Just follow the directions. :)
Saturday, December 10, 2016
Censorship 2.0
There seems to be a new round of censorship happening in the USA and UK. The UK has some nonsense going on with having to opt in to be able to view adult content apparently. Trump has (in the past) made several negative statements about adult entertainment. Now he's sucking up to some of the religious right and vice-versa, which is not a good sign. Plus his statements about wanting to change laws so he could sue the media that prints negative stories about him.
Here in the US however this is what's transpired the last few years:
Wordpress killed all blogs that had sexual content or graphic photos.
Google + kills any profile that has the same.
Google owned Blogger killed blogs that had adult related affiliate links.
Yahoo bought Tumblr and seems to have somewhat disabled the key word search for adult content.
Yahoo did the same years ago with their Yahoo Groups.
Slightly different issue but along the same lines is how VISA and MasterCard charge between $500 and $1000 per year for any website that has "adult content" on it but they ONLY charge this to American based webmasters. This came about during the horribly oppressive Bush years. I guess all other countries told VISA and MC to fuck off as their webmasters are not subjected to the same fee's.
Now Amazon has some bizarre scheme where they are targeting authors that have adult related books, deactivating the purchase icon, sending those books back to "draft" status and providing a link to what their content policy is.
What I find insane is "Offensive Content: What we deem offensive is probably about what you would expect". According to which person? I mean if we aren't talking bestiality here, nor rape, no underage, no pedophilia, no necrophilia, nothing nonconsensual, what are we referring to and by whose standards? The Pope? Hugh Hefner?
I don't do the tin foil, black helicopter, New World Order paranoid conspiracy theory type thing. At the same time its very odd how so quickly so many companies......that made billions off of adult content.....suddenly all want to censor it.
I recently had one of my books sent back to draft status...meaning cancelled as there is no way to ever figure out what Amazons issue with it is....and they won't tell you. Cuckold Journal: Wet Options: Cuckold Letters II The Married Years is actually one of my "tamer" books so for all I know within the next few days or months all of my books might have been removed from Amazon.....by Amazon.
So, if books are being removed, blogs are being killed, major search engines are setting algorithms to ignore adult content, just wondering how far off we are from book burnings.......a resurgence of the religious right in political power.......with witch burnings soon to follow. :)
Here in the US however this is what's transpired the last few years:
Wordpress killed all blogs that had sexual content or graphic photos.
Google + kills any profile that has the same.
Google owned Blogger killed blogs that had adult related affiliate links.
Yahoo bought Tumblr and seems to have somewhat disabled the key word search for adult content.
Yahoo did the same years ago with their Yahoo Groups.
Slightly different issue but along the same lines is how VISA and MasterCard charge between $500 and $1000 per year for any website that has "adult content" on it but they ONLY charge this to American based webmasters. This came about during the horribly oppressive Bush years. I guess all other countries told VISA and MC to fuck off as their webmasters are not subjected to the same fee's.
Now Amazon has some bizarre scheme where they are targeting authors that have adult related books, deactivating the purchase icon, sending those books back to "draft" status and providing a link to what their content policy is.
What I find insane is "Offensive Content: What we deem offensive is probably about what you would expect". According to which person? I mean if we aren't talking bestiality here, nor rape, no underage, no pedophilia, no necrophilia, nothing nonconsensual, what are we referring to and by whose standards? The Pope? Hugh Hefner?
I don't do the tin foil, black helicopter, New World Order paranoid conspiracy theory type thing. At the same time its very odd how so quickly so many companies......that made billions off of adult content.....suddenly all want to censor it.
I recently had one of my books sent back to draft status...meaning cancelled as there is no way to ever figure out what Amazons issue with it is....and they won't tell you. Cuckold Journal: Wet Options: Cuckold Letters II The Married Years is actually one of my "tamer" books so for all I know within the next few days or months all of my books might have been removed from Amazon.....by Amazon.
So, if books are being removed, blogs are being killed, major search engines are setting algorithms to ignore adult content, just wondering how far off we are from book burnings.......a resurgence of the religious right in political power.......with witch burnings soon to follow. :)
Bulls - Cocks - Garden Hoses. :)
{As Google, without warning deleted my old blogs, I'm reposting some posts I wrote in the past that were stored elsewhere. For those that may have read them before, mea culpa for the redundancy and pleas just ignore. For those that have not read them....they may (or may not) be enjoyable to read. :) }
So earlier I was outside playing with my puppies (actually none of them are truly puppies but its just what I call them). Anyway, I was scrubbing out and refilling their water dishes and had one of those moments that starts out innocently enough and ends up perverted. I know, I know.......I have so many of them and no doubt a shrink would say I have hyper-sexuality probably as a result of bipolar or something, but what the hell do I care. :)
Anyhow, when I turned the hose on it.....I guess it had air in it so it would glug for a second, then stop, then spew out some water, glug/pause again and so on. Obviously, I mean......I don't know what a normal person would think of, but with me, obviously it reminded me of a penis ejaculating. Which in turn reminded me of one lover....well almost a lover, I gave him a hand job twice and we sort of fooled around a bit but never actually had sex, so a partial lover I suppose. My point was that he was one of those guys that just seemed to come and come and its like his balls never emptied as sperm shot out and shot out in a never ending series of spraying and glugging and.......you see where this is going right? The garden hose set it off.
The reason that Paul never became a full on lover/Bull of mine was his aversion to some aspects of the cuckold relationship I have with my submissive husband and some of my expectations. Now, contrary to all these stories I see online about Bulls that are so easily available with no compunction at being in the same room with, or being watched by, or interacting with, or even being touched by, blown by or fluffed up by another man, I don't find those guys. In fact, most of the guys I come across as lovers or potential lovers are....not borderline homophobic, but simply insanely heterosexual.
Like for example, I run an ad, get inundated with replies, I start culling through them, vetting the various.....applicants? Bull applicants? Cock applicants? Whatever.......and their initial enthusiasm seems to quell or diminish when we start discussing the actual details. Most are just seriously uncomfortable being watched from around the corner, or across the room by another man. Even though its at my request, and the man is my submissive cuckold husband, most are still opposed to the notion when they really start thinking about it. More so if anything else is suggested. I've mentioned this before I think, but at a few points in time I've even considered running and ad looking exclusively for a bisexual male to satisfy a few of my more sadistically inclined humiliating plans for my husband. That however, raises a whole host of other complications.
Anyhow, back to Paul and the challenge of having him become a lover.......he's one of those that didn't even want to know that my husband would be in the same house, much less in the same bedroom. So, after our first meeting which was a coffee date one evening and my giving him a hand-job in the car, and then a repeat of the same about a week or so later, I told him that unless he was willing to commit to going further along the lines of what I enjoy I didn't really see the point in our continuing this as it was leaving more sexually frustrated than before....which is not my goal here.
My goal is my being sexually satisfied, the tease and denial goes one way.....from me to my cuckold....not from anyone to me. I understood his aversion so it was no problem, but he still wants to meet me for "coffee" and contacts me every few days but......no thanks.
Yea, I know this post is rambling and all over the place. I'm probably over caffeinated again, lol. My whole point....yes we are finally there ladies and gentleman......is the things, the horribly humiliating and nasty disgusting things I would have loved to do with Paul's endlessly large loads of sperm, sort of thick and gloppy.....the type that would be very, very, very hard for a cuckold to lick up and try to choke down without gagging would have been fun for me. :)
So earlier I was outside playing with my puppies (actually none of them are truly puppies but its just what I call them). Anyway, I was scrubbing out and refilling their water dishes and had one of those moments that starts out innocently enough and ends up perverted. I know, I know.......I have so many of them and no doubt a shrink would say I have hyper-sexuality probably as a result of bipolar or something, but what the hell do I care. :)
Anyhow, when I turned the hose on it.....I guess it had air in it so it would glug for a second, then stop, then spew out some water, glug/pause again and so on. Obviously, I mean......I don't know what a normal person would think of, but with me, obviously it reminded me of a penis ejaculating. Which in turn reminded me of one lover....well almost a lover, I gave him a hand job twice and we sort of fooled around a bit but never actually had sex, so a partial lover I suppose. My point was that he was one of those guys that just seemed to come and come and its like his balls never emptied as sperm shot out and shot out in a never ending series of spraying and glugging and.......you see where this is going right? The garden hose set it off.
The reason that Paul never became a full on lover/Bull of mine was his aversion to some aspects of the cuckold relationship I have with my submissive husband and some of my expectations. Now, contrary to all these stories I see online about Bulls that are so easily available with no compunction at being in the same room with, or being watched by, or interacting with, or even being touched by, blown by or fluffed up by another man, I don't find those guys. In fact, most of the guys I come across as lovers or potential lovers are....not borderline homophobic, but simply insanely heterosexual.
Like for example, I run an ad, get inundated with replies, I start culling through them, vetting the various.....applicants? Bull applicants? Cock applicants? Whatever.......and their initial enthusiasm seems to quell or diminish when we start discussing the actual details. Most are just seriously uncomfortable being watched from around the corner, or across the room by another man. Even though its at my request, and the man is my submissive cuckold husband, most are still opposed to the notion when they really start thinking about it. More so if anything else is suggested. I've mentioned this before I think, but at a few points in time I've even considered running and ad looking exclusively for a bisexual male to satisfy a few of my more sadistically inclined humiliating plans for my husband. That however, raises a whole host of other complications.
Anyhow, back to Paul and the challenge of having him become a lover.......he's one of those that didn't even want to know that my husband would be in the same house, much less in the same bedroom. So, after our first meeting which was a coffee date one evening and my giving him a hand-job in the car, and then a repeat of the same about a week or so later, I told him that unless he was willing to commit to going further along the lines of what I enjoy I didn't really see the point in our continuing this as it was leaving more sexually frustrated than before....which is not my goal here.
My goal is my being sexually satisfied, the tease and denial goes one way.....from me to my cuckold....not from anyone to me. I understood his aversion so it was no problem, but he still wants to meet me for "coffee" and contacts me every few days but......no thanks.
Yea, I know this post is rambling and all over the place. I'm probably over caffeinated again, lol. My whole point....yes we are finally there ladies and gentleman......is the things, the horribly humiliating and nasty disgusting things I would have loved to do with Paul's endlessly large loads of sperm, sort of thick and gloppy.....the type that would be very, very, very hard for a cuckold to lick up and try to choke down without gagging would have been fun for me. :)
Cuckolding and Dominant Women.
As many others do, I too seem to end up in debates quite often over the semantics of the word cuckoldry and to whom, and what acts it applies. I don't do this for the express purposes of being an anally retentive pedantic but rather for the following reasons.
I am not an anthropologist so am somewhat winging it here. However, to the best of my somewhat limited knowledge, we have had precious few cultures or society's that were matrilineal as far as titles and property. Meaning that women throughout history have had very little economic power as it pertains to ownership of land.
Obviously on the religious front the majority were designed with a patriarchal society in mind. So we have had very little power or equality in that area as well. Going back through the years there were many that had some version of a polygamous lifestyle with the males being the leaders and they alone having multiple wives. In portions of the Muslim world, males may have as many wives as they desire as long as they are in a financial position to maintain them.
So there is no shortage of examples of the male/female relationship dynamic currently and throughout history were women were treated as chattel. No options, no vote, no recourse, and used as slave labor or brood mares for reproducing the males genes and offspring.
Ok so back to cuckolding. The dispute seems to stem from the confusion over what is cuckolding, versus swinging, versus wife watching, versus cuckqueaning, versus a just straight up getting busy orgy. Some think the word cuckold should be broadly applicable to virtually anyone of those types of categories or parts of them or some of them. I happen to disagree.
The reason I feel strongly about this is that if you take the entirety of the history of human beings in nearly all cases and points in history we have been severely to moderately oppressed by males. And of course this applies to our bodies, our sexuality and in many cases 100% of the female sexual acts, reproductive choices, shaving or not, tanning or not, piercing body parts or not, getting tattoos (voluntarily or not) or not, masturbation, dildos, being ordered to pleasure other males and in some cases females for the amusement of her "husband/owner/Master?, the list never ends.
In the "classic" definition of cuckoldry it implies a sexually aware, sexually aggressive woman who is stepping out of the binds of the traditional marital vows to get properly fucked, with or without her husbands knowledge or approval. Its unique in that its the only "area" (for lack of a better word) where the female does this. This is what makes it rare, it makes it so much more intense and thrilling. In the majority of the above examples its some sort of sex acts, geared towards the males satisfaction, or arranged by him, or proposed by him, for his fantasy fulfillment. In cuckoldry (old version) its about her, its about the female, its about her satisfaction and fulfillment, its about me.
So when people want to have two "straight" males, one sub and on Dom where they engage in cocksucking and humiliation games, calling it 'Cuckold Training" and no female is present nor involved, it waters down what cuckolding means to me. When people want to have "Foot Cuckolding" and the endless obsession with BBC, and sex slaves dressed in an apron, or cross dressed, or doing Bull Foot Worship, or talk about "cucks" and run ads saying 'Cuckold seeks Mistress for Phone Sex" and whatever else, I feel robbed of the power that cuckolding has added to my life. Do I really care that others do, call, refer, play whatever "cuckold games" they want?
Not really, its a free country. But while engaging in conversation with me, I only intend to refer to it and to discuss it in the manner in which the definition matches the word. I simply view it as one aspect of equality at least and Female Domination at best. :)
Cuckold: cuck·old (kkld, kk-) KEY
NOUN:
A man married to an unfaithful wife.
TRANSITIVE VERB:
cuck·old·ed, cuck·old·ing, cuck·olds
To make a cuckold of.
Friday, December 9, 2016
Thanksgiving (Repost....cuz I'm too fucking lazy to write anything new.) :)
So...there I was immediately post-feast here on this fine Thanksgiving afternoon. I spent the week preparing, shopping, planning, checking recipes and (hopefully) remembering every detail. I spent most of the day cooking, baking and making sure my family and guests were full, sated and happy.
As is typical after this sort of massive meal, especially with Turkey and the Tryptophan.......the various males either went home or relocated their bloated carcasses to the living room to watch the stupid football games.
While I am a workout fanatic, a freak really, often spending 2 to 3 hours a day working out, I'm not a sports fan. I mean sure.......I enjoy seeing the guys that have muscles, tight asses with huge thighs, but beyond that, no thanks. Anyhow, beyond hearing the game from the living room, while walking around I would catch glimpses of the game. Remarkable how hard they smash into each other and the sound of impact when they do.
Which led me to........why is it that contact sports are viewed as perfectly acceptable in society but kinky sex, S&M, is not seen the same by the majority of the masses? I mean you have football, boxing, wrestling, martial arts kickboxing, MMA stuff, and whatever other sports that involve direct hitting, etc.. Now here we have activities viewed as....manly, a builder of character, healthy competition, and all that Mom, faux patriotism, and apple pie nonsense. Hard hitting, cracking heads, bruising and knocking people flat on their backs....or out....is a "good" thing to many people, right?
Take many of the same motions, or hand/foot movements, couple it with the intent of sexual arousal or something akin, and suddenly its a perversion. Instead of punching or kicking to knock your opponent out, you're spanking or slapping or kicking or kneeing a submissive male in the balls. Instead of using martial arts weapons for a competition, you're using a cane to whip and punish a bare bottom. Rather than wrestling on a mat for a trophy, you're wrestling with a sub and maybe it ends up with a little forced face sitting. The face sitting *is* the trophy in this case, lol. :)
We all know that one segment of the opposition or detractors is the religious right. Those that...for whatever incomprehensible reason...view their being born with genitals as a dirty little sin. They whom think that using those same genitals for anything other than marital sexual relations with the goal of reproduction......in the dark, lights off, once a month, only on Thursdays when its raining......silly nonsense like that. Yea, those people.
So, slapping someone in the face for "sport" is great but doing it for dominance or punishment is a sin?
Football players swatting (spanking) each other on the butt is part of a manly sporting ritual, but when I spank my submissive its a perverted sin?
Getting hit, or hitting a guy in the balls during sport is acceptable but me slapping my husband's balls is a catastrophic breakdown in the natural order of patriarchal biblical based rule and is a sin and to some a crime?
Two sweaty guys, nearly nude, grappling, groping and crotch bumping on a wrestling mat is a sport that goes back to the original Olympics. A FemDom doing the same, ending up with the victory and his tongue in her ass is a threat to conventional societal norms? It should be outlawed lest some innocent child happens across it and in later years, reenacts the same?
Violence for sport, trophies, money and fame is a laudable pursuit and expenditure of time and money but do the identical acts for sexual pleasure and its a sin and left to some....should they have the political power.....it would also be a crime. Being violent is good, but being horny (recall the overfed limp dicked semi-comatose cuckold husband on the couch mentioned earlier?) and perverted is horrid? And people think I'm crazy? :)
As is typical after this sort of massive meal, especially with Turkey and the Tryptophan.......the various males either went home or relocated their bloated carcasses to the living room to watch the stupid football games.
While I am a workout fanatic, a freak really, often spending 2 to 3 hours a day working out, I'm not a sports fan. I mean sure.......I enjoy seeing the guys that have muscles, tight asses with huge thighs, but beyond that, no thanks. Anyhow, beyond hearing the game from the living room, while walking around I would catch glimpses of the game. Remarkable how hard they smash into each other and the sound of impact when they do.
Which led me to........why is it that contact sports are viewed as perfectly acceptable in society but kinky sex, S&M, is not seen the same by the majority of the masses? I mean you have football, boxing, wrestling, martial arts kickboxing, MMA stuff, and whatever other sports that involve direct hitting, etc.. Now here we have activities viewed as....manly, a builder of character, healthy competition, and all that Mom, faux patriotism, and apple pie nonsense. Hard hitting, cracking heads, bruising and knocking people flat on their backs....or out....is a "good" thing to many people, right?
Take many of the same motions, or hand/foot movements, couple it with the intent of sexual arousal or something akin, and suddenly its a perversion. Instead of punching or kicking to knock your opponent out, you're spanking or slapping or kicking or kneeing a submissive male in the balls. Instead of using martial arts weapons for a competition, you're using a cane to whip and punish a bare bottom. Rather than wrestling on a mat for a trophy, you're wrestling with a sub and maybe it ends up with a little forced face sitting. The face sitting *is* the trophy in this case, lol. :)
We all know that one segment of the opposition or detractors is the religious right. Those that...for whatever incomprehensible reason...view their being born with genitals as a dirty little sin. They whom think that using those same genitals for anything other than marital sexual relations with the goal of reproduction......in the dark, lights off, once a month, only on Thursdays when its raining......silly nonsense like that. Yea, those people.
So, slapping someone in the face for "sport" is great but doing it for dominance or punishment is a sin?
Football players swatting (spanking) each other on the butt is part of a manly sporting ritual, but when I spank my submissive its a perverted sin?
Getting hit, or hitting a guy in the balls during sport is acceptable but me slapping my husband's balls is a catastrophic breakdown in the natural order of patriarchal biblical based rule and is a sin and to some a crime?
Two sweaty guys, nearly nude, grappling, groping and crotch bumping on a wrestling mat is a sport that goes back to the original Olympics. A FemDom doing the same, ending up with the victory and his tongue in her ass is a threat to conventional societal norms? It should be outlawed lest some innocent child happens across it and in later years, reenacts the same?
Violence for sport, trophies, money and fame is a laudable pursuit and expenditure of time and money but do the identical acts for sexual pleasure and its a sin and left to some....should they have the political power.....it would also be a crime. Being violent is good, but being horny (recall the overfed limp dicked semi-comatose cuckold husband on the couch mentioned earlier?) and perverted is horrid? And people think I'm crazy? :)
Thursday, December 8, 2016
Can you go back to Vanilla?
(A reader contacted me privately and asked the following....reposted with his permission of course.)
Vanessa,
Do you think someone, a man or woman and a couple, once bitten by the intensity of the hotwife-cuck fem-dom dynamic, could ever be truly satisfied without it? Could they ever go back to purely "vanilla?" (Name withheld by me.)
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(My reply to "No Name"),
Vanilla?
No.
Are there other ways to get fulfillment and still be happy?
Sure.
I just view it as it being as much a part of our makeup and nature as is ones preference for the genres of books, movies or music we enjoy. Some people will always, always, always prefer classical over any other type. If suddenly there was no more classical music, they'd find something relatively close to it and still find comparative happiness with that. Apply the same to sports, or food or whatever else.
But while your question was about one sort of specific act/fetish within the larger realm (yes, you mentioned FemDom dynamic) its hard to put into context what "vanilla" is to the individual. If someone thinks oral sex is "kinky" and suddenly had to go without, there is still normal penetrative sex. So, would they still have some satisfaction? Sure.
I would point out to you that you've never been "vanilla" in the classical sense as you are bi. To a hardcore socially conservative....that's already a sin and makes you of questionable moral turpitude. Meaning a perverted freak in their eyes. So its all sort of relative to begin with.
For myself, if all avenues of "kinky sex" were suddenly cut off from me, I suppose I'd have normal intercourse a few times a year and that's it. :)
Vanessa,
Do you think someone, a man or woman and a couple, once bitten by the intensity of the hotwife-cuck fem-dom dynamic, could ever be truly satisfied without it? Could they ever go back to purely "vanilla?" (Name withheld by me.)
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(My reply to "No Name"),
Vanilla?
No.
Are there other ways to get fulfillment and still be happy?
Sure.
I just view it as it being as much a part of our makeup and nature as is ones preference for the genres of books, movies or music we enjoy. Some people will always, always, always prefer classical over any other type. If suddenly there was no more classical music, they'd find something relatively close to it and still find comparative happiness with that. Apply the same to sports, or food or whatever else.
But while your question was about one sort of specific act/fetish within the larger realm (yes, you mentioned FemDom dynamic) its hard to put into context what "vanilla" is to the individual. If someone thinks oral sex is "kinky" and suddenly had to go without, there is still normal penetrative sex. So, would they still have some satisfaction? Sure.
I would point out to you that you've never been "vanilla" in the classical sense as you are bi. To a hardcore socially conservative....that's already a sin and makes you of questionable moral turpitude. Meaning a perverted freak in their eyes. So its all sort of relative to begin with.
For myself, if all avenues of "kinky sex" were suddenly cut off from me, I suppose I'd have normal intercourse a few times a year and that's it. :)
Cuckolding Pros and Cons
Saving money on maids as the cuckold does most of the housework.
Saving money on Viagra as his ability to get erect is of no relevance to my sexual satisfaction.
Saving money on Rabbits and batteries as his well trained tongue is always at my disposal.....always.
Not having to worry about his questions of if I desire other men as they are fucking me in front of his face....literally.
Not having to worry about his questions of whether or not he was "good enough" as the answer is always......no.
Not having to worry about his questions of whether or not I came as he'll know when I soak his face and tongue.
Not having to worry about left over condom wrappers, used condoms or spilled or leaking sperm as cuckold deals with all messes.....like it or not.
Having to endlessly sift through ads and run ads and reply to ads from wanna-be Bulls who just don't get it. Having to endlessly sift through e-mails from guys that ask to be cuckolded, dominated, facesat, ballbusted, wanting to buy panties, socks, lingerie, asking for photos, videos, sexting, chats, IMs, while totally ignoring the point that my profile and/or ad clearly states I am not looking for submissive men and are not now, nor have ever been, nor ever will be a ProDom.
I get it guys, dominate women are hard to find but I'm just a simple little average housewife who happens to dominate and cuckold her husband. I don't "outsource" my sexual needs (to subs, sissies, cuckolds or wimps..... real men are welcome to apply) and I also don't run any sort of Domme/sub introduction. I wish I did and could, but I don't and can't so you have to find your own. :)
Saving money on Viagra as his ability to get erect is of no relevance to my sexual satisfaction.
Saving money on Rabbits and batteries as his well trained tongue is always at my disposal.....always.
Not having to worry about his questions of if I desire other men as they are fucking me in front of his face....literally.
Not having to worry about his questions of whether or not he was "good enough" as the answer is always......no.
Not having to worry about his questions of whether or not I came as he'll know when I soak his face and tongue.
Not having to worry about left over condom wrappers, used condoms or spilled or leaking sperm as cuckold deals with all messes.....like it or not.
Having to endlessly sift through ads and run ads and reply to ads from wanna-be Bulls who just don't get it. Having to endlessly sift through e-mails from guys that ask to be cuckolded, dominated, facesat, ballbusted, wanting to buy panties, socks, lingerie, asking for photos, videos, sexting, chats, IMs, while totally ignoring the point that my profile and/or ad clearly states I am not looking for submissive men and are not now, nor have ever been, nor ever will be a ProDom.
I get it guys, dominate women are hard to find but I'm just a simple little average housewife who happens to dominate and cuckold her husband. I don't "outsource" my sexual needs (to subs, sissies, cuckolds or wimps..... real men are welcome to apply) and I also don't run any sort of Domme/sub introduction. I wish I did and could, but I don't and can't so you have to find your own. :)
Cuckold Losers?
Do you think men that get cuckolded are losers? I saw this on a thread somewhere and it made me think about several aspects of this interesting question/accusation.
For one thing, I'm going to mostly discount the percent of married couples that use a form of cuckoldry for reproduction. That's not only a whole topic of its own, but very separate to the one that I engage in.....which is about my pleasure. Sure, technically a guy who's shooting blanks and unable to impregnate his wife could be considered to have "inferior sperm". But then that opens the door to the discussion of women who, for a multitude of reasons, are unable to become pregnant on their side of the coupling. And I never mock other women (well, with the exception of politicians, gold-diggers, Kardashians and Gwyneth Paltrow, lol) especially when it comes to a serious issue like reproduction and the enormous emotional issues that can accompany it.
No, I'm talking about the sexually inferior men with small dicks, or those that ejaculate far too soon, or those with overall lousy lovemaking, or fucking skills. Those that just simply can not rock her boat, be it wife, girlfriend or Mistress.
Now, do I see them as losers in life?
No.
A loser as far as intelligence, kindness, compassion or dedication?
No.
A loser in the ability to provide for himself and family?
No.
Economic earning potential, ability to workout, self defense or patriotism?
No.
Are they, in my book at least, "losers" in that they are unable to satisfy a woman with their penis?
Yes.
Are they losers in they have to use tongue, fingers, vibrators or other means to get her off?
Yes.
I mean I value their motivation and dedication to using whatever alternate means, methods or devices to ensure that their vastly better half has the orgasms she wants and deserves, that is commendable and I applaud them for that. But if they can't provide a long and thick cock, that can't last for at least.......say 15 minutes minimum, that hard drilling, pussy pounding, toe curling, make her squirt, swear, perhaps invoke the name of God or Jesus, type of orgasms.......yea, sexually a loser.
Do I have less respect for them as a man....as a human being....hell no.....of course not.
Do I have less respect for them as a man....as a worthy sex partner.......hell yes......I mean they're great overall, except for one thing, one tiny little inadequate thing.......:)
(As Google without warning deleted my old blogs, I'm reposting some posts I wrote in past that were stored elsewhere. For those that may have read them before, just ignore. For those that have not....they may be enjoyable to read. )
For one thing, I'm going to mostly discount the percent of married couples that use a form of cuckoldry for reproduction. That's not only a whole topic of its own, but very separate to the one that I engage in.....which is about my pleasure. Sure, technically a guy who's shooting blanks and unable to impregnate his wife could be considered to have "inferior sperm". But then that opens the door to the discussion of women who, for a multitude of reasons, are unable to become pregnant on their side of the coupling. And I never mock other women (well, with the exception of politicians, gold-diggers, Kardashians and Gwyneth Paltrow, lol) especially when it comes to a serious issue like reproduction and the enormous emotional issues that can accompany it.
No, I'm talking about the sexually inferior men with small dicks, or those that ejaculate far too soon, or those with overall lousy lovemaking, or fucking skills. Those that just simply can not rock her boat, be it wife, girlfriend or Mistress.
Now, do I see them as losers in life?
No.
A loser as far as intelligence, kindness, compassion or dedication?
No.
A loser in the ability to provide for himself and family?
No.
Economic earning potential, ability to workout, self defense or patriotism?
No.
Are they, in my book at least, "losers" in that they are unable to satisfy a woman with their penis?
Yes.
Are they losers in they have to use tongue, fingers, vibrators or other means to get her off?
Yes.
I mean I value their motivation and dedication to using whatever alternate means, methods or devices to ensure that their vastly better half has the orgasms she wants and deserves, that is commendable and I applaud them for that. But if they can't provide a long and thick cock, that can't last for at least.......say 15 minutes minimum, that hard drilling, pussy pounding, toe curling, make her squirt, swear, perhaps invoke the name of God or Jesus, type of orgasms.......yea, sexually a loser.
Do I have less respect for them as a man....as a human being....hell no.....of course not.
Do I have less respect for them as a man....as a worthy sex partner.......hell yes......I mean they're great overall, except for one thing, one tiny little inadequate thing.......:)
(As Google without warning deleted my old blogs, I'm reposting some posts I wrote in past that were stored elsewhere. For those that may have read them before, just ignore. For those that have not....they may be enjoyable to read. )
Transparent Homophobic Comments?
Have you ever noticed that whenever any homophobic nutcase wants to protest the advances in equality for gays and lesbians they almost invariably use the following two terms?
"Stop shoving your homosexual rights in my face!"
"Stop shoving your gay rights down my throat!"
What are we to glean from this? A little Freudian slip? I mean they see gay rights (and gay people in general) as being nothing other then cock sucking and/or pussy eating lesbians right? Is that why they always refer to either the face or mouth/throat? You never see one of them proclaim loudly in a public setting, "Stop shoving your gay business up my ass!"
At least I've never heard anyone say that.
Sad how they can't grasp that this is simply today's version of the civil rights movement of the 50's and 60's. Or women's struggle to gain parity in compensation, or our right to vote and all those other "pesky" little issues that we bother the white male dominated power structure with. :)
"Stop shoving your homosexual rights in my face!"
"Stop shoving your gay rights down my throat!"
What are we to glean from this? A little Freudian slip? I mean they see gay rights (and gay people in general) as being nothing other then cock sucking and/or pussy eating lesbians right? Is that why they always refer to either the face or mouth/throat? You never see one of them proclaim loudly in a public setting, "Stop shoving your gay business up my ass!"
At least I've never heard anyone say that.
Sad how they can't grasp that this is simply today's version of the civil rights movement of the 50's and 60's. Or women's struggle to gain parity in compensation, or our right to vote and all those other "pesky" little issues that we bother the white male dominated power structure with. :)
Saucy Faux Sex Experts.
I freely admit to being sort of out of the loop on many things but increasingly I've come across a plethora of videos on YouTube with little 20 year olds blathering on and on about a variety of sexual fetishes and kinks.....that they seem to have zero understanding of.
What I don't get is......why? I can't see any indication they are doing it for financial gain, no sign of potential remuneration so that can't be the impetus. Based on their own comments they don't engage in any fetish type lifestyle so its not based on personal desires nor interest. I can only assume its a rather shallow need to be "seen" on a social media site. I guess the need for fame makes them bloviate on topics they know nothing about with the hopes of filling some void in their shallow lives. Its just stupid though....its like an English only speaking atheist saying Mass....in Latin, lol.
What is disturbing is that viewers will see them as an "expert" and assume the garbage they're spewing is fact or reality. Its not.....and it contributes to the endless dumbing down of Americans (and others). It also helps to ensure that with the fallacious diatribes their selling, more confused people with a sincere and genuine desire to find a suitable partner.....won't. Unrealistic expectations, false hopes and misinformation does not assist others in finding a mate when the information being feed to them is so totally wrong.
Its just so sad. Sex and my style of Female Domination rule has been a huge part of my life and very fulfilling to me. I hate the thought that some might go their whole lives never being able to experience the same thing...because the "advice" their getting is from people that have zero knowledge about it.
What I don't get is......why? I can't see any indication they are doing it for financial gain, no sign of potential remuneration so that can't be the impetus. Based on their own comments they don't engage in any fetish type lifestyle so its not based on personal desires nor interest. I can only assume its a rather shallow need to be "seen" on a social media site. I guess the need for fame makes them bloviate on topics they know nothing about with the hopes of filling some void in their shallow lives. Its just stupid though....its like an English only speaking atheist saying Mass....in Latin, lol.
What is disturbing is that viewers will see them as an "expert" and assume the garbage they're spewing is fact or reality. Its not.....and it contributes to the endless dumbing down of Americans (and others). It also helps to ensure that with the fallacious diatribes their selling, more confused people with a sincere and genuine desire to find a suitable partner.....won't. Unrealistic expectations, false hopes and misinformation does not assist others in finding a mate when the information being feed to them is so totally wrong.
Its just so sad. Sex and my style of Female Domination rule has been a huge part of my life and very fulfilling to me. I hate the thought that some might go their whole lives never being able to experience the same thing...because the "advice" their getting is from people that have zero knowledge about it.
Foods that elevate sex drive.
Can Foods Increase a Male's Sex Drive?
http://www.livestrong.com/article/15492-what-foods-increase-males-sex/
Foods To Increase Libido.
http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_200/230_love_tip.html
11 Foods to Get Your Sex Drive Going Naturally.
http://www.organicauthority.com/mojo-foods/11-foods-that-get-your-sex-drive-going-naturally.html
Because a well fed and healthy Bull will fuck you so much better....and (if its your sort of thing) leave behind some healthy sperm for a tasty little cuckolds treat. :)
http://www.livestrong.com/article/15492-what-foods-increase-males-sex/
Foods To Increase Libido.
http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_200/230_love_tip.html
11 Foods to Get Your Sex Drive Going Naturally.
http://www.organicauthority.com/mojo-foods/11-foods-that-get-your-sex-drive-going-naturally.html
Because a well fed and healthy Bull will fuck you so much better....and (if its your sort of thing) leave behind some healthy sperm for a tasty little cuckolds treat. :)
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