I'm just using the same "sanitized" photos that I used for my Etsy shop, where graphic content isn't allowed. Hence the blotched out face on him, and the lovely mannequin. :)
Friday, July 29, 2016
Smothering Bench.
While some people with an interest in smothering prefer a box, I wanted to build something higher off the floor and with more "body to face" direct contact. So I made one of these a couple months ago and have really enjoyed using it. Anything I make for sale has to be "product tested" by me first to meet my standards...and this does....here it is.
I'm just using the same "sanitized" photos that I used for my Etsy shop, where graphic content isn't allowed. Hence the blotched out face on him, and the lovely mannequin. :)
I'm just using the same "sanitized" photos that I used for my Etsy shop, where graphic content isn't allowed. Hence the blotched out face on him, and the lovely mannequin. :)
Thursday, July 28, 2016
Sissy, cuckold, chastity, maid, spanking apron
Sissy, cuckold, chastity, spanking apron. Swishy panel in front allows for access to the cock and balls for whatever reasons or purposes. I don't have any "male" mannequins. :)
https://www.etsy.com/shop/VanessaChalandStudio?ele=shop_open
https://www.etsy.com/shop/VanessaChalandStudio?ele=shop_open
Wednesday, July 27, 2016
Tuesday, July 26, 2016
Spanking - 1950s Household.
I'm just curious roughly what percent of the people that enjoy this unique dynamic are interested in the 50s household, fashion, lifestyle and era? No real point to my question other than I'm always interested in what shapes us as human beings, how things are interrelated and of course that applies to peoples intimate lives as well.
Because of the era that it was, most conversation revolving around the "1950s Household" (as a fetish) would be primarily male dominated. Meaning patriarchal rule, influenced by the times, religion and so forth. I think in fact, the reality was a bit different.
(I'm not making this next point/comment in a lighthearted fashion...not at all. Obviously the 50s were immediately preceded by the 40s and the horrors of WW2. Somewhere in the vicinity of a half million US soldiers died, millions wounded in one form or another. Additionally, we all know of the racism, oppression of gays, women and everything else that existed in that era. And for the record I do not think people should hit kids...at all.)
There were many households runs by women (above is just one potential example) and as people tended to stay where they were born more so then, and families were larger, no doubt many young men grew up surrounded by older sisters, older female cousins, aunts, grandmothers and mother. And in most cases women stayed at home and ran the household, often also delegating the chores such as gardening, chopping wood (wood shed?) tending various livestock (pigs, chickens, milk cows etc) as many people lived on small homestead type farms.
So, I think there was a great deal of influence by women. Kids were generally watched closely, by their own relatives and the women from next door and down the street who had a very similar lifestyle. Proper manners and respect was not only expected, but demanded. And there would have been no shortage of able bodies women around to enforce rules and apply discipline when needed. And as many know, many young men (even into early teens) were subjected to a variety of discipline measures. My point is just that its quite possible that many young people were shaped by this. In some good ways, and in some bad ways. Times were hard. But one could consider that this version of a strong "mother figure" might factor into the development of quite a few peoples fantasies.....and later reality.
Because of the era that it was, most conversation revolving around the "1950s Household" (as a fetish) would be primarily male dominated. Meaning patriarchal rule, influenced by the times, religion and so forth. I think in fact, the reality was a bit different.
(I'm not making this next point/comment in a lighthearted fashion...not at all. Obviously the 50s were immediately preceded by the 40s and the horrors of WW2. Somewhere in the vicinity of a half million US soldiers died, millions wounded in one form or another. Additionally, we all know of the racism, oppression of gays, women and everything else that existed in that era. And for the record I do not think people should hit kids...at all.)
There were many households runs by women (above is just one potential example) and as people tended to stay where they were born more so then, and families were larger, no doubt many young men grew up surrounded by older sisters, older female cousins, aunts, grandmothers and mother. And in most cases women stayed at home and ran the household, often also delegating the chores such as gardening, chopping wood (wood shed?) tending various livestock (pigs, chickens, milk cows etc) as many people lived on small homestead type farms.
So, I think there was a great deal of influence by women. Kids were generally watched closely, by their own relatives and the women from next door and down the street who had a very similar lifestyle. Proper manners and respect was not only expected, but demanded. And there would have been no shortage of able bodies women around to enforce rules and apply discipline when needed. And as many know, many young men (even into early teens) were subjected to a variety of discipline measures. My point is just that its quite possible that many young people were shaped by this. In some good ways, and in some bad ways. Times were hard. But one could consider that this version of a strong "mother figure" might factor into the development of quite a few peoples fantasies.....and later reality.
Anti-LGBTQ Activists Are Beginning To Realize ‘We Don’t Win Anymore’.
Good. On this issue its past time for them to grow the hell up and mind their own business. :)
Monday, July 25, 2016
Camping? Cuckold Camping??
Would you sleep in this? Would you have sex in this? Would you have sex with your lover in this while your cuckold watched from outside and above? A variation on the old saying:
"Don't come knocking if the....plastic tube attached the side of the mountain...is rocking. :)
"Don't come knocking if the....plastic tube attached the side of the mountain...is rocking. :)
Taking our Country back.
Who else is sick of the political season?
Everyone.
I'm part Native American.
When I hear people say "Take Our Country Back", I wonder from whom?
Submissive Men.....
Speaking for myself only of course.....I would not want a submissive guy who was a doormat. I consider myself to be sexually dominant, and in that regard I set the agenda, the tone, the pace and want my needs met. However, outside of what I just mentioned, I want the guy to have his own interests, his own opinions and his own life. I want him to be intelligent, well read, to speak his own mind and to think for himself.
There is a fine line between being submissive, and almost being sort of a "burden" or like a child where I would be expected to be a 24/7 caretaker, have to make all the decisions, have to control everything, have to initiate everything, it would become more of a "job" than it was worth.
If I'm voting for candidate X, and my submissive wants candidate Y, he should by all means vote his conscious. If I prefer waffles over pancakes I wouldn't want him to deprive himself of pancakes just to please me. Sort of "out there" examples but you get my point.
Forgetting for one moment the domination/submission dynamic of this, just like any vanilla relationship you want someone that is happy, fun, engaging, entertaining, passionate and compassionate, with motivation and drive and numerous other facets that appeal to you and bring something positive to your life. So you know, be real, be who you are because everyone appreciates sincerity and authenticity. :)
There is a fine line between being submissive, and almost being sort of a "burden" or like a child where I would be expected to be a 24/7 caretaker, have to make all the decisions, have to control everything, have to initiate everything, it would become more of a "job" than it was worth.
If I'm voting for candidate X, and my submissive wants candidate Y, he should by all means vote his conscious. If I prefer waffles over pancakes I wouldn't want him to deprive himself of pancakes just to please me. Sort of "out there" examples but you get my point.
Forgetting for one moment the domination/submission dynamic of this, just like any vanilla relationship you want someone that is happy, fun, engaging, entertaining, passionate and compassionate, with motivation and drive and numerous other facets that appeal to you and bring something positive to your life. So you know, be real, be who you are because everyone appreciates sincerity and authenticity. :)
Sunday, July 24, 2016
Saturday, July 23, 2016
Women I Greatly Admire.
Once in awhile I may post about a variety of women that have influenced me in so many different ways. These women are not so much known for the their "sex appeal" though all women are appealing....so that's already a given right? :)
I'm talking more about journalists, authors, small business owners, social activists and others from various professions that, in some ways, broke ground into what were mostly male dominated fields, and are also sometimes very vocal on controversial topics and in their opinions. Which is a good thing. Controversy and voicing alternate ideas and opinions is what makes us (everyone) challenge ourselves to rethink and relook at what influence us to draw the conclusions we already have formed.
So, for todays post the "Woman I Admire" is: Francesca Stavrakopoulou. Who is "Professor of Hebrew Bible and Ancient Religion at the University of Exeter and head of its Department of Theology and Religion". https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Francesca_Stavrakopoulou
I'm talking more about journalists, authors, small business owners, social activists and others from various professions that, in some ways, broke ground into what were mostly male dominated fields, and are also sometimes very vocal on controversial topics and in their opinions. Which is a good thing. Controversy and voicing alternate ideas and opinions is what makes us (everyone) challenge ourselves to rethink and relook at what influence us to draw the conclusions we already have formed.
So, for todays post the "Woman I Admire" is: Francesca Stavrakopoulou. Who is "Professor of Hebrew Bible and Ancient Religion at the University of Exeter and head of its Department of Theology and Religion". https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Francesca_Stavrakopoulou
You can find many clips of her on YouTube engaging in some spirited debates with some cranky old guys that...based on their body language....dislike her degrees, her intelligence, and that she is so articulate in presenting her polemic where she usually....kicks their butts. :)
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