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Friday, January 13, 2017

For wimpy lesser submissive cuckold "men".

Its very interesting and also rather classic how submissive types of men hope to attract a mate. In my opinion men with the most true substance eventually outgrow (if they ever had it) the need for "Alpha/Macho" behavior. Its a societal thing, a keeping up with the Joneses/testosterone male thing that is a learned trait as much as a biological one.

Competition, males must compete to reproduce, to win their mate and all that nonsense. Its a misguided effort on their parts as you will have noticed no doubt that while we pick "badboys" in high school and perhaps the early years of college, as we mature we begin to look for a man that is stable, kind, loyal and will be a good provider.

No, I don't mean gold digging, although that does exist but rather/also a provider of compassion, life long friendship, stability, and a life mate. It takes some of us longer than others to figure out but the attraction of the bad boy is a losing proposition in the long run.

Enter cuckolding. Within this type of a relationship a woman can have the love of her life and a quiet, stable family life at home, and her bad boy lover as well. The best of both worlds. Perhaps guys should alter their approach when they next have a date. Instead of trying to compete with what you think we want, why not try to present what you really are?

Obviously I don't mean publicly exposing yourself. But through your manner, your demeanor, how your present yourself in the company of women might attract the right type (for you) of woman to you.

The problem is when you are offering up one image that appeals to a certain type of woman and then upon exposing the real you she feels betrayed or let down. If you cast yourself as a macho, manly man, all Alpha and dominant, then when if things progress to intimacy she upon your exposing your desire to be a wimp, a cuckold or submissive she is disappointed or even disgusted. That's just a waste of your time and is a major let down for you as well.

Stop setting yourself up to be rejected by women who dislike your type and find the right woman who will reject and use you in the manner which you desire and deserve. And don't be bitter towards all women for past experiences. Keep in mind that was then, your future is begins now. I can assure you that there are plenty of strong minded, intelligent, clean and healthy and attractive women who would enjoy a life spent with an attractive and successful guy wherein she can have her cake (cock) and you can eat it too, lol, (sorry, couldn't resist).