What causes sexual attraction? Why does one person turn you on, and another simply will not. What if they look very similar? What if they were identical twins and one made you all hot and horny, the other was sort of...meh, whatever?
I was out earlier today for a "coffee date" with a potential new lover. The whole "Bull Vetting" process (It sounds like something a veterinarian does with cattle.) is both exciting, yet sometimes cumbersome and taxing. There is that obvious thrill, that spark, new guy, new body, new "meat" and then if it fizzles, a bit of disappointment and confusion on my part why he didn't "measure up".
Certainly we all know what we find attractive right? I mean for me its intelligence, confidence, cleanliness, height, muscles, well groomed, polite but not so much that it comes across like submissive or "wussiness" or desperation as if he's willing to say or do anything, adopting any sort of stance or role within his vacillating personality, just to get inside my pants. That's sort of the opposite of confidence really. And of course a good size cock and balls and the knowledge of how to use them properly for my satisfaction.
So this guy initially met all those parameters but then when we met...nothing. And I still can not place my fingertips on the what and why of my reaction, or I guess lack of reaction would be more accurate. Pheromones? Something in his mannerisms? The way he sat, or stirred his latte, or a tilt of the head, a laugh, the sound of his voice?
Nope, that all checked out. All I know is he was ready and willing, and I had to "Deny this Bull" (Deniable). So...I don't get it. And if I don't "get it" pretty damn soon...things are going to get ugly around here. :)
