Slutty Smutty Stuff...

 

 

And some of my dogs.  :)

Poetic puerile prose from the puny penis pervert. :)

 

For the reader that doesn't know this....a guy, who apparently has a "little thing" (pun intended) for me grabs my photos from here and there, writes his "smut" on them and sends them to me.  :)

What Cheating on My Boyfriend (Again and Again) Taught Me About Monogamy.

Some people may find this article interesting....I know I did.  :)

Gay men Kissing....and Random stuff.

Gay men kissing in the 60s.

And yet...for some reason the world did not blow up.  :)

 

 

 

Well, this is interesting.

Forced Bisexual Acts.

 I've written about this before, but as people keep asking me my opinion on "forcing" a submissive male and/or a cuckold to perform orally on another male, or other types of humiliating sex acts, I will revisit it again.

I've always viewed this sort of activity as something that falls under the title (my title....its not official) of an "oral submissive" rather than gay man or bisexual etc. The submissive men, in their willingness to please their Mistress or Domme or wife (whatever the case may be) will suck a dick, or lick his balls, maybe even clean up any mess left over from both her and him (meaning a lover a la cuckold should that be the case) does so to be obedient and to make her happy.

For straight men (in our messed up society) engaging in anything considered homosexual is a major threat to his ego, pride and masculinity....at least in the eyes of some.....and of course for many guilt. Being ordered to do this circumvents those feelings somewhat as his desire to please Her (and Her deviant and perverted sadistic wishes) overrides his aversion to having that manly dick explode in his mouth. He "has" to do it rather than openly "wanting" to do it. If this type of sub were gay or bi, he would seek out those sexually superior dicks of his own volition.....and a dominant female wouldn't even be in the picture. Of course I advocate strict corporal punishment through spanking and caning (and others) to help "encourage" him to fully comply if he's being difficult. :)

Oral Sex - Pussy Eating - Oral Service - Pussy Worship...Made Easy.

Just follow the directions.  :)

 

 

 

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Censorship 2.0

There seems to be a new round of censorship happening in the USA and UK. The UK has some nonsense going on with having to opt in to be able to view adult content apparently. Trump has (in the past) made several negative statements about adult entertainment. Now he's sucking up to some of the religious right and vice-versa, which is not a good sign. Plus his statements about wanting to change laws so he could sue the media that prints negative stories about him.

Here in the US however this is what's transpired the last few years:
Wordpress killed all blogs that had sexual content or graphic photos.
Google + kills any profile that has the same.
Google owned Blogger killed blogs that had adult related affiliate links.
Yahoo bought Tumblr and seems to have somewhat disabled the key word search for adult content.
Yahoo did the same years ago with their Yahoo Groups.

Slightly different issue but along the same lines is how VISA and MasterCard charge between $500 and $1000 per year for any website that has "adult content" on it but they ONLY charge this to American based webmasters. This came about during the horribly oppressive Bush years. I guess all other countries told VISA and MC to fuck off as their webmasters are not subjected to the same fee's.

Now Amazon has some bizarre scheme where they are targeting authors that have adult related books, deactivating the purchase icon, sending those books back to "draft" status and providing a link to what their content policy is. 

What I find insane is "Offensive Content: What we deem offensive is probably about what you would expect". According to which person? I mean if we aren't talking bestiality here, nor rape, no underage, no pedophilia, no necrophilia, nothing nonconsensual, what are we referring to and by whose standards? The Pope? Hugh Hefner?

I don't do the tin foil, black helicopter, New World Order paranoid conspiracy theory type thing. At the same time its very odd how so quickly so many companies......that made billions off of adult content.....suddenly all want to censor it.

I recently had one of my books sent back to draft status...meaning cancelled as there is no way to ever figure out what Amazons issue with it is....and they won't tell you. Cuckold Journal: Wet Options: Cuckold Letters II The Married Years is actually one of my "tamer" books so for all I know within the next few days or months all of my books might have been removed from Amazon.....by Amazon.

So, if books are being removed, blogs are being killed, major search engines are setting algorithms to ignore adult content, just wondering how far off we are from book burnings.......a resurgence of the religious right in political power.......with witch burnings soon to follow. :)

Bulls - Cocks - Garden Hoses. :)

{As Google, without warning deleted my old blogs, I'm reposting some posts I wrote in the past that were stored elsewhere. For those that may have read them before, mea culpa for the redundancy and pleas just ignore. For those that have not read them....they may (or may not) be enjoyable to read. :) }

So earlier I was outside playing with my puppies (actually none of them are truly puppies but its just what I call them). Anyway, I was scrubbing out and refilling their water dishes and had one of those moments that starts out innocently enough and ends up perverted. I know, I know.......I have so many of them and no doubt a shrink would say I have hyper-sexuality probably as a result of bipolar or something, but what the hell do I care. :)

Anyhow, when I turned the hose on it.....I guess it had air in it so it would glug for a second, then stop, then spew out some water, glug/pause again and so on. Obviously, I mean......I don't know what a normal person would think of, but with me, obviously it reminded me of a penis ejaculating. Which in turn reminded me of one lover....well almost a lover, I gave him a hand job twice and we sort of fooled around a bit but never actually had sex, so a partial lover I suppose. My point was that he was one of those guys that just seemed to come and come and its like his balls never emptied as sperm shot out and shot out in a never ending series of spraying and glugging and.......you see where this is going right? The garden hose set it off.

The reason that Paul never became a full on lover/Bull of mine was his aversion to some aspects of the cuckold relationship I have with my submissive husband and some of my expectations. Now, contrary to all these stories I see online about Bulls that are so easily available with no compunction at being in the same room with, or being watched by, or interacting with, or even being touched by, blown by or fluffed up by another man, I don't find those guys. In fact, most of the guys I come across as lovers or potential lovers are....not borderline homophobic, but simply insanely heterosexual.

Like for example, I run an ad, get inundated with replies, I start culling through them, vetting the various.....applicants? Bull applicants? Cock applicants? Whatever.......and their initial enthusiasm seems to quell or diminish when we start discussing the actual details. Most are just seriously uncomfortable being watched from around the corner, or across the room by another man. Even though its at my request, and the man is my submissive cuckold husband, most are still opposed to the notion when they really start thinking about it. More so if anything else is suggested. I've mentioned this before I think, but at a few points in time I've even considered running and ad looking exclusively for a bisexual male to satisfy a few of my more sadistically inclined humiliating plans for my husband. That however, raises a whole host of other complications.

Anyhow,  back to Paul and the challenge of having him become a lover.......he's one of those that didn't even want to know that my husband would be in the same house, much less in the same bedroom. So, after our first meeting which was a coffee date one evening and my giving him a hand-job in the car, and then a repeat of the same about a week or so later, I told him that unless he was willing to commit to going further along the lines of what I enjoy I didn't really see the point in our continuing this as it was leaving more sexually frustrated than before....which is not my goal here.

My goal is my being sexually satisfied, the tease and denial goes one way.....from me to my cuckold....not from anyone to me. I understood his aversion so it was no problem, but he still wants to meet me for "coffee" and contacts me every few days but......no thanks.

Yea, I know this post is rambling and all over the place. I'm probably over caffeinated again, lol. My whole point....yes we are finally there ladies and gentleman......is the things, the horribly humiliating and nasty disgusting things I would have loved to do with Paul's endlessly large loads of sperm, sort of thick and gloppy.....the type that would be very, very, very hard for a cuckold to lick up and try to choke down without gagging would have been fun for me. :)

Cuckolding and Dominant Women.

As many others do, I too seem to end up in debates quite often over the semantics of the word cuckoldry and to whom, and what acts it applies. I don't do this for the express purposes of being an anally retentive pedantic but rather for the following reasons.
 
I am not an anthropologist so am somewhat winging it here. However, to the best of my somewhat limited knowledge, we have had precious few cultures or society's that were matrilineal as far as titles and property. Meaning that women throughout history have had very little economic power as it pertains to ownership of land.
 
Obviously on the religious front the majority were designed with a patriarchal society in mind. So we have had very little power or equality in that area as well. Going back through the years there were many that had some version of a polygamous lifestyle with the males being the leaders and they alone having multiple wives. In portions of the Muslim world, males may have as many wives as they desire as long as they are in a financial position to maintain them.
 
So there is no shortage of examples of the male/female relationship dynamic currently and throughout history were women were treated as chattel. No options, no vote, no recourse, and used as slave labor or brood mares for reproducing the males genes and offspring.
 
Ok so back to cuckolding. The dispute seems to stem from the confusion over what is cuckolding, versus swinging, versus wife watching, versus cuckqueaning, versus a just straight up getting busy orgy. Some think the word cuckold should be broadly applicable to virtually anyone of those types of categories or parts of them or some of them. I happen to disagree.
 
The reason I feel strongly about this is that if you take the entirety of the history of human beings in nearly all cases and points in history we have been severely to moderately oppressed by males. And of course this applies to our bodies, our sexuality and in many cases 100% of the female sexual acts, reproductive choices, shaving or not, tanning or not, piercing body parts or not, getting tattoos (voluntarily or not) or not, masturbation, dildos, being ordered to pleasure other males and in some cases females for the amusement of her "husband/owner/Master?, the list never ends.

In the "classic" definition of cuckoldry it implies a sexually aware, sexually aggressive woman who is stepping out of the binds of the traditional marital vows to get properly fucked, with or without her husbands knowledge or approval. Its unique in that its the only "area" (for lack of a better word) where the female does this. This is what makes it rare, it makes it so much more intense and thrilling. In the majority of the above examples its some sort of sex acts, geared towards the males satisfaction, or arranged by him, or proposed by him, for his fantasy fulfillment. In cuckoldry (old version) its about her, its about the female, its about her satisfaction and fulfillment, its about me.
 
So when people want to have two "straight" males, one sub and on Dom where they engage in cocksucking and humiliation games, calling it 'Cuckold Training" and no female is present nor involved, it waters down what cuckolding means to me. When people want to have "Foot Cuckolding" and the endless obsession with BBC, and sex slaves dressed in an apron, or cross dressed, or doing Bull Foot Worship, or talk about "cucks" and run ads saying 'Cuckold seeks Mistress for Phone Sex" and whatever else, I feel robbed of the power that cuckolding has added to my life. Do I really care that others do, call, refer, play whatever "cuckold games" they want?

Not really, its a free country. But while engaging in conversation with me, I only intend to refer to it and to discuss it in the manner in which the definition matches the word. I simply view it as one aspect of equality at least and Female Domination at best. :)
 
Cuckold: cuck·old (kkld, kk-) KEY
NOUN:
A man married to an unfaithful wife.
TRANSITIVE VERB:
cuck·old·ed, cuck·old·ing, cuck·olds
To make a cuckold of.

Naked....

 

 

 

 

 

Its Sans Pants Friday. :)

Thanksgiving (Repost....cuz I'm too fucking lazy to write anything new.) :)

So...there I was immediately post-feast here on this fine Thanksgiving afternoon. I spent the week preparing, shopping, planning, checking recipes and (hopefully) remembering every detail. I spent most of the day cooking, baking and making sure my family and guests were full, sated and happy. 
As is typical after this sort of massive meal, especially with Turkey and the Tryptophan.......the various males either went home or relocated their bloated carcasses to the living room to watch the stupid football games.

While I am a workout fanatic, a freak really, often spending 2 to 3 hours a day working out, I'm not a sports fan. I mean sure.......I enjoy seeing the guys that have muscles, tight asses with huge thighs, but beyond that, no thanks. Anyhow, beyond hearing the game from the living room, while walking around I would catch glimpses of the game. Remarkable how hard they smash into each other and the sound of impact when they do. 

Which led me to........why is it that contact sports are viewed as perfectly acceptable in society but kinky sex, S&M, is not seen the same by the majority of the masses? I mean you have football, boxing, wrestling, martial arts kickboxing, MMA stuff, and whatever other sports that involve direct hitting, etc.. Now here we have activities viewed as....manly, a builder of character, healthy competition, and all that Mom, faux patriotism, and apple pie nonsense. Hard hitting, cracking heads, bruising and knocking people flat on their backs....or out....is a "good" thing to many people, right?

Take many of the same motions, or hand/foot movements, couple it with the intent of sexual arousal or something akin, and suddenly its a perversion. Instead of punching or kicking to knock your opponent out, you're spanking or slapping or kicking or kneeing a submissive male in the balls. Instead of using martial arts weapons for a competition, you're using a cane to whip and punish a bare bottom. Rather than wrestling on a mat for a trophy, you're wrestling with a sub and maybe it ends up with a little forced face sitting. The face sitting *is* the trophy in this case, lol. :)

We all know that one segment of the opposition or detractors is the religious right. Those that...for whatever incomprehensible reason...view their being born with genitals as a dirty little sin. They whom think that using those same genitals for anything other than marital sexual relations with the goal of reproduction......in the dark, lights off, once a month, only on Thursdays when its raining......silly nonsense like that. Yea, those people.

So, slapping someone in the face for "sport" is great but doing it for dominance or punishment is a sin?

Football players swatting (spanking) each other on the butt is part of a manly sporting ritual, but when I spank my submissive its a perverted sin?

Getting hit, or hitting a guy in the balls during sport is acceptable but me slapping my husband's balls is a catastrophic breakdown in the natural order of patriarchal biblical based rule and is a sin and to some a crime?

Two sweaty guys, nearly nude, grappling, groping and crotch bumping on a wrestling mat is a sport that goes back to the original Olympics. A FemDom doing the same, ending up with the victory and his tongue in her ass is a threat to conventional societal norms? It should be outlawed lest some innocent child happens across it and in later years, reenacts the same? 

Violence for sport, trophies, money and fame is a laudable pursuit and expenditure of time and money but do the identical acts for sexual pleasure and its a sin and left to some....should they have the political power.....it would also be a crime. Being violent is good, but being horny (recall the overfed limp dicked semi-comatose cuckold husband on the couch mentioned earlier?) and perverted is horrid? And people think I'm crazy? :)

Conan Submits To A Dominatrix.

Conan gets disciplined by professional dominatrix Lady Velvet Steel.

Can you go back to Vanilla?

(A reader contacted me privately and asked the following....reposted with his permission of course.)


Vanessa,
Do you think someone, a man or woman and a couple, once bitten by the intensity of the hotwife-cuck fem-dom dynamic, could ever be truly satisfied without it? Could they ever go back to purely "vanilla?"  (Name withheld by me.)

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(My reply to "No Name"),
Vanilla?
No.
Are there other ways to get fulfillment and still be happy?
Sure. 

I just view it as it being as much a part of our makeup and nature as is ones preference for the genres of books, movies or music we enjoy. Some people will always, always, always prefer classical over any other type. If suddenly there was no more classical music, they'd find something relatively close to it and still find comparative happiness with that. Apply the same to sports, or food or whatever else. 

But while your question was about one sort of specific act/fetish within the larger realm (yes, you mentioned FemDom dynamic) its hard to put into context what "vanilla" is to the individual. If someone thinks oral sex is "kinky" and suddenly had to go without, there is still normal penetrative sex. So, would they still have some satisfaction? Sure.

I would point out to you that you've never been "vanilla" in the classical sense as you are bi. To a hardcore socially conservative....that's already a sin and makes you of questionable moral turpitude. Meaning a perverted freak in their eyes. So its all sort of relative to begin with.

For myself, if all avenues of "kinky sex" were suddenly cut off from me, I suppose I'd have normal intercourse a few times a year and that's it.   :)