention to any specific channel as I'm not trying to call out anyone) if you look at most U.S.A. For Africa - "We Are The World" reaction videos, most are first time listeners, they've never even heard of this, and what is alarming to me is they don't seem to know most of the singers that are performing. Okay, a lot of these channels are owned/run by youngish black people, and more power to them for doing it as, when a channel gets enough hits and traffic they get paid a percent of the ad money so...good for them. And not that just because someone is black they should know any/all black singers, but people do tend to sort of listen to what their parents listened to when growing up, country people listen to country music, classical music fans kids will be raised on that partially and so on, so one would presume that youngish people would have at least *some* idea who the artists and musicians were from their parents age, meaning mostly the 80s and 90s right? 

Wrong. When most of the people doing the reaction videos have no idea who all or most of the singers are, Quincy Jones, Lionel Richie, Stevie Wonder, Paul Simon, Kenny Rogers, Tina Turner, Billy Joel, Michael Jackson (okay everyone knows Michael, but not most of his siblings), Diana Ross, Dionne Warwick, Willie Nelson, Bruce Springsteen, Kenny Loggins, Steve Perry, Daryl Hall, John Oates (Hall and Oates), Huey Lewis, Cyndi Lauper, Bob Dylan, Ray Charles, Waylon Jennings, Bette Midler, The Pointer Sisters, Smokey Robinson and others...that's unfortunate. 

My point here is, going back to the infancy of "modern day music" in the 40s, that's not that long ago. From there we jumped to the 60s, the Hippies, Woodstock, psychedelic rock, Led Zeppelin, Disco, the 80's and 90's...music shapes our lives. Its used in TV commercial jingles, movie soundtracks, cultural references, it creates moods, tone, marks unique times and experiences in our lives. You lost your viginity to some song, jammed out to some favorite tune when you got your first drivers licence, had your favorite sounds on when you worked out, jogged, sat around getting high, parties, laying on the beach, music that tied in with whatever large events that happened during your formative years.  

Some stick to one genre, some are more diverse. There are eclectic bands, exotic bands, generic bands, esoterical singers and groups like Frank Zappa, The Sex Pistols, Vinnie Spit (Vicente Expectoration? Giggling at my own inside joke.) and then those that are better known (but not necessarily better musicians) like KISS, Bon Jovi, MC Hammer and on and on. But I can't imagine not knowing the cultural importance and relevance of (like them or not) Don Henley's "Boys of Summer" or Bryan Adams' "Summer of 69", or epics like "Faithfully" by Journey or "Stairway to Heaven" by Led Zeppelin. 

Alright, I think I had a point here somewhere, but lost it. As usual, I start babbling and lose focus, forget what the hell I was rambling about. But, go watch the reaction channels, support them, make suggestions, it helps them make money, times have been tough, help them out. 

Oh, and if you want to hear the best band ever, (ever, hands down, full stop, indisputable, ever, in the history of the world) with the best guitarist, the best bassist, the best percussionist who also happens to be the greatest lyricist, try this on for size. 

And if you dispute my assertion about the greatest band ever, you can just go reacquaint yourself with that lovely Bag-O-Dicks mentioned above. Okay, I need to go do something productive. So, I think I'll strip down and take a nap while I contemplate this "productive" notion. Strip down, you say? Yea, I am, after all, wearing panties and a bra.  

Blogpost - With Pants. :)

 

I see a potential problem here...is it just me?  :)

 

 I wish this was my house. It reminds me of a Native American pueblo, all the different levels, the earth tones. I just love the natural look and the way it flows with the terrain. I've never been a huge fan of the big box structures that are so prevalent in modern day architecture and preferred in some parts of the world. I get that in some cases the land is flat, and trees are the only thing to build out of, so that's understood. But in some cases that big box is viewed as a status symbol, an ostentatious effort at displaying power, wealth, "look at me" and all that. Anyway, it is the "Santorini Mystique Hotel" in Greece, on the island of Santorini.

"Ron" (the cat) came to the vet clinic as a stray. After a few weeks he started making rounds to see patients, cuddling with pets to keep them warm and would sit next to any pet while they were asleep, offering comfort. Good for Ron! (Side note, who the hell names a cat "Ron"?)  :)

Gwyneth Paltrow and Jada Pinkett Smith say porn is harmful to women. 

These female adult-content creators disagree.

Will someone tell "Gwinny" and Jada to shut the fuck up? These useless and clueless Hollywood douchebarges are fucking nuts. 

The Messy Lesbian Reality Show of Our Dreams Has Finally Arrived.  

Because they won't stop, until every single demographic of society has been outed, exposed, exploited for profit, subjected to mockery, insults and treated like a freak show. 'Murica!  :) 

I came across this somewhere. It sort of implies 2 Muslims, perhaps, but is relative to anyone of any race, sex, or culture. Dunning Kruger Effect anyone?  :)

 

Speaking of Dunning Kruger, Q-Non Trumpian wingnuts lined the streets in Dallas where JFK was assassinated in 1963, with the expectation that Donald Trump and J.F.K. Jr. (who died in 1999) were going to appear to announce Trumpies plans for running for POTUS again for 2024. No big surpise here for "normal" people, but neither Trump nor J.F.K Jr. appeared. :) 

Sex Time? 

The "Jetsons" are here. This $92k 'Personal Aircraft' by Jetson can fly almost 5000 feet high at 60+ miles per hour for approximately 20 minutes on one charge. 

Time for Bed.  

Bitches be Crazy.  :) 

 

Anti Social - A Modern Dating Horror Story.

This is a few years old, but more relevant today than ever.  :) 

 

Super Saucy Sesquipedalianist Bloviating Babbling Blather... :)

 There I was, minding my own business (no, that does *not* mean masturbating, lol) reading a thread on some forum, when the question came up about whether or not a cuckold should be in the room, or nearby, when engaging in...a cuckold related tryst. For myself, being a sexual sadist, a good portion of the thrill of this *is* his participation, willing or coerced, and I don't play "fair" in that regard. Without that aspect, then it would be just me having sex with some guy. And while that still feels good, nerves and genitals being what they are, doing the regular old bok-bok-bok, without the mindfuckery, without the power dynamic, if there is no humiliation, no mental or physical sadism, it could be rather boring. That dominant and submissive energy, his willingness to yield to my unsated lustful lusting, to capitulate, to acquiesce to my wishes and demands, that's where the "heat" and the extra spark come from. Feeding off that energy, plus the thrill of a "new" lover, or someone sort of new, that's what puts me over the edge. The "absorption" of the submissive energy. That's hot.  :) 

 

Blowjob Machine...is actually a safe. 

Might as well store all your valuables securely, cuz even a machine won't suck your dick...cuckold. :) 

 

Bavaria.

A small dick protest march? Must have been a small rally. You know, a short parade. A little gathering. A diminutive protest. Hope it wasn't cold out as...shrinkage would be an issue, that they can't much afford. I could go on with these little jokes and puns...all damn night. :)

Religion and sex. Sex and religion. What a strange world some people have created for themselves. Hardcore religious fundamentalist people with their aversion to sex, or purported aversion to sex, at least publicly, and then being "freaks-in-the-sheets" privately, what a surreal life they live. Its like this bizarre melding of puritanism and sex sells. Horniness and sexual oppression. Madonna and the Whore complex. Things of that nature, the end result being...sex/sex/sex. Wanting it. Reviling it (or pretending to). Lusting after it. Denouncing it. Big tits. Hide your tits. Don't watch porn...while they run off to the whorehouse. Hide their penis, then spending a fortune on hard-dick-pills. Don't be a slut, but be my slut. Cover your nipples, while they're driving to the Tittie Bar. Fucked in the mind and in their sex related OCDish, yet self-repressed groins...I will never, ever, ever understand it. I mean, sex is normal and natural, live your lives, to thine own self be true, be real, be honest, and just enjoy it.  :)

Guy below has a point. If the tax code is so complex people need to hire someone to figure it out, simplify it. If people of average intelligence can't understand it, what good is it? If you have to have an advanced degree to grasp it, its stupid, especially considering more and more people have some sort of degree. Or are those degrees worthless, both knowledge wise, and career wise? I mean, if everyone and their cousin has a degree, they've become ubiquitous and the value of those degrees lowers. It used to be most jobs were learned through apprenticeships, on the job training, then Wall Street and Big Education realized they could make billions by shifting the agenda towards the "need" for a degree...of which much of what people learn, serves no real purpose. Not that learning anything is bad of course, but much of that could be gleaned from reading a book, hitting a library, and not having to pay 10's of 1000s to learn it. Just learning "stuff" via rote memorization to be able to pass tests is not a true education. Plus, the level of corruption is stunning, and yes, a huge part of it is within the colleges and Universities. The tuition costs are bankrupting people, to the point where soon, this will flip and cycle around and fewer people will attend college. On the topic of cost and corruption, is "Aunt Becky" still on parole? :)

What a fantastic view to have...right outside your door. 

I came across the following photo by accident, and it reminded me how I used to be so attracted to Frank Zane. I would have to say that of any bodybuilder, his physique was the one I found most appealing. And, maybe I'm being a bit nostalgic, but the "look", that era, the fashion, the furniture, seems like a much simpler and less chaotic time. Obviously that would not be true as there were problems and issues, there always is, but it "seems" like it was just...a safer, simpler and nicer time.  :) 

Fortunately for me, when I first met my (now) husband, while he was never into competitive bodybuilding, he worked out seemingly non-stop so he was about...maybe 80% to 85% "there" with the same look, albeit a few inches taller and perhaps 30 pounds heavier...one of the first things that attracted me to him.  :) 

Hell yes. I think guys should wear and rock this look!  :)  

Black Panther & Rottweiler...Best Buddies.  :) 

Panda...just loving life.  :)

I'm not a gun nut, but I found this 40 Shot Chain Pistol interesting.

Life through Racist Glasses.

360 Degree View from the Top of Mount Everest on a clear day.