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Sunday, July 10, 2016
Sex Workers to Be Decriminalized.
MPs Are Calling for Sex Workers to Be Decriminalized. Pity the leaders of backasswards America can't find enough "stones" (while wearing their wife's panties which is encasing a chastity device and an ass dildo) to do the same. Because you know...."family values". :)
Saturday, July 9, 2016
Face Sitting - Queening - Female Domination Art (Hentai)
Someone sent me this link and I found it interesting and amusing. :)
Thursday, July 7, 2016
Pussy Access Mostly Denied.
I was trying to figure out how many times a year I allow my cuckold husband to put his dick inside me. We would have to subtract about a week to a week and a half from every month for obvious reasons (feminine) so that would deduct about say...16 weeks or so. That is about 4 months from 12 leaving roughly 8 months for his potential for “access”.
If I am feeling generous, he might be allowed to fuck me once a month. If I am busy with lovers it might be more like once every month and a half to two months. So we could estimate that my cuckold is allowed to fuck me about 6 times a year. Which is really odd if you think about it as if I have a good lover that is available, often, I might fuck him 6 times in one month...or a week. :)
Of course he does spend a great deal of time between my thighs. Just not like a “normal” man would, with his cock, but rather with his face buried down there eating, licking, sucking and making me come. Obviously as I design and build Queening Thrones those get quite a bit of use, but he also provides oral service at other times. One of my favorites is when I'm just out of the shower, standing in front of the mirror, drying my hair, applying make-up and having him kneel behind me and I'll reach around and grab his hair and pretty much slam his face into my ass where his tongue can lick my asshole while I finish. That “move” alone always makes me wet and will often make me squirt just a tiny bit. Especially if it is right before my dating another man. :)
If I am feeling generous, he might be allowed to fuck me once a month. If I am busy with lovers it might be more like once every month and a half to two months. So we could estimate that my cuckold is allowed to fuck me about 6 times a year. Which is really odd if you think about it as if I have a good lover that is available, often, I might fuck him 6 times in one month...or a week. :)
Of course he does spend a great deal of time between my thighs. Just not like a “normal” man would, with his cock, but rather with his face buried down there eating, licking, sucking and making me come. Obviously as I design and build Queening Thrones those get quite a bit of use, but he also provides oral service at other times. One of my favorites is when I'm just out of the shower, standing in front of the mirror, drying my hair, applying make-up and having him kneel behind me and I'll reach around and grab his hair and pretty much slam his face into my ass where his tongue can lick my asshole while I finish. That “move” alone always makes me wet and will often make me squirt just a tiny bit. Especially if it is right before my dating another man. :)
Sexual Female Domination Training..
I’m sure that the reason why I enjoy punishing a man’s balls more than any other part of his body is because of his extreme vulnerability. Sure, spanking his bottom and thighs is very intense and fun for me, but there is something special about causing pain to the most sensitive area he has. My little Cocky is very obedient, and tries very hard to hold still for punishment, but I don’t make it very easy for him.
There are several ways I go about punishing him this way. One is slapping, I slap his dick on the sides, and when I slap his balls, I slap from underneath. Standing is the best way to get momentum, since Cocky is quite taller than I. I also like to punch his balls, always from underneath, sitting in a chair, because when punching, you do not need so much momentum.
Another way to inflict pain on Cocky’s balls is flicking. Using my first and second finger, flicking his balls from all angles. Kicking is probably the most fun for me. Ballbusting can be done with or without shoes, and wearing shoes can definitely reinforce my authority, but I personally enjoy ballbusting barefoot the most. To me it is more of an intimate act with skin to skin contact. Also, I can better control pressure barefoot, building up from light, pleasant bumping to grimace inducing impacts. His upper body jerks forward, and the sounds that are forced from him make me smile.
All of these acts are performed with Cocky standing in front of me, however there is one exception. When I’m sitting on Cocky’s face, I sometimes use the riding crop on his balls to encourage him to do well. The slaps needn't be so hard in this instance, because he is already very nervous being in such a vulnerable position. Add to that his growing suspense knowing any second my pussy will gush my come all over his face, and any small smack of the crop is all that’s needed to get my point across.
Taking control of your man sexually is not nearly as difficult as many may initially think.
Fortunately, I live in a free society where I am free to choose who I have sex with, and many women forget they have this freedom. I am in charge of my pussy and who gets to access it and when. Just because I like how a man looks, or how perfect his body is, or how sexually talented he says he is doesn't mean he can please me, and it doesn't just get him a ticket to ride. My cuckold boyfriend is learning the hard way, as I have slowly introduced rules, rules that ensure he will give me what I need before he even thinks of his own pleasure.
I introduce the training with a promise that I will only fuck his dick after he licks me to my hearts content. In the beginning of his oral training, I allow him to pleasure himself while doing so. This quickly makes him associate licking my pussy with his own pleasure. Also, I don’t say very much, I just allow him to enjoy, sometimes just reminding him that I must come first if he is allowed access to my silky pussy. I even give him access easily during this part of the training, so he will know what he’s being denied later. After a few face-sitting sessions like this, he is eager to lick me, he wants to serve me with his mouth and make me come, he starts to request it before I bring it up.
Slowly but surely I turn things around, I make more demands of him, give more instruction, inflict more pain on his balls. Facesitting is presented as a reward for good behavior, telling him if he gives me a foot massage, cleans my kitchen, and does my laundry, maybe I will wet his tongue with my come. I encourage him by giving him a treat, I place my finger into my pussy, and then rub my finger across his lips and under his nose. This keeps my scent right there with him while he works, reminding him of his goal. He gets to the point where he knows his goal isn't to have an orgasm, it is to give me orgasms.
Face-sitting is most pleasurable for me, and I want it for hours at a time. To guarantee this will happen, sometimes a ruined orgasm is necessary. A ruined orgasm is an important tool, for it prolongs the amount of time he is aroused. If he didn't get to complete his orgasm, his balls still ache, his desire to please still intact, and he remains useful, ready to resume his oral training.
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Links for my paperback books via CreateSpace (owned by Amazon).
Female Domination: Cross Dressers, Sissies and Cuckolds
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FemDom Evolution; I Became Sexually Dominant For Tongue https://www.createspace.com/4642129
The Cuckold Hotel La Cornudo Albergo https://www.createspace.com/4407424
Dominant Women: Where and How to Meet the FemDom of your Dreams https://www.createspace.com/4129264
Queening and Facesitting Chair Designs of FetishFurnitureFactory.com https://www.createspace.com/3763698
FemDom Training of Submissive Males
https://www.createspace.com/3729534
Squirter's Paradise: Female Ejaculation! Wet musings on owning your body's sensual gushing gifts!
https://www.createspace.com/3707392
Cuckold Letters: Evolution of a Cuckoldress
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Cuckold Journal: Wet Options: Cuckold Letters II The Married Years https://www.createspace.com/3970589
Wednesday, July 6, 2016
Queening Chair for Use on a Bed.
When I designed this Queening Chair (or is it a Queening Throne?) my intention was to enable the submissive to lay flat on their back on a comfortable bed (its adjustable to any height bed).
Then the person on the bottom can just slide their head under the seat portion where....where all the lovely female "business" is, to provide oral service. It works better than I had hoped, and is lighter than one would expect so it can be easily stuffed into a closet or wherever if one is entertaining guests of a more "sensitive" nature. :)
http://www.amazon.com/Vanessa-Chaland/e/B008B9W8KC
http://www.fetishfurniturefactory.com
https://www.etsy.com/shop/VanessaChalandStudio
Then the person on the bottom can just slide their head under the seat portion where....where all the lovely female "business" is, to provide oral service. It works better than I had hoped, and is lighter than one would expect so it can be easily stuffed into a closet or wherever if one is entertaining guests of a more "sensitive" nature. :)
http://www.fetishfurniturefactory.com
https://www.etsy.com/shop/VanessaChalandStudio
Tuesday, July 5, 2016
Cuckold Teasing Comments.
"Eventually, it's very possible that I could have his cock in my mouth. I will tell you every detail, because if things go well, you may have to be near his cock, and you should know what you are getting your little cuckold balls into. His cock will certainly be large, but will it be normal-large? Or will it be super-big? I will be sure you know either way."
"I know I don't have much to say about this yet, but see nothing has really happened. But like all cuckolds, you will have to wait and see what your hotwife does. Also, make sure you pick out some sexy panties for me to wear Tuesday, and that I have a condom in my purse ready to go. I will make sure you get both back when I return...."
"Are you not curious Cocky? Don't you really want to know what his semen looks like? I know you would just love to see end result of how much I can turn on a real man. You may get a closer look than you ever wanted, I may have to show you how powerful my pussy realy is, to coax so much sperm from a real man's balls......."
"I know I don't have much to say about this yet, but see nothing has really happened. But like all cuckolds, you will have to wait and see what your hotwife does. Also, make sure you pick out some sexy panties for me to wear Tuesday, and that I have a condom in my purse ready to go. I will make sure you get both back when I return...."
"Are you not curious Cocky? Don't you really want to know what his semen looks like? I know you would just love to see end result of how much I can turn on a real man. You may get a closer look than you ever wanted, I may have to show you how powerful my pussy realy is, to coax so much sperm from a real man's balls......."
Monday, July 4, 2016
Queening Chairs - Face Sitting Thrones - Smother Boxes.
This one was just finished and I like how it came out. Its compact, but still seems durable and quite comfortable. I'm really enjoying messing around with a variety of materials to see what I come up with and trying to stick mostly to renewable sources. Its sort of a challenge because so few people do it, I have to use my brain more than usual to figure out how to make them structurally sound. Some will be less atheistic, but they are also many, many times cheaper than what most other people sell them for. And, not unlike the exercise equipment that people have around their home collecting dust, some people will use these sporadically and in that case, it makes no sense paying a small fortune. And as many people have kids or nosy family members, a compact chair that can be easily placed in a closest and have a shirt thrown on to cover it making it innocuous is a plus I think. :)
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Friday, July 1, 2016
Female Dominance and the Lap...Over the Knee Spanking.
Just a personal opinion here, but I pretty much feel that OTK spanking should be the cornerstone of any Female Led Relationship. Whether you are dominating him sexually only, or throughout the day, or 24/7, the knowledge that at any moment he may find himself in the humiliating position with his pants down around his ankles while you spank his bare bottom....encourages good behavior. :)
Where are my blogs? Google deleted them. :)
I had a few blogs some time back. Some that I'd been running for years, as in maybe 8 or 9 years. One day when I logged in....they were gone. Totally gone. 1000s of posts, numerous loyal readers, millions and million of hits....poof. Gone.
Some may recall this: Adult Content to be Censored. After an outcry of censorship, they capitulated publically....but then went ahead and killed innumerable blogs anyway.
So, if for some reason this new blog suddenly goes away....it was not done by my own volition but rather the powers that be that are that almighty deity...the Google Bot. :)
Some may recall this: Adult Content to be Censored. After an outcry of censorship, they capitulated publically....but then went ahead and killed innumerable blogs anyway.
So, if for some reason this new blog suddenly goes away....it was not done by my own volition but rather the powers that be that are that almighty deity...the Google Bot. :)
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