There are so many fantastic and truly talented artists out there. I have no art skills, zero, none, but wish I did. I got "ideas" in my head and no way to bring them out...other than reenacting them in everyday life of course. :)
Saturday, October 14, 2017
Friday, October 13, 2017
How to Engage Dominant Women.
{Answering a question from a reader, name withheld by request.}
*******, you asked a very good question. I will try to make a few suggestions. First off though everyone needs to understand that every dominant woman has her own "ideal" version of a submissive male. Of course a submissive male also has his notions of an "ideal" woman so he must try to appeal to and avail himself of that specific type of woman. Some dominant women kind of prefer to "break and train" an otherwise "normal" man into their submissive partner. Others may prefer one who is already trained, or very malleable with a minimum of fuss and effort. Knowing what and how you are would help to decide what type of dominant woman to approach. For example, for a Domme who likes a challenge, if the sub is a wimp and has the spine (as relates to dominant women alone) of a limp dish rag then you will not appeal to her or her desires.
Having said the above I will make a few suggestions that would appeal to myself and women that are my type, of sorts. If you are at a cocktail party, an office party, a gallery opening, etc and if you find a place to interject into a conversation that pertains to women's standings in politics, the church, the imbalance in pay scales, the "glass ceiling" etc your opinion that "the world would be better if _____". If women were able to be priests, if women had a better opportunity of running more of corporate America, the need for more women in higher offices of politics and so forth it will appeal to and catch the ears and eyes of all women in general, and the more dominant women in specific.
Of course you must really believe this and mean it. A fraud or someone insincere using the above as a pick up line will quickly be revealed by other conflicting statements, demeanor and attitude. Public or initial private conversations where deference is shown to women in a non "pussy whipped" way is a good start. Where it is applicable in the right context in a conversation or a passing comment you may point out you like strong women, are a fully domesticated male, can appreciate a woman who knows what she wants and goes after it. If its a more personal conversation or a light hearted one in public casual references to women who wear the pants in the family, how she runs her household, the awe you have for powerful women, strong women throughout history or anything similar can help.
My point of all the above is we want a guy who is intelligent and genuine. One who is strong and also compassionate about others, life, causes, our planet, animals, sick people and babies. There are so many ways to present yourself as a man who will take a stand and fight for what is right, but who will not fight against our innermost kinky desires and passions. Opening doors, chivalry, the older customs of how to treat a "lady" are all nice gestures (and should be extended to everyone out of kindness for humanity in general) but also appeal to her mind. Don't be afraid to break the mold of the usual pick up lines, don't come across like some wimp with no opinion, no stance on anything other than a desire to get dominated as that's just creepy. We have intricate and complicated minds, capture our intellectual interest. Think along the lines of how we may get aroused by a long story of role reversal, a submissive male, the progression of how she may thrill at slowly bringing him into her web of desire and delightful perverted pleasures, and a guy will get the same effect by looking at a simple photo depicting the above scenario. Don't be simple, don't be overtly and intentionally complex, just be real.
*******, you asked a very good question. I will try to make a few suggestions. First off though everyone needs to understand that every dominant woman has her own "ideal" version of a submissive male. Of course a submissive male also has his notions of an "ideal" woman so he must try to appeal to and avail himself of that specific type of woman. Some dominant women kind of prefer to "break and train" an otherwise "normal" man into their submissive partner. Others may prefer one who is already trained, or very malleable with a minimum of fuss and effort. Knowing what and how you are would help to decide what type of dominant woman to approach. For example, for a Domme who likes a challenge, if the sub is a wimp and has the spine (as relates to dominant women alone) of a limp dish rag then you will not appeal to her or her desires.
Having said the above I will make a few suggestions that would appeal to myself and women that are my type, of sorts. If you are at a cocktail party, an office party, a gallery opening, etc and if you find a place to interject into a conversation that pertains to women's standings in politics, the church, the imbalance in pay scales, the "glass ceiling" etc your opinion that "the world would be better if _____". If women were able to be priests, if women had a better opportunity of running more of corporate America, the need for more women in higher offices of politics and so forth it will appeal to and catch the ears and eyes of all women in general, and the more dominant women in specific.
Of course you must really believe this and mean it. A fraud or someone insincere using the above as a pick up line will quickly be revealed by other conflicting statements, demeanor and attitude. Public or initial private conversations where deference is shown to women in a non "pussy whipped" way is a good start. Where it is applicable in the right context in a conversation or a passing comment you may point out you like strong women, are a fully domesticated male, can appreciate a woman who knows what she wants and goes after it. If its a more personal conversation or a light hearted one in public casual references to women who wear the pants in the family, how she runs her household, the awe you have for powerful women, strong women throughout history or anything similar can help.
My point of all the above is we want a guy who is intelligent and genuine. One who is strong and also compassionate about others, life, causes, our planet, animals, sick people and babies. There are so many ways to present yourself as a man who will take a stand and fight for what is right, but who will not fight against our innermost kinky desires and passions. Opening doors, chivalry, the older customs of how to treat a "lady" are all nice gestures (and should be extended to everyone out of kindness for humanity in general) but also appeal to her mind. Don't be afraid to break the mold of the usual pick up lines, don't come across like some wimp with no opinion, no stance on anything other than a desire to get dominated as that's just creepy. We have intricate and complicated minds, capture our intellectual interest. Think along the lines of how we may get aroused by a long story of role reversal, a submissive male, the progression of how she may thrill at slowly bringing him into her web of desire and delightful perverted pleasures, and a guy will get the same effect by looking at a simple photo depicting the above scenario. Don't be simple, don't be overtly and intentionally complex, just be real.
Squirting - Gushing - Female Ejaculation.
I've always squirted, & almost always squirt from clitoral stimulus. The type of squirt usually depends upon the action & motion of the stimulus. Very light licking of my clit will produce small amounts, light streams, & something like a tiny sprinkler. licking with pressure & a sharper-pointed tongue, will produce the same type of squirt but with more pressure. Rubbing your hand or the head of your cock against the front of my pussy will get everything wet! Lastly, steady thrusts in & out that are followed by quick removal of the cock/object will produce sharp shooting streams of come.
I have also seen this in many squirting porn videos, where they withdraw from her to make her squirt. I always watch myself masturbate now, & have been paying much attention to what makes me spritz, what makes me gush, & what makes me shoot a hard stream across the room. The very first time it ever happened, I was embarrassed, but I was lucky enough to have information available to read about it. Even with the knowledge, I still tried to control it, keep it from happening. These days I just make sure I'm prepared for the flood. I keep extra towels around always, & have a special waterproof blanket (Liberator Throe, shown in photo below) to keep from having to sleep in the wet spot later. I tell potential lovers upfront so that I can find the ones that want to get wet. There are some people that think all women are capable of squirting, they just suppress it. That may or may not be true. If you want to know if you can, one way I can say might help is called a G-Spot-Chubby. It's a short, fat dildo with a small bend at the tip to hit the G-spot. That thing always makes a mess of me....It vibrates, so you can rub your clit with it in between gushes. :)
I have also seen this in many squirting porn videos, where they withdraw from her to make her squirt. I always watch myself masturbate now, & have been paying much attention to what makes me spritz, what makes me gush, & what makes me shoot a hard stream across the room. The very first time it ever happened, I was embarrassed, but I was lucky enough to have information available to read about it. Even with the knowledge, I still tried to control it, keep it from happening. These days I just make sure I'm prepared for the flood. I keep extra towels around always, & have a special waterproof blanket (Liberator Throe, shown in photo below) to keep from having to sleep in the wet spot later. I tell potential lovers upfront so that I can find the ones that want to get wet. There are some people that think all women are capable of squirting, they just suppress it. That may or may not be true. If you want to know if you can, one way I can say might help is called a G-Spot-Chubby. It's a short, fat dildo with a small bend at the tip to hit the G-spot. That thing always makes a mess of me....It vibrates, so you can rub your clit with it in between gushes. :)
Thursday, October 12, 2017
Wednesday, October 11, 2017
There’s a brand, spanking NEW Fifty Shades book coming out! (Does Anybody Care?)
I never read the 1st one. Nor the 2nd (was there a 2nd?), nor saw any of the movies. Its a bizarre phenomena to me because it had so many bad reviews, and people mocked endlessly, yet its now like a billion dollar franchise or something. Kudos to the lady that wrote it, but its odd to me because I personally don't know of anyone with any interest in it...unless some people that read this blog might have read/seen it, and care to comment.
Tuesday, October 10, 2017
Monday, October 9, 2017
Strong Women Profiled: Malala Yousafzai.
On this day in 2012, Malala Yousafzai, then 14, was boarding a school bus in Pakistan when a Taliban gunman shot her in the head. She survived the assault and went on to start the Malala Fund with her father to champion every girl’s right to free, safe and quality education. Now she will study at University of Oxford.
Sunday, October 8, 2017
A message from Native Americans for Columbus Day.
I'm part Nipmuc, so you know...."illegal immigrants" and my ancestors and all that debate. :)
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